Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?

Miss*Bijou

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(Which is why some, like SNL, can honestly say they enjoy their time fully, because they aren't in an mp doing the same thing 3-4+ times a day, they don't over do it. )
That's exactly it. And that's how the sp's reasons & motivations play a huge part.


If you see numerous clients a day to make as much cash as you can, and to keep up with an expensive habit/lifestyle (clothes, travel, drugs, whatever..) - I'm sure you'll feel very differently about it than an sp who sees it as a great way to have more freedom with her life and chooses to work when she wants to. Yes, the monetary rewards are a reason for enjoying this work, no one is denying it.


HOWEVER Not all of us are interested in making as much money as we can, some of us see it as a great and FUN way to make good money without having to spend 60hrs/wk slaving away doing something we don't enjoy! Just like for any other work, faking something you hate doing ultimately does not make you feel great about yourself, no matter how much money or shoes you have. (I know, because I've done it... and it had nothing to do with escorting or sex. ;) )That you don't show it to the world is understandable, but regardless - at the end of the day, it is there and you are the only one who pays the price for it. It's just easier for some to justify it by assuming everyone is the same.


I wonder who ends up feeling more disgusting or disgusted with themselves down the road...? Those who enjoyed it.... or those who didn't? :cool:
 

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My question to you, is if you enjoy it so much then why do you charge?
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Hmm... Maybe because it's our job ;) otherwise we'd be calling it volunteering, wouldn't we?
This argument always comes up every time this topic is discussed, but has no validity to it! How many of you would do your work for free? Come on, now.. that's silly. There are other ways of determining someone enjoys their work, without them doing it for free! :rolleyes:




The few girls that actually do enjoy their job (and don't just say they do for marketing purposes) deviate astronomically from the norm.

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No one is claiming that this is the majority or the norm. But for you to say that anyone claiming to feel differently about it than you do yourself, is only doing so for marketing purposes - is just pretty arrogant.

How would you know how everyone feels about it? Really, you don't. Speak for yourself, those you've known and assume that the majority of sp's feel this way... I won't disagree. But you can't say that everyone is the same...?! Sorry, you have no clue about that. None.
 

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Yes I love what I do. I think really, I could almost consider this a 'calling' for me. I view each appointment as an opportunity to create something really beautiful.. be it sweet and gentle or hardcore crazy, it's all amazing and beautiful to me. I've never been happier, because I've never loved so much.
Yes, and the married guy goes home and kisses his kids with your pussy on his breath and when the wife hugs him he says he is too tired from work to have sex.

You can be proud of yourself. You have truly created something beatiful.
 

WestVanGuy

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Why can't you women just admit you are selfish monsters who don't give a damn about what damage you cause as long as you make money and have fun?
 

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Whats wrong? You cant handle the truth??? It sucks doesn't it??? Good job west van guy....paid advertisers will say anything!!!
 

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Why can't you women just admit you are selfish monsters who don't give a damn about what damage you cause as long as you make money and have fun?
Oh for fuck sakes grow up. Haha
Who cares? if a guy is going to cheat, he will cheat. That is HIM messing things up, not us.

:rolleyes:
That was the stupidest thing I've ever read.
 

WestVanGuy

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Oh for fuck sakes grow up. Haha
Who cares? if a guy is going to cheat, he will cheat. That is HIM messing things up, not us.
Then say so! But don't tell us the crap about your job creating beautiful things, because you are ridiculous.
 

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Well if you chose to see him knowing he's married then it's also you messing things up.
How do we know if they are married?
Should I make sure they show me proof before every session?
And should I be refusing clients because they are married?
And I also know clients who have wives who allow them to see sp's because they don't want sex anymore, and don't want them to pick up girls because they could form an emotional attachment.

Or maybe they are lying to me, but, should I refuse them just in case?

Its the mans fault if he is going to cheat, go out actively looking to cheat, do not blame the woman he is paying to fuck.

Its not like I'm going to try to be with him and take him from his wife.:rolleyes: I'm giving him something he needs and can't get at home(maybe he can but wont ask)
that way he will stay with his wife, because his needs are being met.
 

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Its not like I'm going to try to be with him and take him from his wife.:rolleyes: I'm giving him something he needs and can't get at home(maybe he can but wont ask)
that way he will stay with his wife, because his needs are being met.
Or he will leave her because he gets used to blow jobs and finds a younger girl who gives it to him.
 

Miss*Bijou

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Blondgirl, you always come on here with some pretty harsh and bitter opinions or posts. Your attitude about it has nothing in common with me or the decisions I make. Please don't project on to me how you feel about yourself. I'm quite capable of dealing with my feelings about it on my own. You don't know me, and post all your crap anonymously like a coward. I can understand the girls who are working presently wanting to remain anonymous. But If you and LeeLee are both retired sp's, why the fuck do you need to hide behind a fake name?


Seriously, deal with your own shit. And why don't you make yourself a little useful and at least tell the other girls out there that feel like you, to make sure to set aside a nice chunk of their earnings for therapy they'll need later, when they're bitter about their choices. Don't YOU wish you had?


well, i'm not actually a paid advertiser anymore, and i won't even be on the same coast in a few weeks ;) but i guess that's the argument that makes you right, then uh? :rolleyes:

there wasn't much point in joining the discussion, i guess.. :cool:
 

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If you can't grasp what I said I'm not gonna waste my time talking any slower.

Nina: I never said the wife didn't have any culpability.
So does speaking that way make you feel superior now?
Get rid of your holier than thou attitude it's really unattractive
 
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