Do East Asian Guys get White Girls?

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I was noticing today that of my peers, almost half of them are a white guy with asian girl - and this isn't dating, this is married with families.

But I sure don't see many white girls with asian guys.

So ... what are the other half of the white woman doing? There aren't many black guys here for them so they can't be all taken by them. Are they simply lonely? Sooner or later they will have to start dating those asian guys. Or you should get a two for one deal if you date white women. Or they already are or will soon have to be lesbians.
 

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They also get black girls, latinos, and puerto ricans. And if you have a daughter probably when she turn old enough, don't be shocked to find her with a bunch of asians. I know it's your worst nightmare but try to deal with it. LoL! Mwahahhahahaha.................
 

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I know many asian men that are married to beautiful women of different races. So I don't think it is true the asian men do not get with women outside of their own race.

Say no to ignorance, bigotry, racism and hate.

Cause like Chris Rock says. "What ever you hate will end up in your family".
 

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so many posts about races, classes, breeds, and so forth: has anybody considered it's better to find a good woman of any race than a bitch or a dumbass of a race you find physically attractive? east indians are dumb as shit for this. many, not all, would rather have their son or daughter marry somebody indian irregardless of personal habits than somebody white or any other color who may possess some very good qualities. while this thread is about personal attraction and my example is about parental views the commonality is closemindedness. stop looking at a hard-to-win situation and consider the many better possibilities.

I don't know what you mean by that. I think half breeds are genetically superior to pure breeds.
thank you. little hitler's comment about pure breed's being superior was making me wonder about how far we've really come (or not come) in our views.
 

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When Bruce Lee got married to Linda,they were riduculed.He was Asian Americain and she was white Americain.
But today generation is progressing,but not fully acceptable by old school generation.
I read an article that Asian women are ok to married outside their nationality,but the Asian man cannot and needs to look after his parents.
Old school generations think it's a disgrace if marrying outside their nationality especially if fought by war opposition country.
I think dual nationality looks more sexyer=Jessica Alba
When an Asian woman marries, she's no longer consider a member of her
family but an extension of her husband's. But a man continues to carry on
the family name after marriage & is expected to care for elderly parents,
so there's more pressure for him to marry his own kind.
 

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I don't see what is strange about Asian men and white girls. As a halfer Asian who "looks" like a white girl, I can say I have had great relationships with East Asian men. It has nothing to do with money/physical characteristics.

My Asian male friends did however tell me they are more reserved at approaching Caucasion women opposed to Asians -- and it's because of this silly myth that white girls aren't interested.
 

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this is a stupid thread. date who you want to date. pursue who you want to pursue. race in this era should NOT be a factor. my background is very mixed. my grandfather on my mother's side was chinese and married a black woman. that's even more of a strange mix than asian and whites, which just so happens to be the ethnicity of my grand parents on my father's side.

as the melting pot continues to brew, races will continue to mix. and ideally one day in the distant future there will only be one race. the human race.
 

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I went to a high school in the middle of Seattle, a pretty good mix of Asian and Whites. I swear I had a lot more White than Asian looking at me and really interested. Those Asian girls were in there rebellious stage and didnt want to date a guy who reminded them of their brother.

I was the same too, this Asian couldnt get enough of blonde hair, blue eyes.
 

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That's not a myth.
I'll second that, to a point. A lot of attraction is cultural anyway, and we are "taught" what is attractive. White girls typically do not find Asian men attractive because the Asian men are not usually signaling the cues that White girls have romantic notions of - and these are: substantially taller (than they are), substantially larger body mass in the correct proportions (than they are), a westernized manner of speaking, amount of hair in the correct places, exposure in popular culture (such as film or music celebrities), etc. This is certain to change because culture changes. In France, there is a great deal of attraction to Asian men by the White women just as there is a great deal of attraction to Asian women by White men here. It was not the case perhaps 10 years ago, but it is certainly true today which shows that attraction changes with culture.

But Charles might be the kind of person who has an ignorant view of why White women are not attracted to Asian men. Usually these are derisive, and shared by many White women alike. I may be wrong on Charles, but without substantiating his claim in any manner, it's all we're left to assume.
 

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In France, there is a great deal of attraction to Asian men by the White women
I've heard of that. But why is that? Is it because the French society strongly encourages immigrants to assimilate. Do Asian men blend well with French society? Is it because the French themselves aren't that tall? Are the combination of these the reasons? or is there something else?
 

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I've heard of that. But why is that? Is it because the French society strongly encourages immigrants to assimilate. Do Asian men blend well with French society? Is it because the French themselves aren't that tall? Are the combination of these the reasons? or is there something else?
While height is cited as a factor in attraction for women, they are not animals (to say the least). As human beings, attraction weighs in far more other things than a physical size. And the degree to which assimilation is encouraged is probably not a factor either, because we see likewise degrees of forced assimilation in other western countries (ie: Germany) yet there is no similar widespread attraction of the White female to the Asian male.

I think the actual reasons are multiple and complex. Of course even sociologists and other learned persons can give their reasons, but nobody will ever know for sure, and at best they will be educated guesses (sometime even misguided educated guesses). Here's my stab at it: France has had a long history within Indo-China. In modern times, that area has been made famous in popular culture through romanticized images as portrayed by films such as Emanuelle (in the 70's and 80's), and more recently films such as "The Lover" and "Fruits of Passion". The european French today, while being probably one of the most advanced societies in all the world, still at times harken back to the days of imperialism in a nostalgic sense when they had power and the freedom to impose one's will though today it is being reflected without the sinister reality of history. As well, modern France has the history of white male dominance and also the dominance of another male majority: the high influx of Arabian immigrants, of which the male population is seen to be about as chauvinistic as the white males of a generation past. Asian males, on the other hand, have tended to be seen as less chauvinistic (although their societies are more or less equally patriarchial) in comparison, which is attractive to the modern French female. They have also tended to be more successful as immigrants as compared to their Arabic and Black counterparts, especially in regard to education and earning power. These lead to upward class mobility, while Arabic and Black counterparts have had a harder time in that sense, and White French males are often stuck in the social roles and prejudices of old Europe thus preventing upward mobility. Thus success and affluence become traits attached to the Asian immigrant, and as we all know, success and affluence are always attractive to females no matter what country they are from. So what we have is the interplay of a positive historical background, positive economic bias, positive class mobility, and more equal treatment of the female (in comparison to other men). These factors combined help explain the popularity of Asian men to the French woman.

It is interesting to note that, however, the Quebecois woman has no taste for the Asian male as compared to her French counterpart. But from my understanding of the Quebecois, they are more like the old French and have about as much exposure to Asian males as the women from Eastern Europe. I illustrate this to show that just because they speak the same language and share much of the same culture, the dynamics that lead to attraction are so different that there can be no attraction at all.
 
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