I would be fooling myself to pretend there's anything romantic about a paid date. I'm just not that good an actor.
Do you prefer to repeat with a SP or see a new one each time?
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Seriously? Some take this hobby way too serious. You figure your regular is thinking of you with her next client?
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Reflecting on a few dates in the past year that were the one and only; they rank up there with some of the best of the best. It's almost like it can't possibly get any better than this date.
I'm usually a repeating kind of client seeing some SP's 20+ times.
Reflecting on a few dates in the past year that were the one and only; they rank up there with some of the best of the best. It's almost like it can't possibly get any better than this date.
It does happen. Sometimes SP's become possessive of favourite clients and wish they wouldn't see anyone else, and there's been times when I've thought about one client while with another.
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Yea maybe you are right unoh. Since I don't have I try and pay for it. Sometimes it works sometimes it does not.
I enjoy repeat visitors! I enjoy new visitors too of course, but there is something special about those guests that return time after time and rise to the occasion to make things special. I was recently treated to the sort of scenario Dickson describes, and it was amazing for both of us. Of course, I love to show off, so Saturday night, being dressed up to the nines, seated in a table in the middle of the restaurant...I did all I could to make my gentleman proud, as we walked in, and then once we returned to our beautiful suite at the Pan Pacific. I know that when he returns in a week, that I will be just as delighted to see him as I am to see any of my guests who return for a second (or third, fourth, fifth..?) visit!
It probably feels great, but now that you have your ATF and a marriage, it is more like she is a mistress on the side, younger and probably prettier than your wife, at some point your feelings of love may drift away from your wife and be directed to the escort instead. I wonder if your wife would prefer to know that you go to many different ones all the time, or if it would hurt her more to know that you have an "ATF" that you see all the time instead of her for sex. If you can consolidate your feelings that is great, but I hope it all doesn't blow up in your face
Intimacy can build feelings when you see someone so often. I suppose same goes for any marriage or relationship where one cheats like this on the side. I often wonder if I had started doing this before I ended my many year sexless (once every couple months or less) relationship if it would have improved things, or if I would have had hugely conflicted feelings because anyone that is in a relationship and physically capable of having sex with their partner (no disabilities or anything, just the woman not putting out) and uses escorts is cheating on them, and could potentially bring something unwanted home to the family bed (condoms break, and an STD can be dormant for months.) I would have liked to have sex with another woman, but I did not want to cheat on my lady and potentially deal with getting caught, or the feelings of guilt that would probably come to me. I work many hours a week and to be honest didn't even think of using escorts ever until last summer, during the last month of our relationship. She had a planned date for her move out and I thought about some way to rebound and not feel the inevitable loneliness during the first bit of her departure.I had not built a relationship for many years, usually met girls at jobs I worked (I'm still fairly young) and never done any online dating or had a profile or anything. I recalled many years ago my buddy using escorts from the Yellow pages with success but never tried that myself. I began to research escorts in Victoria online, then stumbled onto this site. I picked who I thought was a well reviewed and beautiful girl, meh, she was pretty, but we just didn't get along
I repeated again with her because she was so beautiful, and I was such a retarded noob that I thought you picked an escort and then kept seeing them lol... Thankfully she respectfully suggested that I see a different girl at the agency next time if I wasn't liking her service. I'm sure there were probably a couple of misunderstandings due to my noobish ways. I saw her again months later, after I learned how to properly see escorts lol, and the session went better that time. The second girl I saw ended being my ATF for months and months. I saw a few other girls but always came back to her and a couple others. Like I said, the intimacy with an ATF can build feelings especially when you are so comfortable with them, so it must be hard for those of you with wives or girlfriends to come back home to that and realize you just cheated on them. I like to repeat with girls that I have built a rapport with and feel comfortable with too, but that doesn't equate to any feelings. I occasionally will repeat just because they were so damn beautiful.I enter sessions fully aware that this girl is only here for the money, and that while she is being nice to me, there is nothing on the outside. I suppose this is mostly easy to keep my mind in this way as I mostly go to the agencies, and I am not texting the girls back and forth, I don't talk to them on the phone and build an "outside of the hour" connection so its easy for me to see it as a fantasy service, nothing more, like going to the dentist or the mechanic for a tune up. I don't mean it to sound cold, as I am very nice and treat the ladies with much respect, kindness and tenderness, I can't imagine how difficult this job can be, the revulsion that must be swallowed on a frequent basis. I know a lot of girls like the job, and have some great regulars that make the not so great ones easier to get through. I have built like I said a rapport and nothing more, they are my friend for an hour, and while it might be nice to have a regular girlfriend, I am just a tad too busy at the moment for the commitment.
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I can get attached to the SP I see when they have the body type and height I lust for. I am a sucker for woman 5 6 and above especially Asians with no tats and that youthful look.
But It hurts to know its just a rental and something you can't have so I avoid going back.
But It hurts to know its just a rental and something you can't have so I avoid going back.
I have two favourites who exactly match my physical desires and I have good relationships with them.
Trying anyone else is bound to be a disappointment.
As said above, sure there are loads of choices out here but very few excellent ones. For the money this costs it is better to stick with someone reliable.
Trying anyone else is bound to be a disappointment.
As said above, sure there are loads of choices out here but very few excellent ones. For the money this costs it is better to stick with someone reliable.
My ATF was like that. I'm envious of you, old-timer. All I have left are memories.
I don't get attached to ladies involved in this industry. At least not for relationship reasons anyway. There are other sites for that :thumb:.
That said....I've made several repeat visits with 2 ladies on perb, and each visit got better and better. Not just physically but in a " friendship " sort of way. Conversations between us were becoming more personal, but cool at the same time. It's like talking to your friend the very next day after seeing her the night before.
Those 2 ladies are now retired btw. For those wondering.
:thumb:. That said....I've made several repeat visits with 2 ladies on perb, and each visit got better and better. Not just physically but in a " friendship " sort of way. Conversations between us were becoming more personal, but cool at the same time. It's like talking to your friend the very next day after seeing her the night before.
Those 2 ladies are now retired btw. For those wondering.
