Right or wrong is just the state of one's mind. I am happy for you if you feel this is your life's goal or you feel accomplished in this industry.
Do you think age equals maturity when it comes to SP's?
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isnt porn addiction more rampant amongst younger men, and men who dont have much sex?
I don’t need feel the need to disclose how many clients I see per week, as that is quite a personal question, and quantity doesn’t equal quality as I have many clients who get multiple hour dates, but I do make a 6 figure salary. What I make in this industry as well as the independence I have in it doesn’t come close to when I used to be an educator, web designer or office administrator… or any other civ job I have had.
No, these are friends who are providers I know where we have talked to one another on our own social time, or one on one conversations, not just social media posts. It’s a misnomer that young providers are the ones making the most amount of money in this industry or are even the most desired.
Nope , all ages . I’ve literally done sessions directly to help men who have broken themselves with it (porn) , older is worse as your “member” needs all the natural stimulant you can get as your not a walking boner anymore .
I stopped seeing a client who was in his early 70s who would watch porn and jerk off before sessions to make me “work for the money “ . Takes so much excitement out of it . No thanks .
This isn’t my life’s goal, but after working 9-5 civ jobs that were not helping me get ahead, being off work a few months due to a major injury, not getting child support a year straight from my ex husband who was a dead beat until I won my court case a year ago with student loan debt and debt my ex husband put me into (he’s a gambling addict)… this industry helped me get debt free, where I have been making investments for a year for my kids future & mine. I have been able to achieve goals in my life I never thought I would, thanks to SW, and being a mature SWer. I see this industry as a stepping stone to where I want to be, but I also love my job, have amazing clients, and can’t see ever fully retiring, even when I figure out my future career endeavours, as I am working on going back to college one more time.
Honestly I think it was my life goal , watching my parents work blue collar & never achieve any of their dreams .
I started out wanting the biggest bang for my time . Always been an entrepreneur, love every min of it 🥰
I can very much relate. Even if I were to decide to go into a new civ career I won’t be retiring. I enjoy the independence SW gives me, & thrive when I’m self employed and an entrepreneur as well. I also have watched friends and family work their lives away in civ jobs that take over their lives where they don’t achieve goals or truly live their lives. I also have always enjoy sleeping with strangers… so why not get paid for it?
I literally remember saying when I was about 6-7 years old , “I hope my grandparents die early cause I want to be naked and talk about sex”, like in the mags my dad had “hidden”
Ya’ll think you hide them … 🤭 nope
I have never seen a younger woman get upset if men are attracted to older woman, but seeing older woman get upset at men being attracted to younger woman is common. Wouldnt a mature person not care
It's very weird analogy but whatever, your life, your choice. Also comparing it to entrepreneurship is amazing is that you made yourself a product to sell.
Oh man you guys really don’t have a clue , I’ve owned 3 different businesses while being a sex worker , and love every type I’ve been involved in , stop being so close minded , you realize for most of us who are true entrepreneurs this helps tremendously keep other avenues going . Grow up , many people “sell “ their bodies for entertainment. Exactly how many sports do you think you’d be watching if that was the case lol ?
You are coming up with multiple funny arguments and reasoning to show you are at amazing juntcture. But literally, sexualised comments at you childhood, making escorting your life goal, owning 3 businesses while 500 an hour feels achievement is really hilarious. Calling me closed minded or childish won't change any of this and miles away from maturity.
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I know many succesful people, and business owners. non of them talk like you.
The sports analogy is bonkers, hate to break it to you but you arent making millions of dollars a year selling your body.
you arent exactly displaying much maturity in this thread. i'll stick to the healthy woman in their 20s, they seem alot more mature and succesful than you.
Omg read before spewing . Nowhere did I make reference to millions 🙄 I said many people sell their bodies , as a business, move on .
There is no competition in this thread about younger vs more mature women.
Nowhere in this thread was it a younger escorts vs more mature aged escorts. I personally wanted to clear up some misinformation as youth doesn’t equate beauty, desire or success in this industry, which seems to be implied by some members. There will be some clients who prefer younger women, some prefer older. There’s so many different demographics of providers out there, but there is no need to insult providers based on their age, or anything for that fact.
Tbh this thread has really gotten out of hand. There is no need for insults or snide remarks to one another, even if you disagree. Agree to disagree and move on.
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It's unfortunate and sad to see the responses and opinions that have been displayed on this post. The irony is, the original question posed was based around maturity and what transpired was a display of total
scrutiny and immaturity.
Ladies, as much as I appreciate you upholding the integrity of your being, your success, your demographic within this industry, you owe these small minded people nothing. You know your place and what you
provide at any age.
We as sex workers already live each day just wanting the respect of our jobs. As sex work is work and we know it! I refuse to let the small and closed minded perpetuate the stereotypes of a prostitute, or that as women
we downgrade in sex and sex appeal as we get older. Sexiness can most definitely be with you for a lifetime and just know when to hang up your heels.
As a girl who began this journey as a teenager, taking a long hiatus and returning as a mature woman, it has shown me that nothing has changed. I HAVE CHANGED! As long as providers are out there offering their strengths,
there are customers who are paying for it. Experience is valuable towards us older women and don't let these mocking ideals get your g-strings in a knot.
I shall bounce off this post with my own motto that I coined for myself, as it is so real and so true....."I learned how to be a heaux from a man (*days of streetwalkers and pimps), but, I learned how to cultivate being a
heaux, by becoming a WOMAN". With that, I have loved, I have lost, I have raised a family and I have experienced the real world around me, which has benefited me as an escort.
scrutiny and immaturity.
Ladies, as much as I appreciate you upholding the integrity of your being, your success, your demographic within this industry, you owe these small minded people nothing. You know your place and what you
provide at any age.
We as sex workers already live each day just wanting the respect of our jobs. As sex work is work and we know it! I refuse to let the small and closed minded perpetuate the stereotypes of a prostitute, or that as women
we downgrade in sex and sex appeal as we get older. Sexiness can most definitely be with you for a lifetime and just know when to hang up your heels.
As a girl who began this journey as a teenager, taking a long hiatus and returning as a mature woman, it has shown me that nothing has changed. I HAVE CHANGED! As long as providers are out there offering their strengths,
there are customers who are paying for it. Experience is valuable towards us older women and don't let these mocking ideals get your g-strings in a knot.
I shall bounce off this post with my own motto that I coined for myself, as it is so real and so true....."I learned how to be a heaux from a man (*days of streetwalkers and pimps), but, I learned how to cultivate being a
heaux, by becoming a WOMAN". With that, I have loved, I have lost, I have raised a family and I have experienced the real world around me, which has benefited me as an escort.
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I wrote a comment after reading the last reply from the SP, with my closed mind, and realized I am hurting my own interest as pooner, so decide to deleted that. Now I am very open minded, and encourage more ladies to pursue it as a career, which means more supply, competition and variety available in the market.
Another troll session with a few new judgemental people. Nice ! More members to add to the block list .
Some older providers don't need life lessons from any of us about maturity , age , life choices and motivation to be in the industry.
Some of the older ladies own properties throughout town, companies, vacation homes in the Caribbean, Brazil and other locations.
Putting labels and judging people show immaturity in my book
Some older providers don't need life lessons from any of us about maturity , age , life choices and motivation to be in the industry.
Some of the older ladies own properties throughout town, companies, vacation homes in the Caribbean, Brazil and other locations.
Putting labels and judging people show immaturity in my book
Nope . Just boys that became members in October of this year and judging people they do not know and apply blanket stereotypes to post comments
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