Discretion

[Robertdice]

I notice Creole has gone back and edited all her posts in which towards the end she had been blatantly rude, aggressive and name calling, to bad someone didn’t quote those before she changed them.

 

[jjinvan]

I notice Creole has gone back and edited all her posts in which towards the end she had been blatantly rude, aggressive and name calling, to bad someone didn’t quote those before she changed them.

Personally I think that the ability to edit stuff that is more than a couple of minutes old (ie: to fix typos) is the favorite tool of those who lie their asses off and those who have a serious lack of DISCRETION.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

I notice Creole has gone back and edited all her posts in which towards the end she had been blatantly rude, aggressive and name calling, to bad someone didn’t quote those before she changed them.

Which posts were that?

As for Lolita, she will speak for herself. I won't speak for her. Mighty convenient you should come on here with knowledge of my/our personal life at least on PERB and you should just register and start posting. What was your specific reason for waiting all this time to register and post? Did you have a prior membership? Or do you have multiple handles? The majority of your posts have been about me. What gives?

At least they left my proof of her lying intact.

Not that she understands the meanings of the words 'proof' or 'lie'...

You see JJ, I didn't lie and yes you found "proof". But what my question remains is of what relevance is a name when someone produces photo ID to take advantage of a birthday discount?

With the way you carried on, the only thing you've proved is that you are incredibly petty.

 

[Robertdice]

You must have a far earlier knowledge than I do.

Yes it appears that way, glad we could finally agree.

 

[Robertdice]

3 shots and jack-in-vanc - Permanent, multiple handles = Robertdice....

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=621142&postcount=135

I think we all have been over this many times on both boards, the mods use the old multiple handle routine when they have no other reason for banning a person. Whether there is multiple handles or not some good points have come to light recently. There was a dam good explanation as to why Jack didn’t use his handle.

Sure you do not like me as you are trying to protect your little investment but realize others are glad someone is speaking up. I think perhaps that you should be running along and booking a 3 some this weekend?

 

[saltypopsicle]

This is one sad trekkie-wanna-be....

I never said that I would give ANY real names in PMs. If you are really reading ALL my posts, you would know that.

A certain SP, who I NEVER MET was blabbing around the real name of one of her clients, and told it to me. I started a thread basically asking what people thought was the right thing to do in that situation. One of the suggestions was to let pooners know who the SP was (NOT REAL NAME) if they asked by PM, I said I would consider it.

The ONLY person I told whose real name the SP told me, was the person whose name it was and I will NEVER tell anyone else.

How fucked up does someone have to be to, first of all, proclaim that he got the REAL NAME of a "certain SP's" client, and yet he's never even met that sp? Oh excuse me, he must be so charming over the phone that he decided he didn't want to pay 2.99 a minute for phone sex, and just called her or her agency and managed to sweet talk her so that she "gave up" this information. Secondly, how fucked up does this same person have to be to recognize the individual's name to the extent that he tells him, but therefore just revealing how much he (jjinvan) uses perb as his identity? Okay, I'm jumping in here because I'm relatively new to perb and I think EVERYONE, ladies and gents, should be warned about jjinvan. This guy is full of bullshit. I had the traumatic experience of seeing him once, and you would not believe the bullshit that comes out of this guy's mouth: hmmm, he's a doctor, he's rich, he's on ethics committees, sp's have quit prostitution because they wanted to have his babies (if you saw this guy's physical appearance and smelled his BO, you would immediately know this to be BS...god, take a bath and brush your teeth!). He's a single dad because his gorgeous wife died of cancer (but surprisingly there were no baby toys or photos in his house...I was allowed to go into the bathroom and then back to the bedroom, a single mattress on the floor that smelled like rancid sweat...wasn't allowed to see the rest of his "house". Loser was probably only renting a room.) But what was most disturbing was how he talked on and on about perb, about he was considered the "god of information" in the health nurse section, and now, get this: he revealed to me the REAL NAMES of many sp's, their habits and so much other personal stuff...I don't remember most of the fine details because I tuned out 5 minutes after meeting him, but I was appalled! Girls, don't give out that info to just anyone!
What was so disturbing is that he was going on and on about some of his experiences with some of the more popular sp's, describing those experiences...and then I started reading perb, and those experiences he described? He quoted them verbatim from other perb members who had written of their experiences with those sp's!!! This guy is in OJ-land, and while he wasn't abusive in any way, his hygiene and personality disorder made me even turn down future calls from him. Yuck! Lady C, Ropey, thanx for outing this guy; this guy is too much into perb that it's become a mental illness, I can imagine him going from internet cafe to cafe creating handles, just so the mods can't trace the fact that the same IP address has different handles...and I entered his real name into the BC Registry of Doctors (whatever it's called)...he ain't no doctor. But he needs one. And a bath.

Salty.

ps. he pointed out some "luxury condos" that he owned...it was actually a senior citizen's assisted living building! OMG!!!

 

[Ryan C Crust]

How fucked up does someone have to be to, first of all, proclaim that he got the REAL NAME of a "certain SP's" client, and yet he's never even met that sp? Oh excuse me, he must be so charming over the phone that he decided he didn't want to pay 2.99 a minute for phone sex, and just called her or her agency and managed to sweet talk her so that she "gave up" this information. Secondly, how fucked up does this same person have to be to recognize the individual's name to the extent that he tells him, but therefore just revealing how much he (jjinvan) uses perb as his identity? Okay, I'm jumping in here because I'm relatively new to perb and I think EVERYONE, ladies and gents, should be warned about jjinvan. This guy is full of bullshit. I had the traumatic experience of seeing him once, and you would not believe the bullshit that comes out of this guy's mouth: hmmm, he's a doctor, he's rich, he's on ethics committees, sp's have quit prostitution because they wanted to have his babies (if you saw this guy's physical appearance and smelled his BO, you would immediately know this to be BS...god, take a bath and brush your teeth!). He's a single dad because his gorgeous wife died of cancer (but surprisingly there were no baby toys or photos in his house...I was allowed to go into the bathroom and then back to the bedroom, a single mattress on the floor that smelled like rancid sweat...wasn't allowed to see the rest of his "house". Loser was probably only renting a room.) But what was most disturbing was how he talked on and on about perb, about he was considered the "god of information" in the health nurse section, and now, get this: he revealed to me the REAL NAMES of many sp's, their habits and so much other personal stuff...I don't remember most of the fine details because I tuned out 5 minutes after meeting him, but I was appalled! Girls, don't give out that info to just anyone!
What was so disturbing is that he was going on and on about some of his experiences with some of the more popular sp's, describing those experiences...and then I started reading perb, and those experiences he described? He quoted them verbatim from other perb members who had written of their experiences with those sp's!!! This guy is in OJ-land, and while he wasn't abusive in any way, his hygiene and personality disorder made me even turn down future calls from him. Yuck! Lady C, Ropey, thanx for outing this guy; this guy is too much into perb that it's become a mental illness, I can imagine him going from internet cafe to cafe creating handles, just so the mods can't trace the fact that the same IP address has different handles...and I entered his real name into the BC Registry of Doctors (whatever it's called)...he ain't no doctor. But he needs one. And a bath.

Salty.

ps. he pointed out some "luxury condos" that he owned...it was actually a senior citizen's assisted living building! OMG!!!

I'm almost afraid to ask but SALTYPOPSICLE is a very strange name for a female escort

uhhhh are you a male escort?

 

[saltypopsicle]

what the heck?

I'm almost afraid to ask but SALTYPOPSICLE is a very strange name for a female escort

uhhhh are you a male escort?

oh no!!! there is a salty bubble tea that I love, and sometimes I freeze it. thanx for being afraid, but you asked anyway. Should I change my handle? no sweetie, not a stud muffin. And, ummm, I'm posting here as a person with personal ideas, not as a reason to get free advertising as an escort. Trust me, my working name is very "do-able"......

 

[mr.e]

Some people are wacked out and thats all I got to say on this topic

 

[alyb]

Salty...

I say this with a small laugh, but when I read what you posted, I am NOT IN THE LEAST BIT SURPRISED!

One semester of Psych with a great teacher made that very believable, and I was just waiting for the day I would read it. Totally saw it coming. Wow.

Hope he gets some help. I really do mean that. I think you did a good thing and sometimes tough love is the best love we can get.

 

[wilde]

and I entered his real name into the BC Registry of Doctors (whatever it's called)...he ain't no doctor. But he needs one. And a bath.

As much as I dislike jjinvan, I find the above more disturbing. Sure, he's a [insert name here]. Just treat him like one.

To the poster of the above, why would you even know his real name? If he was that disgusting, why did you go thru with the session? It appeared from what you wrote that you probably only saw him that one session. But the info you divulged about him, seemed to me anyway, that they were accumulated in a time frame a lot longer than one session.

What's with all the BS and drama on here lately? Pooner outing SPs, SPs outing pooner, SPs outing Photographer, and Website guy controlling SPs' email and website, etc., etc. In this hobby, discretion is paramount. Deal with your fucking issues in PRIVATE. It's so bloody ironic that the title of this thread is discretion.

I can't tell you which SPs I will be visiting shortly, but I can definitely tell you which ones I will NOT be. Those who continue to air their dirty laundries in the lounge. You know nothing would get resolved, don't you?


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[alyb]

Hey,

if you're in the boards reading it and wasting your time like i am right now, then don't complain, because its your choice to keep coming back. i dont have cable lol. maybe this is more entertaining... i dont know

 

[saltypopsicle]

Really not trying to keep this thing going, really.

Well, believe it or not, I'm going to take a bite of humble pie and admit you make some good points...but I won't eat the whole thing!

As much as I dislike jjinvan, I find the above more disturbing. Sure, he's a [insert name here]. Just treat him like one.

To the poster of the above, why would you even know his real name?

His room was a mess, papers and documents everywhere, several things with his full name displayed and visible, matched the name he gave when the appointment was confirmed, plus saw a flash of his pic id when he opened a billfold to show me his gold card. But, maybe he paid for false id to protect himself when having "visitors" over. I'm not saying that sarcastically, I did tell him he should keep that stuff hidden.

If he was that disgusting, why did you go thru with the session?

Because I was paid good money to, bottom line. because he seemed harmless and believe it or not, very nice. because I am a professional, and if I turned down every session because someone was unattractive, then I'd have to find another job.wait, that didn't come out right.oh bother, but most of all, because I felt sorry for him. I did insist on giving him a massage at the beginning of the session, then used that as an excuse to pull out my own hand towel, wet it, and wipe him off from head to toe. So that made it more easy.

It appeared from what you wrote that you probably only saw him that one session. But the info you divulged about him, seemed to me anyway, that they were accumulated in a time frame a lot longer than one session.

No, it was one session, but a multi-hour one. And when the person you are seeing goes on and on and on and ON about him, his life on perb, and the personal life/identity/addresses of other escorts, for the entire time you are together, you really can receive ALOT of information.

What's with all the BS and drama on here lately?

Yes, and I see I have contributed to it. I made a post in another section, an honest post about a place of employment I briefly worked at when I first came here, and now I feel I am being attacked and insinuations are being made about who I am, my motives, etc. Your questions have helped me understand that if I write something, I better be prepared to be challenged. I think I should have just gradually introduced myself as a new member of perb and fairly new resident of victoria. BUT...but, I would post my concerns about JJ publicly again, if I had to make that choice again. I've been given kind advice from other more experienced board members to "maybe take it down a notch". Will do my best.

Salty

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

Well, believe it or not, I'm going to take a bite of humble pie and admit you make some good points...but I won't eat the whole thing!

As much as I dislike jjinvan, I find the above more disturbing. Sure, he's a [insert name here]. Just treat him like one.

To the poster of the above, why would you even know his real name?

His room was a mess, papers and documents everywhere, several things with his full name displayed and visible, matched the name he gave when the appointment was confirmed, plus saw a flash of his pic id when he opened a billfold to show me his gold card. But, maybe he paid for false id to protect himself when having "visitors" over. I'm not saying that sarcastically, I did tell him he should keep that stuff hidden.

If he was that disgusting, why did you go thru with the session?

Because I was paid good money to, bottom line. because he seemed harmless and believe it or not, very nice. because I am a professional, and if I turned down every session because someone was unattractive, then I'd have to find another job.wait, that didn't come out right.oh bother, but most of all, because I felt sorry for him. I did insist on giving him a massage at the beginning of the session, then used that as an excuse to pull out my own hand towel, wet it, and wipe him off from head to toe. So that made it more easy.

It appeared from what you wrote that you probably only saw him that one session. But the info you divulged about him, seemed to me anyway, that they were accumulated in a time frame a lot longer than one session.

No, it was one session, but a multi-hour one. And when the person you are seeing goes on and on and on and ON about him, his life on perb, and the personal life/identity/addresses of other escorts, for the entire time you are together, you really can receive ALOT of information.

What's with all the BS and drama on here lately?

Yes, and I see I have contributed to it. I made a post in another section, an honest post about a place of employment I briefly worked at when I first came here, and now I feel I am being attacked and insinuations are being made about who I am, my motives, etc. Your questions have helped me understand that if I write something, I better be prepared to be challenged. I think I should have just gradually introduced myself as a new member of perb and fairly new resident of victoria. BUT...but, I would post my concerns about JJ publicly again, if I had to make that choice again. I've been given kind advice from other more experienced board members to "maybe take it down a notch". Will do my best.

Salty

I personally don't think you did something necessarily wrong, as I can see just why you did it. To bring him down a notch or two. And it worked, he hasn't come back, at least not on his JJ handle. There wasn't any identity remarks that wouldn't have described 100 other guys.

I think the reason why you were met with a lot of sceptism was that you are a new poster and the first few posts were of a relative negative nature on another member. I don't think you needed to take it down a notch, you were just looking out for someone, not unlike what has been happening recently and I really appreciate that. Afterall, everyone has to start from somewhere...Welcome aboard.

 

[alyb]

not on his athaire handle?

man am i ever confused, because if jj is athaire, then i turned down an appointment with athaire because of some comments made one time. so did i turn down an appointment with jj?

you guys are making my head spin lol.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

man am i ever confused, because if jj is athaire, then i turned down an appointment with athaire because of some comments made one time. so did i turn down an appointment with jj?

you guys are making my head spin lol.

OMG I'm so sorry. I was referring to something else I read about the Salty post. I don't think Athaire is JJ. Sorry for the confusion. I made the correction on the post and noted it.

 

[alyb]

No problem

I just wanted to make sure everything was kosher. I've been trying to figure out who posted a false add on sexyescortads for some time now (a dirty one, mind you...with my FACE SHOWING), and was going through a list of people in my head... that would have...ummm..."reason"...if you could call it that... so I just wanted to make sure someone didn't have more identities than I was aware of.

 

[athaire]

OMG I'm so sorry. I was referring to something else I read about the Salty post. I don't think Athaire is JJ. Sorry for the confusion.

Thank you CLM.......I may not agree with everything you do or say but I still luv ya..........and no I am not JJinvan..........

 

[alyb]

Whew!

Ok good... 'cause if you were and you were behind the ad, I was ready to come to Victoria for some @$$ kickin lol.

 

[alyb]

Mind you...

I dont know why an SP would post it because its pretty damn well known that I'm not taking clients anymore, other than the few on my mini-list. But anyway, back on topic... not trying to hijack this thread. Just more or less thinking out loud. Ok...what a week