Do you see a hot young SP right away or wait so she is more experienced?

[islander1-1]

Or his 'thing' looked and smelled spoiled, which scared her away.

I always have had nice things to say..

 

[LADY-VIA]

This is interesting from a provider perspective as well. The type of clients we see when we are new and young is very different than the ones we see once we hit 30. I feel really grateful for the guidance I received when I started to add a few years to my age, otherwise I would be getting all the weirdos and creeps. I still posted as early 20's, and did not get the cream of the crop demographic. Most of my clients were 45-70. Most were only looking fo a half hour, and a two hour date was extremely unusual. Because lets face it, what the heck do most young people know about pleasing, sensuality and providing an experience? It was very focused on sexuality, and people were constantly trying to push boundaries. It was distinctively work. And work with the type of people who just wanted to bang somebody young and hot. There was no connection, and you could have replaced me with any other young and hot girl and they would have been just as happy. It was a service.....because that is all they were interested in.

Flash forward 15 years, and my overall client base is awesome! Oddly, they are much younger, generally 25-45 (though age is no longer a real concern to me). More importantly they are amazing people. I rarely do a one hour meeting, as the deliciousness of sensuality and seduction requires time to be savoured. My suitors are extremely respectful, thoughtful, and most are people I consider actual friends. We almost always share beautiful and memorable experiences. Unlike the ladies UhOh seems to see, the gentlemen who visit with ladies 30 plus are looking for a lot of great conversation, laughter, bantering and flirting before the teasing and pleasing starts. They do't view small talk as a waste of time. Rather it is viewed as an integral part of an interaction which enhances the entire experience.

Once a lady has been in the industry for a while, gentlemen will seek out a specific lady they wish to see, and will go to great lengths to do so. It becomes far more than just a service. It's exponentially more intimate. There is a genuine and deep connection. The entire experience is enriching to everybody involved, and new levels of sensuality are reached. Those are skills which take many years to hone, and are impossible for somebody new and inexperienced to provide.

I need to clarify that not everyone I have seen, either as a newbie or with experience, fits into the above paradigm. However, I think most ladies do fit into it. We hone our craft into a beautiful and magical experience which transcends the physical and encompasses the entire mind, body and spirit.

There is no right or wrong with regards to who a gentleman chooses to see. However, I don't think there is a giant difference if you are seeing a lady who has been a companion for one month or for one year. So pick the one you feel is hottest and is still within your discretionary budget

Well said. My experiences have been the exact same, in regards to the type of clients who seek me out as well as the shift of age bracket. When I was in my earlier 20s if I had someone closer to my age he was late 20s early 30s but the majority were 2- 3 x my age. The majority of my clients now are 30s-50, partially due to an age restriction. It’s more like a “no resemblance to a younger sibling restriction— mixed Caucasian 24 & under. I know ! thats a new one 45-55 seems to be a really sweet spot for most men as they come across much happier, confident and content with their lives.

And as for the thousands of dicks comment pertaining to an lady who’s been around for a while, well the majority of us have the same dicks calling us regularliy as we’ve acquired a substantial stock. 80% or more of my clients are all repeats. Xo—LV

 

[resercher]

I Find that the biggest issue I have with young sp's and it is more of my problem really I guess Is they tend to suffer from ( and the sp that read this are so going to hate me for this ) no hate meant I assure you

anyway here goes they suffer from what I would term as new puppy syndrome .
In other words they tend to be very young very full of energy and life

But Its sort of like being with a new puppy who does not know how to play fetch . Does not know how to roll over shake etc all the normal things you do with dogs . But is very friendly and wants to jump up and lick your face all the time I find myself doing things like feeding them lines and telling them what to say to get me off. Most of them are real bad at bedroom talk . I went when i first started this hobby
. From a very experienced 20 year old sp To a young 19 year old sp .Thinking that I would be getting the same experience i got with the 20 year old with the 19 year old . It would just be in a younger body .
boy was i wrong . I kept on thinking I wish their was some way to transfer the 20 year old sp brain into the 19 year old sp body . The okay I think this girl is way to young for me? Moment came when she started saying the phrase " for reals" No that is not a typo she actually said" for reals " not for real or really but "for reals ".