Do escorts actually go out on dates with normal men?

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lucky85

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Do escorts actually go out on dates with normal men? Do you tell them what you do for a living? Do you girls actually go out and try to pick up random men at bars and etc? Do any of you got bfs who dont know what you do? Are any of you actually married? It must be weird for a guy to find out his girl is an escort.

I'm just curious to know is all.
 
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CalgaryJenn

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lucky85 said:
Are any of you actually married?
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I'm married. Hubby knows what I do of course. Is he ok with it because of the money? Nope. He owns his own company, so money isn't an issue for him.
We were swingers when we met, which makes this a lot easier to handle and accept. I can say, I don't think the average guy could handle it. Even now, there are times he asks, "Can you just turn the phone off for the night?" And I do. It takes a lot of honesty and understanding.
He always makes jokes that it's a good thing I do this, or he would never have time to get any work done.
 
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lucky85 said:
Do escorts actually go out on dates with normal men? Do you tell them what you do for a living? Do you girls actually go out and try to pick up random men at bars and etc? Do any of you got bfs who dont know what you do? Are any of you actually married? It must be weird for a guy to find out his girl is an escort.

I'm just curious to know is all.
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I wonder why you think that these ladies are anything different from the 'non SP' girls? You need to understand that there are differences between men and woman when it comes to sex and gratification. I know you are young and learning and its good that you are asking the questions because the answers will help you in the long run.

I see the escorts (majority) using the talents and gifts given to them. Just as a doctor who has talents and skills.

Speaking of Doctors, who see (more than )their share of pussies /cocks, they go home to SO's go on dates etc.

Would you marry a woman doctor who has to check men's prostate once in a while?? Course you would, so how is an SP any different?

LOL...the numbers of female doctors is rapidly increasing...gonna make the 'cough' test a harder to do...
 
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nube said:
I wonder why you think that these ladies are anything different from the 'non SP' girls? You need to understand that there are differences between men and woman when it comes to sex and gratification. I know you are young and learning and its good that you are asking the questions because the answers will help you in the long run.

I see the escorts (majority) using the talents and gifts given to them. Just as a doctor who has talents and skills.

Speaking of Doctors, who see (more than )their share of pussies /cocks, they go home to SO's go on dates etc.

Would you marry a woman doctor who has to check men's prostate once in a while?? Course you would, so how is an SP any different?

LOL...the numbers of female doctors is rapidly increasing...gonna make the 'cough' test a harder to do...
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I don't know that they were saying the ladies are different but the situation certainly is. I would say that the bulk of relationships are monogamous, or are meant to be....so if one partner or the other is having multiple partners a day I think that could throw a wrench into the relationship for many.

I dated an SP once and to be honest it was too much for me. We weren't serious at first but when we both started becoming serious it did become an issue. I think as CalgaryJenn said, honesty is a huge factor as well as an understanding and SECURE partner.
 
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Yes I guess I mustn't be normal, either. And that's a good thing.

I wonder what these "normal" men do with themselves. Hang themselves I guess, because they can't be having any sex.

Getting away from the doctor analogy, I look at it more like acting. In acting men and women do a lot more that is intimate with each other. Which yes sometimes turns into a real relationship off the set and destroys a lot of marriages, but most actors must be able to control it somehow and make the distinction in their mind.

For me I think the level of intimacy is far greater in acting. With sex provision, you're just there for a brief period and there's a kind of agreed space that you're sharing but it doesn't go beyond that. But actors in a long running production are constantly interacting in this intimate context with a specific other person. And they have to call upon all their inner feelings to make the performance work.

Yet nobody judges actors as being somehow abnormal in society. Not so much anymore anyhow (acting and prostitution used to be considered virtually the same profession).
 
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I've given up on dating while I am an Sp :cool:.

I've had a few relationships with men who have known what I do. 1 long term & 2 semi long term.

Frankly, its too much of a headache :rolleyes:.

It always comes down to them wanting me to give up my income & independence just so I can be with them :eek:.

I don't see any of the guys I've dated willing to compromise themselves financially to be with me :rolleyes:.

Heck, the guy I broke up with last week wanted me to give up my dogs :eek: (his building doesn't allow pets) so I could move in with him & get a "normal job" :rolleyes:.

Ummmmmm, yeah..........NO, lol :p
 
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Learning my lessons...

As I learned through a thread I started on this looking for advice on dating, the going consensus is that unless you come across someone truly unique, dating while you are an SP is rare.

I don't think this has much to do with an SP's desire to date, but more with a lack of potential partners with the understanding and tolerance it takes to date us.

Lots of people will often say that it doesn't matter to them....and then about 5 minutes later...it does ;-)
 
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In a nice wet pussy!
I gotta cock, so I'm a normal man - I guess. However on some dates, it likes to stir up shit, so I have to keep it pointed in the right direction, otherwise it can get in too deep, and then I'm in real deep shit.
 
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Dickzilla

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I have dated many service providers in my time... I have been using sp's for last 20 years.

I have found they are not much differend than us and actually enjoy sex when its with someone they like. If you are nice to them and treat them with respect, tell then you appreciate them. Its very possible to date them for free.

I have been lucky and not bad looking, and can fuck for hours every which way... so maybe thats why I have done well, however I told a friend of mine who is very old and not good looking but loves to spend $$$ on them and he also did very well but cost him a fortune, he should have just seen them at thier place of business as it would have been cheaper than having them around 24/7.
 
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Euro_SZabina

Dickzilla said:
I have dated many service providers in my time... I have been using sp's for last 20 years.

I have found they are not much differend than us and actually enjoy sex when its with someone they like. If you are nice to them and treat them with respect, tell then you appreciate them. Its very possible to date them for free.

I have been lucky and not bad looking, and can fuck for hours every which way... so maybe thats why I have done well, however I told a friend of mine who is very old and not good looking but loves to spend $$$ on them and he also did very well but cost him a fortune, he should have just seen them at thier place of business as it would have been cheaper than having them around 24/7.
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Now you are bragging " yawn "
 
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SP's and SO's

several years ago, an SP gal pal of mine told me that the only way she would ever entertain a "serious relationship" would be in another city under another name.

That's exactly what she did. Once she hit 35, she packed up and moved to a small town in the midwest and got an office job. She's now married with three children. I get a postcard once in a while and she seems quite content.

For some SP's, protecting their anonymity is the answer; for others, they have a devil-may-care attitude about what their SO's know about them.

As a guy, I would not marry an SP...However, if I did marry one unkowingly and later found out accidentally about her past, I would not hold it against her, provided I had genuine feelings for her.
 
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I think the hours suck too (pun intended). For sps to work they need to be available either 24/7, or at least some weekends and most evenings, including date night: Saturday :rolleyes: . So they can work, or they can date, but sex aside, how easy can it be to just spend time together without sacrificing the work, which, let's face it, she doesn't intend to do forever. So the sooner she gets her goals accomplished, the sooner she retires, and the sooner her SO has her undivided attention. Taking a night or weekend away just delays the inevitable retirement, so maybe many sps find it easier to just stay single for the duration. :confused:
 
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