Do your buddies know what you do?

[Khost]

Very interesting thread! I've been tempted to brag about some of the hot ladies I've been with and experiences that I've had but never did say anything. It feels good to keep something as joyful as this a secret and only for yourself (And the SPs of course)

 

[raymann]

1. It's not a waste of money. It has been proven several times that it's actually cheaper in short-term, medium-term, and long-term to pay for it directly. As the saying goes, the most expensive sex is free.
2. "Get a girlfriend instead". --- "Sure, set me up with your sister/cousin/niece, etc." ---- "Mmmmm..."

 

[raymann]

I'm curious, what is their argument against your participation? If you don't mind sharing...

There are 2 types of people who are against this:

1. Men who can't do it themselves, i.e. already in a relationship, afraid, etc.
2. Women who feel threatened by the prospect that what they are trying to sell at the price of a house can be bought at a much better rate with better quality

Interestingly enough, the 2nd groups is the most vocal.

 

[Thehouse]

I once told my mom , she didn’t believe me.
I was about 30 years old and she 70.

Told my dad and all he said was “oh”?
I wanted to get it off my chest. Lol.

 

[Shanghai]

Facebook and Google likely knows. Anyone who doesn't explicitly log out and clear their cookies and trackers and shit, these sites collect background on anyone else that uses their API to track customers.

Everyone could say "yes" the moment Perb got hacked and all the IP addresses were matched up to physical locations and lined up with their perb handles. Even one subpeona of a member by a wife in a custody battle would provide enless hours of gossip fodder and scandalous entertainment for the masses.

This would be equivalent to the heyday of johnwatchers where wives would be looking up their husband's license plate numbers.

So, yeah. No.

 

[maniacalone]

Yea a few of my friends do and they always encourage me to stop

Misery loves company. Do what makes you happy.

 

[Avioneto123]

Yes,one of my friends know ,as he also participates in the hobby, and we exchange notes and talk about our experiences. Its good to get info without the BS.

 

[Wakeup]

Ya mostly, others seem to assume it seems by comments that i do not respond to , a few of us travel together. That is fun.

 

[Bunghole1]

I was in Mexico with a crew of friends before covid and we had loads of insane beauties coming to our resort. It was heavenly.

 

[ExpCharlee]

A philosophical take:

There was a time when I kind of hinted to friends that I hobbied. This was before it exploded on the internet. None of them took me seriously, as ALL guys talk big.

One good friend David asked me, "Is there a way that I could have sex for 200-300 dollars?" I told him, "Yes, there is. But, because I really like you and care about you, I DON'T want to tell you."

He was cool about it. He said, "Yeah, I can imagine that it could become very addicting."

Make no mistake: Had he partaken, he would have had countless good times.

The thing to remember, is the EMOTIONAL toll that it takes on everybody: The women, the men, the bookers, the owners of the agencies. EVERYBODY gets taken through the "emotional ringer." If I were to ever introduce a guy into this world, I would let him know that. At the end of the day, we are all still HUMANS, dealing with this

As much as this is a business first and foremost, this hobby has a very emotional impact on everybody involved.

REI,
TJM

I’m over here reading this scratching my head after sex work has helped heal all my civ sexual trauma, inflated my ego, fine-tuned my sense of self-love (physical and emotional), and helped me to enjoy sex more than I ever have in my life.

 

[Miss Hunter]

A philosophical take:

There was a time when I kind of hinted to friends that I hobbied. This was before it exploded on the internet. None of them took me seriously, as ALL guys talk big.

One good friend David asked me, "Is there a way that I could have sex for 200-300 dollars?" I told him, "Yes, there is. But, because I really like you and care about you, I DON'T want to tell you."

He was cool about it. He said, "Yeah, I can imagine that it could become very addicting."

Make no mistake: Had he partaken, he would have had countless good times.

The thing to remember, is the EMOTIONAL toll that it takes on everybody: The women, the men, the bookers, the owners of the agencies. EVERYBODY gets taken through the "emotional ringer." If I were to ever introduce a guy into this world, I would let him know that. At the end of the day, we are all still HUMANS, dealing with this

As much as this is a business first and foremost, this hobby has a very emotional impact on everybody involved.

REI,
TJM

I hit complete emotional bankruptcy a few years ago.

My emotional reserves are once again getting low.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

The emotional impact on SP's is infinitely greater than on us pooners. Or that is how I would see it. But as a pooner, in pretty much each case after sex I am high. Endorphins, dopamine and deadly semen backup all released and I feel good, mentally, physically and emotionally all nicely balanced. More power to our SP's for doing what they do.

 

[GeeBeeP]

Nope, It's a secret all my own. I'd trust some of my friends with my life but this is different. A slip of the tongue after a few beers in the wrong company could spell disaster and it's just not worth the risk. I can't say I've never been tempted to reveal some of the great experiences I've had, but I keep my mouth shut and the memories to myself.

 

[GeeBeeP]

And yes!!! Absolutely bravo to the SP's who have to keep their profession a secret from family and friends. This is an enjoyable part of my life but I can't imagine not being able to talk about my job with anyone.

 

[JoeYukihara]

Most of my close friends that know just ask me questions because they're married with kids

 

[Lets Review]

All of my friends that are mature enough to handle it know.

 

[lukom]

Most don't.

 

[Miss Hunter]

There are 2 types of people who are against this:

1. Men who can't do it themselves, i.e. already in a relationship, afraid, etc.
2. Women who feel threatened by the prospect that what they are trying to sell at the price of a house can be bought at a much better rate with better quality

Interestingly enough, the 2nd groups is the most vocal.

3. Some men are perfectly ok with the existence of the worlds oldest profession, but they just can’t handle any woman they care for being in it.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

3. Some men are perfectly ok with the existence of the worlds oldest profession, but they just can’t handle any woman they care for being in it.

And THAT, is one profound statement ...

 

[milemiles]

I have never discussed this with anyone.