From reading reviews I've noticed that almost all posters seem to like SP's who allow DATY etc. but frankly I'm not interested in that at all. I often get kanker sores and minor cuts in my mouth partially because I sleep with a retainer so I don't want to take any unnecessary risks doing DATY, especially since it's an activity which I'm not even really that into in the first place. If I don't do this is this some cardinal sin that will turn off the SP or is this nothing I should be worried about?
Do you have to do DATY?
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Not at all. In fact I would say that the vast majority of girls working in the studios wouldn't let you do it anyways, as they have issues about safety. And as for the girls who do allow it, they usually charge extra to let you Dine at the Y. Sometimes as much as $50.
So look at it this way. You're saving yourself a shit load of money and the SP gets to spend more time pleasuring you.
That is why you get the extras out of the way befor you start.
You really don't have to do anything if you don't want to.. same with the girl. You could just lay there like a stick
You really don't have to do anything if you don't want to.. same with the girl. You could just lay there like a stick
green... you don't have to do anything
but... you're not into daty?.. seems silly to me that you'd put 69 at the end your name
You beat me to the punch on this one.
He should change it to 68, meaning, "You do me and I'll owe you one".
G.A.
i'm with the rest of the boys
on this one... I only do DATY in very special circumstances with the right SP, generally I don't like the taste of condoms or other flavours that sometimes come along with this As a client you should only do what you are comfortable with. After all, you are paying for it !!
on this one... I only do DATY in very special circumstances with the right SP, generally I don't like the taste of condoms or other flavours that sometimes come along with this
As a client you should only do what you are comfortable with. After all, you are paying for it !!
hahaha damn I think you got me there. I just think "69" sounds cool even if I'm not into it much
lol.
Ask and it was granted....Started my first poll here and did the poll that was asked to be posted.
Take care
love and laughs
April
Pressure, in order to compete with those that don't worry about it, no doubt. It is difficult to not offer something that the client demands. There are plenty right here who won't see those who only do cbjs or don't DFK, DATY, so what can they do?
I don't get a real thrill from straight fucking. In fact, I'd rather not do it most of the time. And if I'm paying, then I think I have the right to choose what I like.
I love pussy. I love licking it, fingering it, tasting it, looking at it. So I'm willing to pay for that, and take some risk.
But if that isn't what you want, then you shouldn't have to do it.
I think, though, that guys should lay off this idea that they're doing it for the pleasure of the SP. I'm sure she'll say she loves it, and maybe she does, but the guy who loves DATY loves it for himself, not because he's an altruistic saint giving pleasure to all the SPs out of the goodness of his heart.
A GF of mine, who also used to work as an SP, said to me that if I ask her to tell me how much she wants me to eat her pussy, that's work for her. That's what she does with a client. If I'm going to eat her out, I have to be honest and say I want it for my own selfish reasons, and I shouldn't expect her to pretend I'm doing her a favour.
If a client eats out an SP, the proper thing for him to say is, "Thank You" not "Did you enjoy that?"
I love pussy. I love licking it, fingering it, tasting it, looking at it. So I'm willing to pay for that, and take some risk.
But if that isn't what you want, then you shouldn't have to do it.
I think, though, that guys should lay off this idea that they're doing it for the pleasure of the SP. I'm sure she'll say she loves it, and maybe she does, but the guy who loves DATY loves it for himself, not because he's an altruistic saint giving pleasure to all the SPs out of the goodness of his heart.
A GF of mine, who also used to work as an SP, said to me that if I ask her to tell me how much she wants me to eat her pussy, that's work for her. That's what she does with a client. If I'm going to eat her out, I have to be honest and say I want it for my own selfish reasons, and I shouldn't expect her to pretend I'm doing her a favour.
If a client eats out an SP, the proper thing for him to say is, "Thank You" not "Did you enjoy that?"
I'm with the kid on this. I won't knowingly see a lady that doesn't offer DATY as I personally enjoy it and have done sufficient research to know what I'm up against when it comes to risk.
However, if a pooner doesn't want to DATY then I see no reason why he should. He is the consumer and as long as he's not crossing any boundaries and doesn't do anything to make the SP uncomfortable then he should be able to choose his delights from her written menu.
I'm certain there are no ladies out there who would INSIST on someone giving her head as that's as bad as a customer INSISTING she allows him to go in through the back door.
Each to their own and there is a provider out there suited to everyone
However, if a pooner doesn't want to DATY then I see no reason why he should. He is the consumer and as long as he's not crossing any boundaries and doesn't do anything to make the SP uncomfortable then he should be able to choose his delights from her written menu.
I'm certain there are no ladies out there who would INSIST on someone giving her head as that's as bad as a customer INSISTING she allows him to go in through the back door.
Each to their own and there is a provider out there suited to everyone
I think I would rather it the other way around, when its dirty and been used
I am with you on this one
