Would most independent SPs get annoyed if you text or email them for a same day booking just hours in advance? I sometimes feel in the mood but then pause because I'm thinking what if they are busy or not in the state of mind to do this. I also don't want her to think I only do this last minute and disrespectful of her time. Like if I care about her, she would probably appreciate me booking days ahead of time
Do most SPs get annoyed by same day bookings?
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Sps are like any other “group” we are all individuals. Perhaps if we want to know how “most” feel about same day bookings we should start a poll
I would be interested to know the results as well . I personally can not accommodate same day get togethers due to a chaotically busy real life and can only carve out time for two or three get together a week. That said polite requests for same day get togethers don’t annoy me (anymore), we are likely all aware that those urges can just pop up on you without notice lol. What does still annoy me is “avail now!?!!” at 2am followed by 8 missed calls and summed up by “bitch” haha gosh bless the do not disturb function on my phone. So as long as you avoid that, I can’t imagine requesting a same day get together will make anyone feel disrespected. Oh and if she says she is unavailable please don’t be that guy that follows up with “Well message me if a space opens up” lol. Unavailable does not mean booked back to back all day long haha
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Katey
I prefer same day bookings or even short notice appointments. I noticed a pattern of guys that book 2 hours or more in advance, end up cancelling or not showing up.
It's not going to work, at least on PERB. The platform blocks paid advertisers from voting in a poll, and unpaid can get banned, of course.Sps are like any other “group” we are all individuals. Perhaps if we want to know how “most” feel about same day bookings we should start a poll
Agree 110% with that statement. I prefer same hour bookings myself. I am 50/50 at best with booking made a day or more in advance. The biggest question is will they cancel or ghost me the hour before appointment. Same hour bookings are usually a guy with a plan, a chubby, a schedule and arrive when they say they will.
And as a note if you pre-book me a day or more in advance I will message about 4 hours before your appointment time and if you haven't responded one hour before you appointment you may find yourself bumped by an other gentlemen. If you are return guest that won't happen but if you are new with no reference it may. No response hour before is about 90% chance of a no show in my experience.
Thank-you for the information Felix, wow I have been on here way too long to have not known that.
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Katey
It would be nice if there was a way to open a poll up (if wanted) to all members to vote.
Sps are like any other “group” we are all individuals. Perhaps if we want to know how “most” feel about same day bookings we should start a poll
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Katey
I think ladies in red can start and participate in polls.
Vanessa started one
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?277738-Do-you-use-your-real-name-when-booking
Best to ask a MOD.
So, organized fat guys usually tend to book short notice..??????:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
No that's as western as you can get.....in fact it's sybian's nickname.:lol::lol::drum::behindsofa:
I have had many conversations about this very subject with quite a few SPs, and have come to the conclusion that it's as varied as the SP's personalities are. Here are two examples, close to either end of the spectrum.
One independent lady I met has extreme social anxiety and hates social chit chat. She loves Blow & Go appointments, because they usually minimize client-SP social interactions. Don't get me wrong, she truly enjoys her job and really gets turned on making men cum, but for her it is all sexual and no social. It is her preference. That said, it means that she is limiting herself to the less expensive end of the business, and has to be higher volume to make ends meet. She abhors pre-booked appointments and favours last-minute, same-day bookings. She doesn't mind the higher volume because she likes the physical interaction but not the social. Again, her choice, based on her preference.
Another lady I met had actually gone independent after a short time at an agency because she hated not knowing who she was meeting when the door opened. She is very low volume, and enjoys the build-up to the appointment as much as most clients do. She highly favours pre-bookings, sometimes months in advance, where she gets to know the person she will meet fairly well before they actually meet face to face. Upon meeting physically, she also likes to take time for a social chat before the events become more sexual in nature, meaning that she highly favours longer dates and those that start with a social engagement first. It's just her preference, and it's obvious to clients (well, at least it's obvious to me and to those writing her glowing reviews) that she's really into it because of the connection established during the lead-up to the appointment. That said, it means that she is limiting herself to the more expensive end of the business, but it allows her to be low volume and be more "fresh" for each appointment. Again, her choice, based on her preference.
There are no doubt many different preferences among SPs, falling somewhere within this spectrum - or outside of it. We are all different, which is what makes this activity so interesting.
So, my advice would be to always be polite (as has already been mentioned) and not to take it personally if her preferred approach doesn't fit with your current circumstances or with your preferred approach. You'll find someone that meshes with you.
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I have a very erratic schedule and can’t accommodate last minute booking in general, although it’s not impossible! There’s a lot of thought and prep that goes into the time we share with you all... in my case anyway. I like a little notice if possible so I can be at my best ❤
I am usually a person who likes to book in advance and will typically schedule a session a week or more ahead of time. I got into this habit because my regular SP is a local who is quite popular and lower volume so booking in advance ensures that I get the session that works for me and she is a lady who prefers booking in advance. I also love the anticipation that builds up during the week leading into the session as I feel it enhances my experience.
Outside of that my experiences have been somewhat varied as I find most local ladies don't mind booking sessions in advance, but traveling SP's seem to be less keen on it. There have only been a few times where I have booked about a week out and been cancelled on or accidentally bumped for another person and each of those instances was with a touring SP. Nowadays if I am looking at booking a touring SP, which doesn't happen very often, I typically just book the day before which for the last few ladies seemed to be the preference as they get so many messages when on tour it can be hard to keep track of things.
Outside of that my experiences have been somewhat varied as I find most local ladies don't mind booking sessions in advance, but traveling SP's seem to be less keen on it. There have only been a few times where I have booked about a week out and been cancelled on or accidentally bumped for another person and each of those instances was with a touring SP. Nowadays if I am looking at booking a touring SP, which doesn't happen very often, I typically just book the day before which for the last few ladies seemed to be the preference as they get so many messages when on tour it can be hard to keep track of things.
