Do SP's worry about what the guy looks like?

[Willingham]

I can't imagine how you girls do it...On a first encounter, you have no idea who is comin a knockin. Does the money block it all out if the guy is ugly, smelly, obese...you know where I am going with this...

When I pooned, a few times the girls let out a sigh of relief when we met, like it was a relief that I was presentable and cute (thats what they said).

 

[Savannah Saint]

To be honest...

It doesn't really matter to me how 'cute' a client is - it is their personality that turns me on.

Cleanliness on the other hand IS a big issue. Lack of can be a HUGE turn off (obviously), and some people aren't as smart about this as you'd think. It definitely is why ymmv! And why ladies offer showers!

 

[Miss January]

10 minute clause

If either party is not happy with what is behind the door, etiquette, in my book, is give it 10 minutes,..a shower and what lies behind the person is also indicative of the overall rendezvous. Everyone deserves respect regardless of outward appearance. I think in 5 years I have only turned away one gent based on his weight,...love my bed too much to risk the obvious outcome,..not to mention the complaints from the floor below,..tee hee,..xoxo shar

 

[Willingham]

I scrub my nether regions including my other nether region religiously - oh yeah.

 

[chancy4me]

,..not to mention the complaints from the floor below

Hell there is enough racket in the room little mind any other floor

 

[FortunateOne]

I think most sps worry more about what the guy acts like. I'm sure the reverse is true as well. Hot girl/guy with a bad attitude won't get as far as an average girl/guy with super skills and great personality. (And hygiene, of course).

 

[sidara]

I try to not judge either, until I've had a moment to build a little repore. Sometimes the guy who you think will be a tiger under the sheet's is a bore and the fella you thought would be a drag, does thing's you never thought possible. I agree with Savannah, Hygiene is an instant turn off. Dirt under fingernail's is discusting. Sweaty ball's.....let's not even go there. lol
In my experience so far though, I have still, had better sex, since beggining massage, than when I was single. I like people,I embrace diversity and differences; I am a sexual person, sensual, and single. So each experience broadens my realm and often suprises me. It's like any job though, Sometimes there are aspect's of it, you may not enjoy, or that may challenge you. I began massage one month ago. So far it has been rather liberating The Good experiences, far outweigh the not so good one's. And yes, on those odd occaision's, perhap's the $ does help a touch!

 

[JpeggeR]

Hot girl/guy with a bad attitude won't get as far as an average girl/guy with super skills and great personality. (And hygiene, of course).

I agree with that statement fully. I know I've been with girls with all different looks, but the ones who I enjoyed the most were all about attitude...knowing the right thing to say at the right time, their openess and having a funny bone mattered way more than how "hawt" they are to me.

 

[d_Duck55]

I'd take a respectful, interesting, sexually-hungry average guy over a bored Adonis any day.

Me too. No wait. Lady, not guy. Yeah that's it.

As mentioned above, it is pretty common for the girls who are 10.5/10 gorgeous, and the ones who describe themselves as "I am a drop dead gorgeous ... " girl, to be kind of boring because they think all they have to do is show up.

Being at least presentable looking, with personality and skills, is more important.

 

[CalgaryJenn]

Actually, I have had some guys who were less than GQ looking who turned me on more than the GQ guys, based on their personalities and the way they carried themselves.
I laugh when you get the muscular, good looking guys who are full of themselves and have attitude. They come through the door like they are the shit. They are usually the ones who bust a nut in 5 minutes and leave embarassed. They always give ya the line, "I don't know what happened, I never cum that fast." Yeah, sure.
Another thing I have noticed is that the guys that society looks at as "nerdy" often have the nicest cocks. I used to work in an gay bar. Both gay guys, lesbians, and bi peeps. There is a rumor that tall skinny guys have big cocks. Guess what, it's true. Tall slender guys have really nice cocks. I thought it was a myth, but it's soooooooooo true.
So, I don't judge a person on their looks, because I have been thrown for a loop a number of times, where I was expecting one thing, and found another.

 

[InTheBum]

Freaks!

I had the conversation with an SP once, named Felicia. A cute little blonde that use to work in Van, about 3 yrs ago. She told me, before I came to the door, she was praying, please don't let him be a freak...and she was so happy when she saw me...She stated her previous two clients was a disgusting old chinese guy and a fair tall red headed guy, that pounded away on her with hatred in his eyes. It really "creeped" her out.

She was relatively new to the job and said it was stressful looking through the peep hole or the few minutes prior.

 

[Katlyn]

Speaking from personal experience (can not talk about escorting as I have not done it) the best looking guys are almost always without a doubt the worst lay of my life. The best sex is always with those average guys you would not look twice at. Maybe because they are hungry for it, or maybe because they are more likely to have had long term girlfriends where they have explored their sexuality. All I know is those super hot guys can get any chick in the bar and so they think they are The Shit but when you get them in bed it is awful.

p.s. hygeine is HUGE. I had one massage client who had not washed well down there and his full body massage avoided his glutes as well as his balls. I usually spend 5-10 min teasing and massaging the balls before even touching the guy's dick because it feels good for him but this guy missed out. If you don't want your mileage to vary have CLEAN short and filed nails and be CLEAN down there (don't forget to wash in the cracks!)

 

[J Waters]

I have had great big O' from some of the less than pretty people of the world.
I've found that short men are not so short, (they can be very long and tall in many ways.)
I absolutely adore an arrogant ugly man, it seem's one man's insecurities can become a woman's fantasy, come to life.
I have also had wonderful moments with some very pretty boys.
So I guess it comes down to, make the most of what you got!

I think Beauty is a good name for a Collie.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

I've had some of the best sex in my life with men who'd be considered less than attractive on the outset.

That desire, that fire, that lust... THAT is what is attractive and turns me on!

Yes it's nice to have a hot client, and I've been pleasantly surprised more than I ever expected in this business. Honestly though, those hotties aren't always the best when it comes to personality and talent.

People who haven't had the world handed to them on a platter because they're beautiful have to work harder to have more engaging personalities. A sexual encounter is so much more than just physical for me. The mind-meld, the passion, has nothing to do with their looks.

I'd take a respectful, interesting, sexually-hungry average guy over a bored Adonis any day.

xoxo
Nina

Geez, now this should be a must read for all guys, beginning in their early teens!!!

And who better than a working girl to be able to speak with authority on the subject?

(Most who write books on the same subject speak as people who have at times wooed one, two, and eventually a lifetime partner. A working girl is known by all to have sampled so many that she can be expected to know of what she speaks from her own experiences)

Bravo!!

 

[trackstar]

Jealous my ass! Women in their 20's wish they had that body and have years to go before they accquire your wisdom. Nice package in my books!

 

[littlejimbigher]

. The best sex is always with those average guys you would not look twice at. Maybe because they are hungry for it, or maybe because they are more likely to have had long term girlfriends where they have explored their sexuality. All I know is those super hot guys can get any chick in the bar and so they think they are The Shit but when you get them in bed it is awful.

Maybe because us average guy apreciate a beautiful woman more because we get them less and know we have to go out of our way to keep them.