Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?

[Very Veronica]

So if you enjoy your job, you're supposed to do it for free? Everyone who participates in these liaisons knows exactly what is going on. It is a transaction but it doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself while giving the best damn service. It sounds like you're like a lot of folks who are stuck in a job they don't enjoy. Sad. Even more sad is being a miserable veteran sp, lousy for the resume & the head.

Once again, i agree you do probably speak for a lot of sp's but direct your frustration at yourself, not to those of us who rock our jobs.

My question to you, is if you enjoy it so much then why do you charge?

 

[CalgaryJenn]

I guess your only supposed to charge for doing things you hate? If you like doing something, it should be free? LOL I suppose that means that everybody is supposed to hate their job if they plan on getting paid.
US Postal Workers should be making $300/hr if thats the case. Those fuckers bring guns to work.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

It is very disrespectful to stereotype other working girls in this way.

It is, isn't it?
I was actually only giving examples of how much the sp's motivations can make a difference on the level of her enjoyment. They are a few examples out of endless others.. That's hardly stereotyping. Those are possible and realistic scenarios, are they not?


And you just said yourself that the sexual part of the encountered is only one of the aspects of this job.. I agree with you, but the original question was never specifically and only about the level of sexual enjoyment??

 

[sonoman]

Originally Posted by Sexy Nina Leone
Does his wife not have any responsibility in the equation? If you're going to dissect it, then you have to look at the causes of infidelity.

Maybe she is too busy raising the kids and having a job.

Unfortunately, it runs a lot deeper than that.

 

[Big Dog Striker]

Passionate Attitude II

One of the most respected and successful companies in Canada is the Four Seasons hotel chain. The name Four Seasons is synonymous with knock-your-socks off service. The employees are known for their passion and their commitment of walking that extra mile for their clientele. If you ask for directions from hotel staffers, they never just tell you - they walk you there. They always treat everybody as if they are royalty. Four Seasons employees love their job the same way Roberto Luongo loves goalkeeping for the Canucks but it doesn't mean they should work for free.

Things happen for a reason. If you're tired, fed up, not feeling great about what you're doing - maybe that's telling you something. Nonstop frustration is usually a clue that you are spending your life doing something you are not cut out to do. When you feel like you're done, move on instead of bitching about life. Staying in a place past your prime doesn't do anyone any good.

Remember, you only go around this world once - so do the thing that makes you happy.

 

[leelee]

Mckenzi - perhaps you're right....

Honestly LEELEE you should try another job. Maybe you'll find passion in that. I have to agree with Very Veronica. I love my job. Yes the money is good, but thats not the only reason I do what I do. If you want to look down on me for that by all means. However, I found something I am not only good at but enjoy doing at the same time. I consider myself lucky.

I am too old for duplicity and self-aggrandizement.

 

[Keithks]

I appreciate Leelee's honesty. If I were a women, I don't think I'd be terribly excited about being penetrated by all these random dicks I didn't get to choose.

To be honest, I don't think it even matters to me whether the girls I'm with enjoy it. What matters is that they're physically into it and don't just lie there like dead fish.

 

[jordan_]

I appreciate Leelee's honesty. If I were a women, I don't think I'd be terribly excited about being penetrated by all these random dicks I didn't get to choose.

To be honest, I don't think it even matters to me whether the girls I'm with enjoy it. What matters is that they're physically into it and don't just lie there like dead fish.

I get to choose.
If I don't want to see someone for any reason I send them to another girl.

Its better that way, it makes you ABLE to enjoy what you do

 

[AA_Train]

If you truly believe that ladies go into this business for the sexual pleasure you are surely mistaken. Perhaps one of these ladies that has argued that they enjoy the sexual gratification from strangers would be willing to give you a free session to prove it - not likely!

Service provider's that are really good can always please their clients and have the men leave convinced that she truly enjoyed herself. This skill is what separates the average escorts from the amazing escorts. Do not be arrogant enough to assume that you have not already been deceived by an escort - this is what we do for a living - and most escorts are expert male-manipulators.

Your argument about passion is also muttered...it is impossible for women to be passionate about something that they do "x" times per day nearly every single day. Imagine doing your job (whatever your job is) and then coming home and spending all night doing the same thing. I am sure that after a while you will understand how boring the business can become.

Allow me to tell you the truth; although, every SP with a name attached to their account will argue with me.

Behind the scenes, away from the eyes and ears of the men, most ladies do not physically enjoy what they do for a living. The few that do are sexual aberrations.

There might be the odd guy, like 1 in 1000 that might be physically enjoyable, but most are not due to the inherent repetition of the job.

The odd lady that walks into an escort agency or massage parlour claiming to enjoy what they do for a living will be looked down upon by other ladies because their behaviour is so out of character with the majority of escorts.

As a result, escorts that are true nymphomaniacs tend to be ostracized by other escorts who consider them nasty and disgusting to enjoy having sex with a trick.

That is the real truth.

Let the advertising...oops I mean flaming...begin

You may be right but it's probably like any other job. Say you rennovate homes. After rennovating someone elses home you probably don't want to it in your home, even if you have to and other days you're more into it. Even someone who really enjoys there job is going to have days that they have to grind out and I'm sure that the percentage of women who enjoy it is far higher than you believe it is and I feel sorry for you and your friends who have done it so long and don't enjoy it. You wouldn't be the first person who works/has worked a job they don't enjoy.

As a client, I GOOD service, outstanding service if possible, is what I want and by and large I've been fortunate to see ladies who were committed to providing that. At the end of it all I hope they have a good time with me and I try to be kind and gentlemenly toward them and if they enjoyed themselves great, if the didn't that's all on them. The bottom line for me is good service as the bottom line for them is cash. And despite what many of the ladies and other pooners may believe, it's not just about sex it's about the companionship and I think the best ladies excel in both areas so I try to reciprocate in both areas. Again, enjoyment is up to them as long as the service is good, i'll probably come back at one point in time. So from my point of view if they provide that through genuine enjoyment or through award-winning acting it's all good.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

A lot of factors dictate the level of enjoyment or tolerance in any profession. Age, working conditions, client base, physical condition, venues, time of the month, character, background, social and financial status, looks, experience, community support and attitudes and the big "why" you are in this business in the first place. Comparing apples and oranges between one SP and another is futile, everyone's got reasons as diverse as fingerprints. One can make generalizations based on individual perspectives, but we should make allowances as there are always those who are secure in their choice and who actually revel in their chosen profession. This goes somewhat counter to my original assertions previously as they were based on extensive discussions with many ladies in the AMPs around town. Escorts are different even though the outcomes are arguably similar.

Comparing providers is not unlike comparing Britney Spears with Paul Newman, both in the entertainment industry after all.

 

[bb_1950]

A real professional girl does not get off on sex with clients, its a job for them and they will enhance your fantasy. Acting is part of this job and the better the actress the bigger the tips.

Occasionally I'm sure it happens, I have encountered this before a few times but they were cutting lose and not thinking about it like a job. Who cares anyway, I pay my money to get me off and I don't give a shit if she gets off or not, why pay to get her off anyway.

This is so true!

 

[AA_Train]

A real professional girl does not get off on sex with clients, its a job for them and they will enhance your fantasy. Acting is part of this job and the better the actress the bigger the tips.

Occasionally I'm sure it happens, I have encountered this before a few times but they were cutting lose and not thinking about it like a job. Who cares anyway, I pay my money to get me off and I don't give a shit if she gets off or not, why pay to get her off anyway.

Ah, so by that logic professional athletes don't enjoy their job, or artists, or doctors or, well pretty much anybody. Just because you do something as part of your job doesn't mean you don't enjoy it. In fact, it is ideal if yoyu do enjoy. I think that's a pretty narrow view you have there Hattrick.

Each client has their own agenda as does each SP. Some clients don't care if the lady they're with gets off, others do as I'm sure some ladies don't really care if they get off while others try and often do. I care if the lady I'm with gets off, SP or not, because it turns me on to get them off because it makes me feel like I've done something good and quite frankly it makes me feel pretty powerful that I can have that effect on a woman. But I guess to each their own.

 

[Leigh]

More specifically, do they get turned about having sex with a stranger like us guys do? Do they ever orgasm with their clients? Is their enjoyment dependant on what the guy looks like, how skilled he is, how amiable he is, or what kind of mood they're in that day? What are SPs really thinking when they have sex with us? I'd like to hear both from SPs and the fellas.

I like what I do the vast majority of the time. The sex with a stranger part isn't a particular turn on, I prefer the comfort level of knowing what the guy likes, what his style is. And I agree with Nina, most seem to want to get me off. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't and I don't mind either way. But if the guy is trying too hard and it's not going to happen, that can be pressure to bring out the academy award material. As long as we both have a good time, I don't mind if he has a better time, that's what he's there for ; )

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

it's all bullshit. No chicks walk into the grade 12 counsellors office and say 'it's my life long dream to be a hooker.'

Any guy who thinks they like it are in lala land. Most are desperate for money and have no other alternatives really. Be it kids, debts, hooked on pills... if you ain't got no skills the only way you are making decent money is to spread 'em. And of course no SP on here is going to admit it, that's just PR suicide. It's all common sense really. Wake up.

I laugh at all these suckers on here who write reviews such as 'I licked her twat and gave her 3 big O's.' blah blah blah. Sorry to bust your ego pal, but no you didn't. The hooker you are with is lying on her back counting down the minutes till you are the fuck off the bed and on your way home.

Wow, this guy watches too much tv ! Some of us gave up really good jobs to do this ....

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Some of us gave up really good jobs to do this ....

So did mustangjoe...

 

[Dawgy]

I think the whole question is funny really

I never wondered if the waitress bringing me my hot wings & beer likes her job

I never wondered if the girl cutting my hair likes her job

I never wondered if the girl at the dry cleaners likes her job


Man the only reason we are talking about this is because people are so fuckin' hung up on sex in our society

When I go to a SP I act like I do with other ladies that I get service from, I am polite and repectful and apprecitative when I get good service (this means tipping & expressing that everything was great and telling others)

If she doesn't like her job I could care less, not because I am calus but because unless it shows in poor service it doesn't affect our "business transaction" one more time "business transaction". I think if she's had enough she'd quit, just like the waitress, hairstylst or drycleaner.

Lastly, I've had many great experiences and a few poor ones, and I will say sometimes I could tell that maybe she should have been in another job or was having a bad day and the service suffered... but as long a the beer is cold and the wings are hot I was generally happy.

I wonder if we as a society will ever get over sexual hang ups


Weeeeeeeee Dawgy