do women like overly mucsular guys

[SexyBoy]

If I was a scientist my goals would be unattainable. If I was a businessman my goals are attainable. I could stop at a few million. I doubt I could stop wanting an answer to all of the questions when it comes to science and for every accomplishment comes a whole new set of questions to answer. Some of which might disprove your current theory’s. That just doesn't happen to a businessman’s accomplishments. All he has to do is maintain after he reaches a certain level.

I love science also but I don't want to get caught up in my work that much.

There is always going to be a level that you cannot explain to the layman. For the reason you are changing the explanation itself to a different form. When someone doesn't understand it becomes a matter of opinion and not fact.

The main topic was physical appearance and if a woman likes a huge body builder type.

 

[Naughty Nadia]

Overly large muscular bodies are gross to me. I tend to be attracted to the tall, slender, dark haired "poetic" types. But what REALLY turns me on is intelligence. Someone who challenges my beliefs, preconceptions and makes me THINK makes me wet If he can seduce my mind, the other initial qualities I see in them will change.

 

[SInCity67]

OK, I just looked up the term "sarging" on urban dictionary. You're one of those "seduction community" types right?

haha yes , theres a lot more involve then seduction though.

 

[lonepooner69]

Overly large muscular bodies are gross to me. I tend to be attracted to the tall, slender, dark haired "poetic" types. But what REALLY turns me on is intelligence. Someone who challenges my beliefs, preconceptions and makes me THINK makes me wet If he can seduce my mind, the other initial qualities I see in them will change.

You hear this from women all the time, and I'm sure they are genuine about it, but like someone said earlier (sexyboy maybe?), physical attraction is what gets you in the door, so it doesn't matter how 'intelligent' you are if you're not going to get considered in the first place.

So basically sure someone can win you over with their personality, but it's going to take a lot of close contact for awhile, since they don't have the physical working for them.

 

[kalel]

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Overly large muscular bodies are gross to me. I tend to be attracted to the tall, slender, dark haired "poetic" types. But what REALLY turns me on is intelligence. Someone who challenges my beliefs, preconceptions and makes me THINK makes me wet If he can seduce my mind, the other initial qualities I see in them will change.

see, intelligence in women is a turn on for me too. unfortunately some women try to be intelligent or spend every waking minute trying to convince you that they are intelligent and that's just plain annoying.

 

[SexyBoy]

see, intelligence in women is a turn on for me too. unfortunately some women try to be intelligent or spend every waking minute trying to convince you that they are intelligent and that's just plain annoying.

I agree there!

There has to be some form of moderation. I don't want to be on my A game all of the time when I am with a woman. Being like a cave man and focusing on basic needs can be very relaxing and relives stress. There has to be a balance and a woman needs to know her man and when he is distressing. This is normally when a girl moves in for the kill and brings up an ongoing intellectual debate you have had recently. Talk about ruining the moment. Just have sex, sleep, eat, and cuddle. Stop talking.

Don't worry after a guy has distressed he well want to tickle your mind and he can become extremely romantic with all the new energy you gave him.

This is a reason I like to go see a SP.

 

[SexyBoy]

er.....I wouldn't dwell on this much, I am only 18 & no one really should think on it too much- it will only result in a headache & a bit of disallusionment. In general people don't suspect me to be THAT young; I usualy get pegged at ~20-26, depending on where they meet me & if I'm wearing make up (my war paint )
I'm not nocking some scientific advances; one I take twice a day for myself is a non dairy based Acedofilus/Bifidus....I just have a very clear line in my head what is helping me along with my health & what will turn around on me one day to bite me in the ass
P.S. If it makes you feel any better, I'm 19 in Febuary

Actually my last girl friend was only 18. I was worried at first about the age difference but her maturity and intellect was extremely attractive. We even connected on a spiritual level which is a connection I rarely make.

The only reason we did not work out was because she wanted to travel the world. Maybe if she was older that wouldn't have happened. However I a older sister that well never stop traveling and has lost a lot of good relationships because of it.

 

[miss meiko]

see, intelligence in women is a turn on for me too. unfortunately some women try to be intelligent or spend every waking minute trying to convince you that they are intelligent and that's just plain annoying.

Agree. But, the real smart woman knows how to play dumb. My bf was shocked when he found out my I.Q is higher than his...but I always make sure to let him win when we argue about something. I usually get what I want by playing dumb...
Life is sweet.

 

[SexyBoy]

About two months after she left she called and was very lonely.

My sister really wishes that she would have settled down with some of these guys. Now she is trying to get what she had and her age is not helping. I am actually adopted by my grandparents and she is in her 50's. She has been traveling non stop for 17 years.

I want to travel but no more then 8 weeks a year and that is pushing it. I would actually only want 4-6 weeks to explore. Even then I would want to spend some of that time visiting friends and family which are everywhere.

 

[AA_Train]

On the flip side

I agree with most of the comments made by those in this thread. I thought I'd put in the perspective of a male when it comes to muscular women.

Hardcore body-builder types are a turn off for me physically but turn me on intellectually and they do because it shoes ambition. I like a women who takes charge of her life and her dody and works hard to maintain both. But the bulky muscular women just don't look good as in it is not pleasing to the eye. I think that most guys prefer a body that is curvy yet toned. There can be muscle definition but not bulk.

I think women again want muscle definition as because of different physical and chemical composition, guys can have more muscle bulk on their frame but not too much, chisled is probably the best word to describe it.

However, attitude is what will win the ladies oveer ie playing it cool. It's true that looks will get you in the door but attitude will help you swing the door wide open. I've found thatwomen want to be disired. Whe napproaching women, try to engage them in conversation, usually something that's relevant ,tell a joke, throw in a compliment and then ask for a date. I f she says no tell her it's cool maybe talk for 30 more seconds and tell her it was nice taliking to her and have a good day. If you don't look desperate or let it know it bothered you that you got rejected, they will start to think why and wonder what's with this guy. It's called planting seeds ( as mentioned in the 40 year old virgin) but it works more than you think. Otherwise the woman will say yes and if she is married on in a relationship, you'll probably have made their day by making them feel desireable.

 

[maximus]

should a woman know when her man is stressed,and try to help him with sex or maybe just support.

 

[ma1234]

Jesus you are full of it

I was and I am a vice president of a company and that never helped me.

A vice president living with his grandpa.

it makes it worse as they want your time and not your money.

Yet you are so desperate that you want to screw the girl at the tanning salon.

Many are independant and are looking for attractive men these days. three of my last girlfriends wanted me to live with them at their house not the other way around.

You mean they didn't want to move in with your grandpa.

They also wanted me to play by their rules. I had a huge house and that was a complete turn off for them.

The house was such a turn off that you are chasing women ever since without success.

Women that are not independant change once they become independant.

That's nothing! Wait until they become independent. (CEO with spelling problem.)

I would think that woman over 30 are a little bit differant and money is important to them.

No, they are just different.

Many girls have everything they ever wanted already more cash doesn't help them.

That's sad. So no chance at the tanning salon?

 

[hunsperger]

Acedofilus/Bifidus....

is that contagious ...

and if it is, is there a vaccine for it ...

 

[SexyBoy]

They are pro-biotics, I just didn't kow how to spell them.... Acidophilus & Bifidus are two lovely things that help promote healthy Fora in your digestive track

Just eat Activia yogurt.

It is just healthy bacteria. Unfortunately antibiotics also kill them.

I am still confused as to how the bacteria get into your digestive track. Doesn't the stomach acid etc. kill them?

 

[Krustee]

They are pro-biotics, I just didn't kow how to spell them.... Acidophilus & Bifidus are two lovely things that help promote healthy Fora in your digestive track

Just eat Activia yogurt.

It is just healthy bacteria. Unfortunately antibiotics also kill them.

I am still confused as to how the bacteria get into your digestive track. Doesn't the stomach acid etc. kill them?

Track Dammit! - TRACT!!!!

Nothing boils my bifidus more than people spelling tract wrong!

Get on the right track & start spelling it correctly!