Do you have a confidant?

[Pumped]

That’s why the PERB Lounge exists, to communicate with like minded individuals.

And even that has some hazards to be avoided. I was on here a looooong time ago under a different moniker (I doubt it even exists anymore) and I shared a lot and posted lots of reviews which outed me to many SPs etc.

I've been enjoying myself recently, a lot, but I'm no longer posting reviews nor discussing things that I used to quite freely.

Nothing untoward has ever happened, but no use leaving doors open to it happening either.

 

[SolidSnake]

And even that has some hazards to be avoided. I was on here a looooong time ago under a different moniker (I doubt it even exists anymore) and I shared a lot and posted lots of reviews which outed me to many SPs etc.

I've been enjoying myself recently, a lot, but I'm no longer posting reviews nor discussing things that I used to quite freely.

Posting on the wrong thread?

Anyway creative but not a valid excuse not to post reviews. Many of our prolific authors survive fine even with their daily deliverables.

 

[angry anderson]

 

[Ray]

Oddly enough, I can discuss this freely with my older brother.
My close friends and I will mention this in very generic terms, nothing specific.

 

[CapnMaynards]

I'm open about it with friends. I only conceal it from family. Other than that, I couldn't give a crap what anyone thinks.

 

[mr.idoks]

Alot of my closer friends know, probably dont know the extent to which I see providers. but lots of them do aswell.
its actually quite common to see escorts in some circles, especially in the business circles downtown vancouver.
ive also seen plenty of providers I recognize on those lineup yacht parties during the summers, dunno if they are being paid to be there, or are being invited along for free (im sure its a mix).
Although it seems like the sugar baby/ seeking arrangements setup is more popular amongst the businessmen of vancouver these days.

ive also heard plenty of guys make jokes along the lines of "maybe we should check out leolist" when at events or parties with a poor girl to guy ratio.

 

[angry anderson]

I told two people. But they are now dead.

 

[carvesg]

I told two people. But they are now dead.

You take that code of silence/ la omertà seriously 😳

Joke apart... sorry for the loss of your friends

 

[angry anderson]

You take that code of silence/ la omertà seriously 😳

Joke apart... sorry for the loss of your friends

I did warn them.

 

[JimDandy]

I told two people. But they are now dead.

Does this fall under the category of "I could tell you, but then I would have to kiil you." ?

EDIT: When I originally posted this, I had not yet seen the 2 posts that came after your original post. Obviously carvesg and myself think alike LOL.

JD

 

[mudd]

Oddly enough, my partner lol

 

[mr.idoks]

Oddly enough, my partner lol

are you one of those lucky guys with a one-way open relationship? haha

 

[harrybolls]

I have 2 close friends that I share "most" of my activities with. Mind you I only participate in everything but FS. I would not share my activities with my whole social network.

Well one night I was out for a social gathering with those 2 friends and their spouses. The topic of going to strip clubs came up and one my friend's wife mentions during dinner that I enjoy going for lap dances. Obviously I was shocked by the comment and my buddy didn't say anything. My other buddy was embarrassed because he was thinking what is she going to say next about him? Anyways, the look of my buddy said it all. Now, being single it didn't matter but now I think my friend is an idiot.

Later on I confronted him and called him an idiot. After confronting him he claims she overheard one of our conversations over the phone but I doubt it. She knew more detail

Lesson learned - You should assume whatever is said to others will be passed onto their significant other. For many reasons - to make themselves look better, nothing else to talk about, gossip...... list goes on.

 

[mudd]

are you one of those lucky guys with a one-way open relationship? haha

Lol in a way. I wouldn't stop her but she's quite uninterested in exploring. I'm just glad she gets that I need this, saved me a lot of sneaking around 😄

 

[sensualsixty]

Oddly enough, my partner lol

I did not want to be the first to admit that my partner is my confidant.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

Nope, nobody knows.

However, I sense that with that being rather typical, some conversations between provider and client can get really good with each side somehow starved for open banter on the silly things that go on in such environs.

 

[harrybolls]

Nobody goes on sex trip vacations with their bros here?

 

[angry anderson]

Nobody goes on sex trip vacations with their bros here?

 

[oldshark]

Well, I share many of my experiences here, at least the physical information.

I have (had) two friends I share things with.

• My best friend who died of Covid. He never pooned around town although he did the Philippine thing. He always laughed at my misadventures and issues with women. We were even joking about things just before he died.
• Another friend who is also fairly close and sometimes poons around town. He laughs at some of my stories. He and I went out to the FKK clubs in Germany together.

In university, I used to run strip crawls so my old classmates would not be surprised. But if you asked people who work with me or any of my relatives, not a clue.

 

[dchoye]

I had a buddy. We go to massage parlors together
He was the one who introduced the hobby to me
Fast forward marriage and divorce and just on my own
Did try telling my psychiatrist about it and he laughed at me telling me I was fantasizing about sex experiences😳