do you ever think we do what we do out of shear boredom

[sevenofnine]

I was out with some friends for lunch,

we had a beautiful beautiful waitress they barely noticed her, I did,
who doesn't like looking at a beautiful women or whatever for that matter,

they bitched about their wife their kids, lack of money, etc etc,
some how the conversation turned to sex,
one guy made a face disgusting another said he can't get it up,

I got all wound up this was the first time something interesting was said,
and I shut down, realizing my friends, were not into it.

I dunno I couldn't live like that,
its not just the sex part,
but doing something interesting being different.

my wife is good to me, we get along,
but part of that is, I get out of the house, I have interests hobbies friends, all kinds of friends,
and I see my sp.

we just don't sit in the house and bitch at one another, it would fucking drive me crazy,

my kids are doing fine, even if they werent' I wouldn't sit in a bar and run them down,
nor my wife, its a bad look,
if your running everyone down in your life, maybe its not them its you,

I got no complaints,
non worthy of mention any way,

I dunno some people have such boring lifes, they spend all afternoon at Walmart or super store, going through the cans
for the best before date, or value village,
can't be bothered to look at a beautiful women.
even if your rich, it doesn't seem all that interesting endless cruises
so many properties all over the world you actually spend very little time in them,
you become more of a property manager

meeting a stranger and putting some cash down,
then pulling her panties down,
its the adrenalin.

even me, seeing my sp, for years,
she opened the door, and was pretty much naked, and I spent 12 hours or so with her,
talking drinking fooling around. two weeks ago

I got home with the gorgeous waitress still in my mind checked my phone, my sp had texted me,
im seeing her today.

while everyone else is going through best before dates on cans.
or trying to get a hold of the pool guy five thousand miles away,

I know in some ways its not right,
life is good why mess with it,

im just not that fucking boring

 

[nightswhisper]

Not everyone was raised by parents who encouraged hobbies or interests. Most are raised by parents who encouraged them to get a college degree, a job, a wife, and kids, and call it success. Life's race was finished a long ago and now they're waiting to die.

This line though...

I dunno some people have such boring lifes, they spend all afternoon at Walmart or super store, going through the cans for the best before date

That's scary.

Good for you - You essentially have a "mistress".

It doesn't take a lot of money to enjoy life, but it takes a lot of life to enjoy money.

 

[LalaniElectrica]

Bravo, 7of9... You found the middle path that works for you! Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and thx for sharing maybe it'll open up a new perspective for so many who have been focussing on the negative, Remember to always stop and smell the roses!

 

[ddcanz]

…….my wife is good to me, we get along...…..

…. I wouldn't sit in a bar and run them down,
nor my wife, its a bad look,
if your running everyone down in your life, maybe its not them its you,

I guarantee my wife would "not be impressed" (read that as 'Adios, amigo!') about my extra-curricular activities, however I love her deeply and she's my best friend- regardless of anything else going on. And we have all manner of issues like all long-term couples do.
However, I do not and will not run her down to anyone, especially in a bar.
To answer the question as it relates to my SP activity- Yes, some of it comes from boredom and it adds a level of excitement and thrill.

 

[AuldMagpye]

Man, am I ever bored. Humm let's see what's doin on Perb

 

[Man in Submission]

If one spends 12 hours with an SP, how much is 'on the clock?' Just curious..

 

[sevenofnine]

I have been with my sp for a dozen years,
I pay her,
I guess depending on an sp,s rate maybe an hour for her time,

it is more of a formality then anything,
were friends,
we socialize out side of this,
we made plans to try out a new pub
and go on dog walks,

understand this is after 12 years of seeing the same women, almost weekly
we just get along and are comfortable with each other,

a lot I could go into about our relationship,
but its not appropriate

needless to say,
were not really client and sp,

we are but we aren't

its kind of funny actually, we both have a life,
yet we sneak off to do this,

and sneak off to socialize on top of it.

to be honest im tired of trying to figure us out,
or any of it

 

[ddcanz]

……...to be honest im tired of trying to figure us out,
or any of it

12 years- I'm sure you've over-thinked your SP relationship many times already.
It seems to work for you, and you quite obviously know the consequences involved.
I had a quasi-relationship going with an under the radar, non-pro type woman for many, many years. Always a paid arrangement, but we also hung out, shared our lives and socialized a wee bit. Time and again I'd stop seeing her for awhile- then inevitably get back in. It's been about 3 years now since we last spoke. I miss her sometimes. But for me, it's for the best that I don't get that close again.
I know what I do carries enough jeopardy already. And I don't need a secondary, ongoing relationship to rock the boat.
Shit can be as complicated or as simple as you let it.
Sometimes trying to figure it all out is pointless.
We are who we are.

 

[jgg]

If one spends 12 hours with an SP, how much is 'on the clock?' Just curious..

For most ladies, 12 hours.

 

[Addison Cortez]

It doesn't take a lot of money to enjoy life, but it takes a lot of life to enjoy money.

well said!!

 

[resercher]

I was out with some friends for lunch,

we had a beautiful beautiful waitress they barely noticed her, I did,
who doesn't like looking at a beautiful women or whatever for that matter,

they bitched about their wife their kids, lack of money, etc etc,
some how the conversation turned to sex,
one guy made a face disgusting another said he can't get it up,

I got all wound up this was the first time something interesting was said,
and I shut down, realizing my friends, were not into it.

I dunno I couldn't live like that,
its not just the sex part,
but doing something interesting being different.

my wife is good to me, we get along,
but part of that is, I get out of the house, I have interests hobbies friends, all kinds of friends,
and I see my sp.

we just don't sit in the house and bitch at one another, it would fucking drive me crazy,

my kids are doing fine, even if they werent' I wouldn't sit in a bar and run them down,
nor my wife, its a bad look,
if your running everyone down in your life, maybe its not them its you,

I got no complaints,
non worthy of mention any way,

I dunno some people have such boring lifes, they spend all afternoon at Walmart or super store, going through the cans
for the best before date, or value village,
can't be bothered to look at a beautiful women.
even if your rich, it doesn't seem all that interesting endless cruises
so many properties all over the world you actually spend very little time in them,
you become more of a property manager

meeting a stranger and putting some cash down,
then pulling her panties down,
its the adrenalin.

even me, seeing my sp, for years,
she opened the door, and was pretty much naked, and I spent 12 hours or so with her,
talking drinking fooling around. two weeks ago

I got home with the gorgeous waitress still in my mind checked my phone, my sp had texted me,
im seeing her today.

while everyone else is going through best before dates on cans.
or trying to get a hold of the pool guy five thousand miles away,

I know in some ways its not right,
life is good why mess with it,

im just not that fucking boring

I am not married or have a girlfriend so for me it is because i am lonely and want sex and paying for it is the fastest most stress free way to get it. Also that feeling that you "got some " gives you a little dopamine hit like you used to get when a girl decided to kiss you in high school . Before the " how much money do you have and what do you do for a living " thing happened .

What is boring to one person is something special to another person no mater what you do especially if you do it for work over time it will become boring . I don't believe I mentiond this conversation before i may have my apologies


But after my first threesome with two sp and my first time with three women at once i got the same comment from the ladies " Are you doing anything special later ?" Um i just had sex with 2 - 3 women at once to me that is pretty special .

"oh then nothing special then " and I quite often get the "are you doing anything special "comment from escorts I don't know what an escort would consider "special " depends on the women I guess but my guess is it may not have much to do with sex .


I also had a rather humorous exchange with a former co worker that further illustrates my point on what is and what is not boring

He liked to go to the bar and watch strippers and drink beer I said to him wouldn't you like to get paid for that and he said no man if i got paid for it i would have to show up on time and the boss would be on my ass and not in a good way .


It would be like The boss would say Hey your late Trixie star just worked really hard on this new routine that your supposed to judge Now shes upset with you becase she's going to have to rush through it and your going to make her late picking up her children for day care

also we have 6 craft beers that we need you to drink right away and Before you ask No you don't have time to use the washroom . As you wasted your break time getting here so you will just have to piss your pants .


going through the cans at the supermarket and value village . to save money are things people do because they are short on cash Its never really cool to make fun of or say you are better than others because they do not have as much cash as you . Also some may find this exciting Ever see that pop some tags video . seeing escorts are things people do because they want to .

 

[uncleg]

Not sure of how getting tired of shearing sheep drives one into the arms of an Sp....but o.k. sure why not...got to do something for a change of pace.

 

[Addison Cortez]

:laugh: Might not just be shearing them...