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Do you like to talk dirty?

godfather_77

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I like to enhance sex by including a smattering foe dirty talk. Nothing over the top, but have been known get fairly descriptive if the mood over takes me :). I do talk dirty with some of the SPs that I have seen but keep it fairly tame, not sure where their limits are. I aslo enjoy SPs talking a bit dirty but have found that to be a rare occurrence. I do not want to ask because then I think they are just doing it for my benefit and not really into it. Fair assumption? What do you folks, SPs and clients, think about talking dirty during a session?

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bobby

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You must also think, that some sp's DO like to talk dirty, but also hold back if they don't feel it may fit into their clients comfort zone......."there are no stupid questions..... its stupid not to ask"..... I mean that in the nicest way;) Even if she does "do it just for you" is that not what you make such a generous donation for???? To flip the switch you can't reach on your own????? food for thought....:D
i agree i'm not much of a dirty talker, i like telling girls i'm with what i'm going to do to them as i'm about to do it and i'll tell them when they're doing something i like, but i dont do the name calling thing unless the girl asks and even though it isnt really my thing, it's no big thing especialy if i know she likes it.
 
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It's a moment and connection thing. I've had a few times where it's happened naturally, but rarely ever with a client. I hate being asked for it because it feels sooooo synthetic and it totally kills what might have otherwise been enjoyable. I do like sexy instructions and feedback though. :p
 

HB40

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I like dirty talk when it is spontaneous and not over the top. "Cum for me baby" is not dirty talk, but "fuck me, fuck me, oh yeah that's the spot, ohhhh fuck me hard with that big cock" is just perfect. :)

It can obviously be nastier than that, I'm just kinda shy and reserved. ;)
 

uncleg

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I like dirty talk when it is spontaneous and not over the top. "Cum for me baby" is not dirty talk, but "fuck me, fuck me, oh yeah that's the spot, ohhhh fuck me hard with that big cock" is just perfect. :)

It can obviously be nastier than that, I'm just kinda shy and reserved. ;)
So you like them to talk dirty and lie to you at the same time.:D
 

Miami

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I don't really need dirty during sex... but I find a few intimate, private comments prior to the main event really get me excited. Once a lady whispered in my ear in the hotel lobby bar "Do Wanna Fu*k me" and then during the elevator ride. she made a point to position herself so as to rub herself against me discretely. It was a real turn on. I still remember that whisper in my ear like it was yesterday with a smile.
 

Urquell

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dirty talk with an SP is an immediate turn off for me, because it's almost always so contrived and fake-sounding that I just want to stick a sock in her mouth. Talking dirty over the phone just bores me to death, much like going to strip clubs. If you're not physically or emotionally involved in the process then it might as well be an infomercial or wall paper for me.

That being said, a little bit of sincere dirty talk in the moment is ok. I don't bother with it myself, and on the occasions where women have asked me for it I must admit that I haven't been very good at it. When that happens I revert to DATY, where I have an excuse no to talk, and which I am good at! :)
 
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