Do you enjoy eating pussy?

[PlayfulAlex]

I think that guys shouldn't be so hard on themselves, worrying about how they can make their girl cum. It takes two to tango, so letting her lead the way seems to make more sense to me. She'll know, likely before she's 20, what's the best way to make her have an orgasm.

She may be open to further exploration but, if she says that vaginally, it just doesn't seem to happen, I suggest that you believe her. If she could have a vaginal orgasm, believe me, she would...so, if she says she can't, go with it. Find out what else works, and enjoy those things to their fullest. No pressure on her, no pressure on you = more fun!

Most of the time, it's not about the guy's equipment, or his skill (except when it is!)...it's almost always about her body, and how it works!

 

[Gentle-man]

Fascinating and mind boggling is all I can say. Men paying to go out of their way to try to pleasure a woman. I guess altruism is still alive.

We need our ego stroked knowing that we have given a woman an orgasm...reassuring us of our sexual prowess. I get that. But I think if more men felt confident in their ability to get a woman to cum through vaginal intercourse they might not be into DATY as much as this thread clearly suggests the overwhelming majority is.

Some people enjoy their meal, straight from the freezer to the microwave, or simply having it brought to them on a plate (or in a bag). Many people often just eat the same basic thing over and over. Sure it gets the basic job done of getting most of the necessary nutrients to the right place. But for some people more than half the enjoyment of a meal is choosing the menu selecting the ingredients, prepping, marinating, cooking slowly, seasoning, plating, serving and enjoying the meal and entertaining the company...

It might have nothing to do with ego and merely having a broader view of the overall experience...

And sometimes for best results you need to pre-heat the oven.

 

[Elmore]

it's almost always about her body, and how it works!

Right...and I know many women who will only cum if their cervix is hit during vaginal (yes...I know those who hate it as well). The "cul-de-sac orgasm" is not just a myth. Additionally, some women need a minimum of 30 minutes or more of vaginal intercourse...she won't cum if her partner is straining to hit the 5 minute mark before he explodes.

But we can all agree that an orgasm for women is less about physical stimulation than it is for for men.

 

[Elmore]

Some people enjoy their meal, straight from the freezer to the microwave, or simply having it brought to them on a plate (or in a bag). Many people often just eat the same basic thing over and over. Sure it gets the basic job done of getting most of the necessary nutrients to the right place. But for some people more than half the enjoyment of a meal is choosing the menu selecting the ingredients, prepping, marinating, cooking slowly, seasoning, plating, serving and enjoying the meal and entertaining the company...

It might have nothing to do with ego and merely having a broader view of the overall experience...

And sometimes for best results you need to pre-heat the oven.

I enjoy DATY with all of the women I dated when I am not watching the clock and foreplay can be extended as long as we like.

Some men book for 3 hour sessions, enjoy some wine, chat, kissing, disrobing, fondling...fast forward 1.5 hours later, DATY, and then intercourse.

But the average session people here seem to book is 45 - 60 minutes. It doesn't seem like an effective use of time to go to great lengths to prepare a meal only to wolf it down without chewing.

I guess when I book a a session, my ultimate goal is to orgasm...I am not there with the goal of making the escort orgasm. If she does, that is awesome but I am not trying to impress her or satisfy my own ego. I have had the odd occasions where the lady asked me to stay longer (off the clock) and wanted us to take our time. That is completely different. In a situation like that I would make every effort to make sure that our time spent together was mutually and equally satisfying.

 

[the old maxx50]

Having sex with the women of our chose has to be more then just getting off .. and we get more out of it then just whacking one off in the bath room .. If you don't then you have some major hang ups .. about masturbating and how to treat and respect for women .. .Yes i am guilty of wanting to have sex with then .. but not of just using then to cum .. i have gone too many years with out to know i still can do with out ..

Seeing a women is a lot more and that is why I enjoy , and thing it is my obligation to help them have a n orgasm .. and I enjoy all the moaning ,, shuddering and vaginal contraction .. when ether doing DATY or intercourse .. that is a big part of why I am paying .

Now if they don't want to tell me how they wan it and want to fake it that is up to them , i am willing to try to do what it takes.

 

[Elmore]

Having sex with the women of our chose has to be more then just getting off .. and we get more out of it then just whacking one off in the bath room .. If you don't then you have some major hang ups .. about masturbating and how to treat and respect for women .. .Yes i am guilty of wanting to have sex with then .. but not of just using then to cum .. i have gone too many years with out to know i still can do with out ..

Seeing a women is a lot more and that is why I enjoy , and thing it is my obligation to help them have a n orgasm .. and I enjoy all the moaning ,, shuddering and vaginal contraction .. when ether doing DATY or intercourse .. that is a big part of why I am paying .

Now if they don't want to tell me how they wan it and want to fake it that is up to them , i am willing to try to do what it takes.

My hygiene is impeccable. I am friendly and outgoing as well as kind and gentle with whomever I see. I respect their boundaries as I am not interested in what I perceive to be unsafe services. So your implied comment that I am mistreating women by not making it my goal to help them orgasm ranks pretty high with some of the ridiculous posts of yours that I have read.

Thanks for stating the obvious when it comes to treating women with respect but you actually know nothing about me. Unlike at least one member here (and I bet others who would rather remain anonymous for good reason) most of the sex I have is not with escorts and it is not just about getting off. I understand that people need female company and reassurance so they take them for dinner, social engagements and vacations. I don't need to do that. There are women I can date or spend social time with who share similar interests with me. It is not that I am not interested in an escort beyond sex...but I'm not going to pay money to get to know them...because I don't need to and college does not cost the same as it did when I went 25+ years ago. I'd rather fund my kids education than an escorts.

The same principle applies to sex with escorts for me. I know most enjoy my company and many do orgasm while we have sex but that is not why I am there. I don't do a play by play and beat myself up after I leave trying to figure out why she didn't cum, nor do I give myself a high five if she did cum. Don't kid yourself. The payment part is what you offer an escort...not 3 shuddering, earth moving orgasms that she has every single time you see her.

 

[visiting]

it would be interesting to see the ladies vote on how they rate pussy lickers.....

I get a kick out of actual moaning (not acting).... or some verbal comments, like... OOOOOO that's it, right there, OMG!!!!! , don't stop, or the best one is when they say, I am comming!!!! :nod:

Ok, now I am thinking of 2 ladies in a 69 position licking...:thumb:

 

[the old maxx50]

My comment was prompted by your initial comment above , but i was addressing it to the general attitude by some who seem to act exactly as i noted ,, The bluntness in your writing made we think you were like that ,, But I did read on and saw that hen time permuted you were willing to satisfy the ladies ..

I know some SP really just wan to satisfy the client . and are surprised that some one wants to spend the time to satisfy them ,, They do not all want to let go and allow some one that they don't know or are not in a relationship to get them off .. it is part of there attitude , This is business not pleasure . That is why i have regulars .. it makes it easier to be more pleasure then business ..

I know it is a gray area ,, and some people can never see knowing an SP as any ting more then just business . But if you spend any time with a person .. there is a greater chance of a friendship developing if you like that person .. YOu would not be repeating if you did not and the SP would not be willing to see you ..ovr and over again .. not even for the money ..

 

[jon6491]

I prefer DATY to over haveing a BJ. Daty on a hot woman makes me stiff1

 

[JFF009]

The reason I say this is because I don't offer DATY as an extra to my massage clients right now

If men had to choose between giving DATY and receiving a BJ, I think many would choose DATY.

Of course 69 is a perfect compromise!

I know and it's why I haven't made that drive out to Chilliwack. I kick myself for not seeing you when you did offer. Knowing that you did would cause me to focus solely on that during our time together and it would be difficult for me to think of much else.

I wouldn't chose DATY over a BJ. I love DATY...it is one of my fave activities. I like to take my time and savour the experience. My perfect 1 hour session would be 30 mins of good massage, 15 mins of DATY, 15 mins of slow, sensual BJ.

69 is a nice compromise but I find it difficult to concentrate on what I'm doing if I'm receiving a bj. When I receive I like to sit back, relax, watch you slowly devour me, and just chill.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i think the biggest part of eating pussy is being immersed in the taste and smell of the pheromones that some women exude at certain times. i'm convinced this enhances some men's sexual experience

i suspect part of it is a subtle sexual power or control thing as well, as in you are demonstrating your learned ability to give a woman an orgasm orally

i further suspect that some sp's like that sexual power and control thing over their clients as well, so eating their pussies is a sharing of that power

or am i reading entirely too much into this, lol

 

[Volpina Vance]

Why can't I find any rock songs about eating pussy? Oh well, Azealia Banks is awesome and gives it an honourable mention.

 

[blazejowski]

Why can't I find any rock songs about eating pussy? Oh well, Azealia Banks is awesome and gives it an honourable mention.

 

[Volpina Vance]

Wait... of course!

 

[kld]

I don't only enjoy it, I find it one of the most erotic experiences when she vibrates and begs for more while you look up into her eyes and can tell she's going to cum.