Do tell how to get the best blow job.

[Annalise Lane]

There has been alot of talk about who gives the best blow job but NO one shares what is being done to get such high marks. So I got to thinking. Maybe you boys will share what it is that makes the best bj.

~listens~

 

[burnman]

I like them slow and deep with with just enough hand. I like it when a girl is between my legs or on her knees in front of me. It's really good when she frequently alternates between sucking and licking the outside and the baggage. Having said that, I think it probably like eating pussy. Everyone girl has her own preferences for how it's done.

Now you should share, how to you like to have a guy go down on you? Maybe we can pick up some pointers here.

 

[judge3001]

Love It

That's all... If a girl is truely enjoying what she is doing that is half the battle. After that it's personal preference. Or even what kind of mood I am in may change the way I am getting the most enjoyment. Bottom line is if the lady is enjoying what she is doing she is probably quite in touch with what is and isn't working for her partner.

 

[edmchef]

Mainly enthusiasm, eye contact, and lack of teeth, for me. Nothing ruins a good blow job like scraping over sharp teeth.

 

[gumbyman6900]

Subjective Will Robinson!

There has been alot of talk about who gives the best blow job but NO one shares what is being done to get such high marks. So I got to thinking. Maybe you boys will share what it is that makes the best bj.

~listens~

Not sure there is any true and fast answer to this. Since I can imagine that every guy likes things differently. I like head play A LOT... it sounds like Burn liked deep slow and I am sure there are many other flavours.

Personally, the best BJ for me is when they do some good head action and stroke with hands. It definitely gets be cooking.

 

[shyboy123]

OK Annalise here's my 2 cents

Personally I love some worship now and then. I like to feel like like the girl really enjoys it and wants to tease/give pleasure. The robotic bobbing/hand pumping to get it over with quick is a total turn off. If I want to get off mechanically and quickly I can do that myself.

Keep in mind you've got a guy in a pretty vulnerable state, so making me at ease is a big plus. Massaging/stroking stomach/thighs, kissing around area before starting is nice. Eye contact, smiling or giggling lifts the mood and gives the impression you want to show a good time.

Just as you would be a little self concious with someone going down on you, it's the same for the guy - Hopefully everyone is hygenic so you can make you you are not acting like the whole thing disgusts you!

Whether to go covered or not is really up to the SP I think. While bare always feels the nicest and most direct, there are risks for both and to each their own here...

The more spit/lube the better and it's gotta be cleaned up anyway so don't worry about making a mess.

As for actual technique, every girl I have ever been with has the basic moves down, but has their own personal style. I think this is because there is no BJ school. I would love to meet a certified, qualified, phd in BJ. I think BJhunter is also on this quest

Please don't ignore the boys, they are tender but love to be held, cupped, licked etc. There is a spot below the scrotum (maybe connected to the prostate?) that if massaged/pressed while coming is great. There was this one girl I used to know with great breasts and she would rub her breasts on my boys while giving a BJ... Simply awesome.

Try and lookup a few tips online or in print. One I found which I generally agree with and might consider printing and handing to the next lady I see is an article called How to Give a Blowjob Like a Pro by Ann Andriani - All Sex Guide. Check it in google.

Thanks for asking!

 

[gumbyman6900]

Try and lookup a few tips online or in print. One I found which I generally agree with and might consider printing and handing to the next lady I see is an article called How to Give a Blowjob Like a Pro by Ann Andriani - All Sex Guide. Check it in google.

Thanks for asking!

That... could backfire badly. Giving that to an SP is the equivalent to saying, "Damn, that was a terrible BJ. I hold on to this just in case I get bad BJs." I could imagine it would have repercussions. I would recommend that you do exactly what you did here and leave it at that. Giving pointers of what works for you here doesn't target anyone and has low to no risk of being mis-understood.

Just my opinion.

 

[magic]

Best HEAD

So..In the last few years..Which sp (past and present )gives the best head??

 

[dakotasp]

ME lol...um wait...did u ask who gives the best head or who thinks they give the best head? lol

 

[Dallas_Cowboy]

If you are talking about the best,for me there has to be no condom invovled. I also like it very wet and I enjoy a lot of hand involved. I enjoy having my ass licked and enjoy ONE finger. A woman that is able to read my reactions is also extremely important (I think this is very important when performing oral on a woman). If she is able to get me on the brink a few times with out letting my reach orgasm is awesome, teasing in other words.

 

[rossedm34]

To go back to the original question, I think the great BJ's are the ones not trying to get you to pop in 5 seconds, but draw out the experience. Technique and what not is kind of second to that.

 

[Markl]

I know I've said this before, but I feel like a BJ is degrading to women. I think it is a power thing for guys, dominance. My ex-fiancee always wanted to do that with me and used to get upset when I refused. Part of it is also that kissing is sooo sooo important to me during sex, and I certainly didn't want to taste my own pre-cum. It is always about the intimacy for me.

Just being me.

I could never have an orgasm from a BJ or HJ. Only intercourse.

 

[Annalise Lane]

great remarks so far

I liked the detailed answers the most - it gives me(sp's in general) a broad understanding of the expectations of bj service. I've said it many times to the gentleman that see me regularly, it's not my favorite activity. In the past few weeks, I've been analyzing why.

1)My jaw gets sore.
2)No response from the receiver.
3)Would rather have sex ---- I get something out of this more then a bj.
4)He doesn't do daty so why should I do bj. To get you should give. (lol - I guess that applies to me too)
5)I miss the taste of a man, but not enough to take off the cover so why bother.

~banter away peoples~

 

[rossedm34]

I know I've said this before, but I feel like a BJ is degrading to women. I think it is a power thing for guys, dominance. My ex-fiancee always wanted to do that with me and used to get upset when I refused. Part of it is also that kissing is sooo sooo important to me during sex, and I certainly didn't want to taste my own pre-cum. It is always about the intimacy for me.

Or it's form of giving pleasure. I enjoy giving oral to the my partners, am I degrading myself and giving them a power trip because I go down on them without them asking? It sounds like your really hung up Mark, sorry to say it.

4)He doesn't do daty so why should I do bj. To get you should give. (lol - I guess that applies to me too)

Great point! I'm of the opinion that this is really the number one rule of sexual shenanigans. If your not comfortable doing it, you shouldn't persist on having it done on you, whether it's BJs or Greek.
As far as the jaw thing, cheat a bit, that's what I do DATY and I've gotten no complaints... or the woman I see are really polite...

 

[Dallas_Cowboy]

I know I've said this before, but I feel like a BJ is degrading to women. I think it is a power thing for guys, dominance. My ex-fiancee always wanted to do that with me and used to get upset when I refused. Part of it is also that kissing is sooo sooo important to me during sex, and I certainly didn't want to taste my own pre-cum. It is always about the intimacy for me.

Just being me.

I could never have an orgasm from a BJ or HJ. Only intercourse.

I assume you don't like getting your ass licked then.