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Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?

Miss*Bijou

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Have you seen the pain on the face of Spitzer's wife?

This is one of the "beautiful" things you create!

and that's the escorts responsibility?
give me a fucking break. the man standing next to her is the one who was responsible for that. he's an adult, he's made his choices. now he's got to deal with them.
 

blondgirl

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Just curious

Just wondering if all you girls still enjoy it when you have a sponge or half a tampon stuffed in your hoo hoo..............IT is always fun to squat and push out after being fucked really hard isn't it????? Or is that the part of your job you will admit you do not enjoy?? Ladies,do not claim you take the week off......we can see your advertising history......and they are updated weekly......:D
 

WestVanGuy

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and that's the escorts responsibility?
give me a fucking break. the man standing next to her is the one who was responsible for that. he's an adult, he's made his choices. now he's got to deal with them.
Of course, he did it alone. There was no greedy woman involved in the process.
 

Miss*Bijou

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Just wondering if all you girls still enjoy it when you have a sponge or half a tampon stuffed in your hoo hoo..............IT is always fun to squat and push out after being fucked really hard isn't it????? Or is that the part of your job you will admit you do not enjoy?? Ladies,do not claim you take the week off......we can see your advertising history......and they are updated weekly......:D


Thanks for proving my point, blondgirl.

Get a life.

by the way, in case you didn't know.. there are a few contraceptive/birth control methods nowadays in 2008, that have has one of their side effects.... no longer having to stuff that half tampon up there like, apparently, you used to have to.

But thanks for sharing. No, really... We're all incredibly grateful for that valuable information. Really adds incredible depth to the discussion. Bravo. :rolleyes:
 

jordan_

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So if he picked up a girl in the bar fucked her and didn't speak to her again would you be just as mad?
or are you only mad because he is paying for it?
 

SexyBoy

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oh great. now, a troll...

hey troll - better make it worth your while, you might not last very long. :rolleyes:
Man that was soooo quick gj!
 

blondgirl

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Thanks for proving my point, blondgirl.

Get a life.

by the way, in case you didn't know.. there are a few contraceptive/birth control methods nowadays in 2008, that have has one of their side effects.... no longer having to stuff that half tampon up there like, apparently, you used to have to.

But thanks for sharing. No, really... We're all incredibly grateful for that valuable information. Really adds incredible depth to the discussion. Bravo. :rolleyes:
Thought maybe some Surrey humor would lighten the mood :D Miss Bijou you really need to lighten up.......What began as a question from a client has turned into an awful lot of self promotion......As for my anonymity I would love to meet for coffee....... You sound like alot of fun
 

WestVanGuy

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Even if I just go along with your, um, opinion... How do you know she knew he was married? There are MANY men who lie about it, even to escorts.
You can tell if a guy is married. He is a certain age and he looks relaxed and "cared for". There is a married-guy-look and I am sure you recognize it.
 

WestVanGuy

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So if he picked up a girl in the bar fucked her and didn't speak to her again would you be just as mad?
or are you only mad because he is paying for it?
Who says I am mad? I just couldn't stomach the delusional talk about "escorts are saints spreading love all over the world" anymore and felt like telling you what I really think of your charity work. LOL
 

WestVanGuy

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The question from a client is answered truthfully from several people. The question is one that has no correct answer, only personal opinions. Why is it that only the negative comments are considered sincere by most of you?

Do you find it so incredibly impossible that anyone could actually enjoy giving pleasure to someone? Those that choose to feel this way do so because they themselves lack the compassion and generosity of spirit that it takes to be truly giving and caring to a stranger.

They can't fathom it because they have never valued or experienced joy from being a giving, caring human being. Sad.
Sorry, but you are completely delusional. I am not saying you don't make the occasional shy single guy or the long-time widow very happy. What I am saying is that what you do is selfish and you are making money at the expense of other people's lives.

If you have worked as an escort chances are you have broken up a few marriages. Forget the sanctimonious "seeing escorts to save his marriage"
bullshit.
 

jordan_

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You can tell if a guy is married. He is a certain age and he looks relaxed and "cared for". There is a married-guy-look and I am sure you recognize it.
Maybe sometimes.
But not always
a lot of guys are divorced or single but still have the same demeanor to them.

Give some, take some in this debate please.

I can admit that we're not doing "charity" I laugh at that concept too, trust me.

But we don't know 100% of the time if he is married or not(its not our business) and we don't break up a whole bunch of marriages all the time, and if him seeing an sp is the cause of a divorce its not 100% OUR fault.
He is a big boy.
 
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WestVanGuy

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Maybe sometimes.
But not always
a lot of guys are divorced or single but still have the same demeanor to them.

Give some, take some in this debate please.

I can admit that we're not doing "charity" I laugh at that concept too, trust me.

But we don't know 100% of the time if he is married or not(its not our business) and we don't break up a whole bunch of marriages all the time, and if him seeing an sp is the cause of a divorce its not 100% OUR fault.
He is a big boy.
Thank you. We are in complete agreement:)
 

leelee

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Don't forget about the mental qualities...

Do you find it so incredibly impossible that anyone could actually enjoy giving pleasure to someone? Those that choose to feel this way do so because they themselves lack the compassion and generosity of spirit that it takes to be truly giving and caring to a stranger.

They can't fathom it because they have never valued or experienced joy from being a giving, caring human being. Sad.
Actually the original question was "do sps enjoy what they do". From my personal discussions with working girls over the years most have stated to me that they do not get sexual gratification from their clients.

Nina Leone...because a lady does not physically enjoy the session does not mean that she lacks compassion. You are making an inaccurate value judgment here.

Escorts that do not enjoy the sex tend to make up for it by focusing their energy on the mental side of the business. To do this you must have an innate understanding of human nature as well as be a good listener, a wonderful conversationalist, and a genuinely nice person.

These mental qualities are far more important than the physical side of the job. Girls that believe that men come to see them only for the physical benefits are surely missing the point.

To those that have commented that I am bitter and should retire...I am highly sensitive to people's needs, and because of this, I am someone who really should be in this business.

Lastly, I do not do this business "to keep up an expensive habit/lifestyle (clothes, travel, drugs, whatever)" nor to purchase "Juicy Couture tracksuits". It is very disrespectful to stereotype other working girls in this way.
 

Ima

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Stereotyping people seems to be disrespectful at most occasions...

I've always found it strange that the person being cheated on is some how mad at the person their spouse is cheating with...

If A and B are married
B hooks up with C
Why is A mad at C
C never made any commitment to A

An SP is not at all responsible for breaking up a marriage unless she actively persues the client to end the marriage... If all she does is provide her regular service, then she is no more responsible for the break up in the marriage then the guy at the Gas station who sold the man gas to go to the in call location...
 

CalgaryJenn

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Damn straight I enjoy it. I don't do anything I don't want to do or don't like. I have my days where I'm just not into it. Those are the days I take off.
Some girls might not really enjoy it and do it just for the money, but I do enjoy it. And of course, I have my favorites. Favorites who yes, I can call, and have given the occasional freebie, just because I wanted to fuck. That doesn't happen very often, but if he mood strikes, I will and do make the call.
 
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