Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?
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Manipulate me, please!
Women in general are male-manipulators, some expert.
I don't mean that in a disparaging way. We men may willingly or eagerly submit to that manipulation when we perceive the result as beneficial, and there are certainly expert female-manipulators too. I view it as all part of the "propagation of the species" dance, even in the cases where the manipulation is purely selfish or sufficiently covert that the victim is unaware.
In fact, it might be said that the escort's fee is for providing the kind of manipulation that we enjoy, rather than the kinds of manipulation other women are offering for "free".
I think you're "painting with too narrow a brush" here.
Women in general are male-manipulators, some expert.
I don't mean that in a disparaging way. We men may willingly or eagerly submit to that manipulation when we perceive the result as beneficial, and there are certainly expert female-manipulators too. I view it as all part of the "propagation of the species" dance, even in the cases where the manipulation is purely selfish or sufficiently covert that the victim is unaware.
In fact, it might be said that the escort's fee is for providing the kind of manipulation that we enjoy, rather than the kinds of manipulation other women are offering for "free".
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Oh for sure they go into it for the money. No doubt about that.
A lot of escorts do not see very many clients in a week. Some might not even see any for their shift. Most escorts don't make a ton of cash either.
Yes their are some nymphos.
Sure their are some good looking and great clients too.
It sounds to me that LeeLee is talking about the popular escorts that can handle a very large demand. In that case I agree 100%.
Do you really think the popular ones that cannot handle the demand care to even try?
You also have to realize that their are escorts responding on here that don't even tell you where they work or what sp name they go by. Jordan is a prime example of that.
Avarice is retired...
It is pretty easy to tell which escorts are not enjoying the moment.
There sure are some bitter escorts also. I find it funny when they think every SP is just like them.
When I go to work I love it every day almost. Other people that I have worked with don't feel the same way. Most of the time they cannot hide their true feelings. Those are normally the ones that never excel at their job. It is the same for a escort.
I have had the open relationships with escorts and strippers before. Let’s not get into the stripper part though it is different. About 85% or more of the clients are not attractive or fun. At least for the younger escorts out there. It seems to change as the escort gets older.
I don't think many people can fake anything these days. Think about a car sales man or real estate agent. They should be really good at faking their intentions. Yet I bet almost everyone here can pick up on their crap. It is the same way with escorts.
You do know that everyone is so busy these days. Hardly anyone has time for other people. They normally only spend their free time with those people they like. If an escort is spending her free time on you then there is a good chance she enjoys your company. No escort spends her free time on every client she has daily. If you are only seeing her once to twice a month and she talks to you almost everyday she must be using you....
Even better when you have never even met her before and she starts talking to you on the forums on a daily basis via PM...
Some escorts don't even know when other escorts are playing them. I have seen escorts tell new escorts what they should charge and how they should act and then go and do the opposite.
A lot of escorts do not see very many clients in a week. Some might not even see any for their shift. Most escorts don't make a ton of cash either.
Yes their are some nymphos.
Sure their are some good looking and great clients too.
It sounds to me that LeeLee is talking about the popular escorts that can handle a very large demand. In that case I agree 100%.
Do you really think the popular ones that cannot handle the demand care to even try?
You also have to realize that their are escorts responding on here that don't even tell you where they work or what sp name they go by. Jordan is a prime example of that.
Avarice is retired...
It is pretty easy to tell which escorts are not enjoying the moment.
There sure are some bitter escorts also. I find it funny when they think every SP is just like them.
When I go to work I love it every day almost. Other people that I have worked with don't feel the same way. Most of the time they cannot hide their true feelings. Those are normally the ones that never excel at their job. It is the same for a escort.
I have had the open relationships with escorts and strippers before. Let’s not get into the stripper part though it is different. About 85% or more of the clients are not attractive or fun. At least for the younger escorts out there. It seems to change as the escort gets older.
I don't think many people can fake anything these days. Think about a car sales man or real estate agent. They should be really good at faking their intentions. Yet I bet almost everyone here can pick up on their crap. It is the same way with escorts.
You do know that everyone is so busy these days. Hardly anyone has time for other people. They normally only spend their free time with those people they like. If an escort is spending her free time on you then there is a good chance she enjoys your company. No escort spends her free time on every client she has daily. If you are only seeing her once to twice a month and she talks to you almost everyday she must be using you....
Even better when you have never even met her before and she starts talking to you on the forums on a daily basis via PM...
Some escorts don't even know when other escorts are playing them. I have seen escorts tell new escorts what they should charge and how they should act and then go and do the opposite.
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Wow, sucks being you! My clients rock..most are yummy eye candy & very fun/smart/charming. Mind you i think some put themselves thru rigorous training before they cum to see me in an effort to impress. No complaints! As to repetition? It's only as repetitious as you make it. I'm not going to disagree you speak for many ladies especially those who work in parlors but many of us completely fly in the face of your stereotype. My question to you, why do it if you don't like it? Are the juicy couture track suits that important?
In my limited experience, while women appreciate a good physical appearance, it's much more important for the man to be good in other ways.
Good hygiene, good dress, good behaviour, good mental attitude. All these kinds of things turn women on. Maybe it doesn't always make them hot, but it makes them feel good to be with the man.
The guy could be a perfect physical specimen with a huge cock, and even good sexual technique, but if he smells like he just ran the Boston marathon and hasn't had a shower, and his clothes stink, and he's is some ratty sweats, and he can't put two words together without one of them being fuck or pussy, and he thinks the world is shit and the SP he is with is a walking hole for him to fuck. She might still do it for the money, if she's already agreed to the session, but she's not going to have a good time.
This is common sense. But it's amazing how many guys lack that common sense.
Good hygiene, good dress, good behaviour, good mental attitude. All these kinds of things turn women on. Maybe it doesn't always make them hot, but it makes them feel good to be with the man.
The guy could be a perfect physical specimen with a huge cock, and even good sexual technique, but if he smells like he just ran the Boston marathon and hasn't had a shower, and his clothes stink, and he's is some ratty sweats, and he can't put two words together without one of them being fuck or pussy, and he thinks the world is shit and the SP he is with is a walking hole for him to fuck. She might still do it for the money, if she's already agreed to the session, but she's not going to have a good time.
This is common sense. But it's amazing how many guys lack that common sense.
what he said.
These are often the guys who you get the impression think that the sp should want to pay him just for showing up. They also think they should be able to spend less and get more.
I don't think it could be categorized on just them. When it comes to spending less to get more.
Me not telling where I work has nothing to do with enjoying my job or not. You know that.
It was in response to this comment.
Obviously you are not advertising most of us wish you were.
Sometimes people just don't want the truth...
Lastly, to the gentlemen that are still in denial...my opinion comes from over 15 years of working in this business - in every facet: independently, track, escorting, and parlours.
The few girls that actually do enjoy their job (and don't just say they do for marketing purposes) deviate astronomically from the norm.
Do not let your personal desire cloud your objectivity. In this business you are paying for a fantasy. That is why clients are called "tricks" - escorts trick men into believing they are receiving a genuine experience.
Your thinly veiled advertising is in the wrong section. Perhaps you could put it beside Anna's "Thoughts of a SP Before Meeting a Client".
My question to you, is if you enjoy it so much then why do you charge?
Sorry, but I don't wear pimped-out tracksuits. Actually, the money that I made in this business I invested and now I have a satisfactory savings account. I think that it is okay to be me.
Lastly, to the gentlemen that are still in denial...my opinion comes from over 15 years of working in this business - in every facet: independently, track, escorting, and parlours.
The few girls that actually do enjoy their job (and don't just say they do for marketing purposes) deviate astronomically from the norm.
Do not let your personal desire cloud your objectivity. In this business you are paying for a fantasy. That is why clients are called "tricks" - escorts trick men into believing they are receiving a genuine experience.
Well you can tell you worked on track.
Honesty is nice but the girls I work with(or have have worked with in the past) and girls I know who do this, that don't even know I do, have more respect than to call them tricks.
I hope people refer to you as a hooker, instead of an SP, because when using that talk you sound like one.
Titles may mean the same thing but one is still less tasteful than the other and not necessary.
Maybe the 15 years in the biz makes you a phenomenal actress but I for one couldn't fake it if I was repulsed or 110% not interested. Not good enough for him to believe it.
So a lot of the time, though maybe not 100% genuine, Its still gonna be pretty close, or I'm turning him away.
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I agree with you. Getting the gal off with either your tongue or dick and feeling her cum just excites me to no end.I would think for the regular pooner getting the girl off is as important as getting themself off, well ok not as important but stil important... Part of the whole experience is mutual enjoyment, with out that one might as well stay home and do the wife... Atleast you know she can't wait for you to finish so she can go to sleep...
i think we all have had sex where you are thinking of something else... The hockey game, work, or the hottie you seen walking down the street, it is only natural...
For me, hearing the girl and seeing her enjoy herself is a big part of it, if I am not getting you there, speak up, tell me what you like, what works for you... Though, I am not 19 and kind of got an idea of what is working and what isn't
leelee 15 years.... I think it is time for you to change careers. You don't sound happy and you seem to like to speak for everyone which is impossible. Unless you think everyone is the same on average...
Everyone thinks exactly like you do! There is no need for people to guess anymore on what others are thinking leelee already knows just ask her! You sound like the type where people don't even bother to debate with you. They just agree and move on because your not worth their time or effort.
I wonder what the response is of a girl that has been doing it for just a few months on average.
I already know the answers are differant when it comes to this question. I can't belive with all of your experiance that you don't. How many guys out there have a SO that is or was a escort at one time? Obviously we know how their day went when they come home. We hear the stories and they are normally complaints. It sounds like any other job. We also know when they have really enjoyed their day.
Everyone thinks exactly like you do! There is no need for people to guess anymore on what others are thinking leelee already knows just ask her! You sound like the type where people don't even bother to debate with you. They just agree and move on because your not worth their time or effort.
I wonder what the response is of a girl that has been doing it for just a few months on average.
I already know the answers are differant when it comes to this question. I can't belive with all of your experiance that you don't. How many guys out there have a SO that is or was a escort at one time? Obviously we know how their day went when they come home. We hear the stories and they are normally complaints. It sounds like any other job. We also know when they have really enjoyed their day.
Hahaha But SB to be fair some girl isn't going to come home to her SO and be like "wowwww this client today was the BEST sex of my life!!"
Shes going to make it sound worse than it is, so he isn't bothered by her job.
"I don;t enjoy seeing them honey, its just work, I only like sex with you"
No?
Most guys that I know that have or are dating a escort for a long time only worry about their emotional attachment.Hahaha But SB to be fair some girl isn't going to come home to her SO and be like "wowwww this client today was the BEST sex of my life!!"
Shes going to make it sound worse than it is, so he isn't bothered by her job.
"I don;t enjoy seeing them honey, its just work, I only like sex with you"
No?
However a lot of men that think they could handle that sort of a relationship do findout how hard it is. It isn't about some other guy having sex with their SO. It is things like my good friend Frank is having problems with his puppy.. Who is Frank? Oh he is one of my clients. He is such a nice guy etc. Some of the friendships even get worse. That is what most of us do not like. Sure see her at work and pay her but thats it.
It is impossible to be with someone for a long time and not hear how their day went. It is important for a guy to listen to his SO.
We also care about our needs and wants to be with us. Some girls don't want to have sex after they have been working. If the girl can do both then most guys don't care.
Sure everyone changes though. Right now I have been thinking about being with just on woman.
Oh wait for sure we don't want to hear the BEST sex of their life! No way! I have heard that before. Then I did everything I could to please her.
No one knows who she works with or where she works!Good advertising.
Trust me I have tried!
Way To Go Leelee!!!!!!
I agree with you completely!!!I can assume you are from the days when it was about clients and not yourself.When things that are common today would have been quashed immediately. I agree that girls do it for the money...but I will maintain that a body is a body and if you are having someone touch and manipulate it you are likely to get turned on and quite possibly cum.Especially if they are doing it well.....lol. It is just simple biology.....Which is why up until a few years ago there was no such thing as GFE some things you just saved for your personal life....Girls used to provide a service and they dealt with quality ($$$$)clients,not in high quantity.A true Sp provided a great experience one that included so much more than sex!!! Being with a hooker is supposed to be like self gratification with a partner!! Men used to save the good stuff for their wives.........
I agree with you completely!!!I can assume you are from the days when it was about clients and not yourself.When things that are common today would have been quashed immediately. I agree that girls do it for the money...but I will maintain that a body is a body and if you are having someone touch and manipulate it you are likely to get turned on and quite possibly cum.Especially if they are doing it well.....lol. It is just simple biology.....Which is why up until a few years ago there was no such thing as GFE some things you just saved for your personal life....Girls used to provide a service and they dealt with quality ($$$$)clients,not in high quantity.A true Sp provided a great experience one that included so much more than sex!!! Being with a hooker is supposed to be like self gratification with a partner!! Men used to save the good stuff for their wives.........
