Discretion, how important it is?

[shak]

I am curious how much personal information are you comfortable sharing with a SP/Client on the first date?

- Your real name (including first and last)
- Your telephone number
- Your home address
- Your birthday
- Your driver's lisence number
- Your social insurance number
- Your line of work/study
- Your medical card number
- Your financial info
- Your signature
- A picture of you

How many of the above info are you comfortable sharing with a SP/Client?

If a particular provider request at least 4 of the above info before she will consider seeing you, will you still see her? What if a discount is offered, will you consider giving out this info?

If a client request at least 4 of the above info before he make up his mind on seeing you, will you consider? What if a tip is offered, will you consider giving out this info?

 

[funnguy694u]

Good Q shak !!!! I would not give out any over the phone just incase it was a sting....Wut differance does all that security Q's make,unless they can run your info b4 u get there and see wut u have in your account and upsell you...lol...Cuzz when u really think about it,wuts to say the info you are giving them on the phone is real...

 

[shak]

Good Q shak !!!! I would not give out any over the phone just incase it was a sting....Wut differance does all that security Q's make,unless they can run your info b4 u get there and see wut u have in your account and upsell you...lol...Cuzz when u really think about it,wuts to say the info you are giving them on the phone is real...

Its funny, but alot of advertisements on CL actually asks you to send in your picture showing yoru face and some additional info about yourself. They claim this as a security measure, because they dont really want to bump into someone they know.

Some high end SPs offer discounts but the criteria is that you have to show them 2 pieces of government issued ID, which in another word would reveal at least 4 of those personal info I have listed above. Its of course their personal choice and freedom to do so but as a pooner would you consider about it?

 

[funnguy694u]

Talk about running into someone they know, when i was driving for the escort agency last year....I was dropping of one of the girls at the hotel,she come out 5 minutes later crying but kinda laughing at the same time....
I jumped outta the car and asked wut the heck is going on,she told me too relax and that she had just run into her uncle...

 

[Swguy]

- Your real name (including first and last) - I always give my real first name. Mos5t people already know it anyways and only a few know my last name

- Your telephone number - I live on my cell phone and I never block it or have a problem giving it to the ladies. One or two may have my landline number since I have a better long distance plan on that phone than on my cell

- Your home address - Have never been asked for it, but there are one or two who know it

- Your birthday - its in my profile

- Your driver's lisence number - have never been asked for it or shown it other than to show the crappy picture. If someone can memorize the number (which I usually cover with my thumb anyway) they're welcome to it for all teh good it will for them to have it.

- Your passport number - don't have/need a passport

- Your birth place - I was born in the smae town I currently live in, so it ain't too hard to figure it out. Also, since being a life-time local is becoming more and more rare these days, I'm actually proud to say I've lived here all my life

- Your social insurance number - never been asked for it

- Your line of work/study - I usually just give the general field/industry I work in. There are one or two who know where I work and what I do and how to get ahold of me there

- Your medical card number - once again, never been asked for it

- Your financial info - there's not much point in trying to get my financial info since I rarely have anything in my bank account worth the trouble of using the info to try and steal.

- Your signature - never been asked to sign anything in their presence. I keep all my c/c receipts and since my card is usually racked, its not very often that it comes out anyway.

On the whole, I'm not too worried about giving out most of my info. And any weird questions about the other info would probably be met with an equally weird question back as to why it was needed.

There was an incedent a few years ago when someone thought it would be a good idea to get my licence plate number from the car I had at the time while I was at one of the last of the original PA Gatherings. (Apparently they also thought it would be fun and exciting to play "Secret Agent" and lurk around at the venue we were at and take note of who was there and what we did... kids these days, eh? guaranteed that watching us was NOT as fun as being part of the group ) Don't know what good it did them since the person(s) apparently wrote it down wrong to begin with. Whomever it was decided it would be a fun thing to do to post it on "the other place" to try and "out" me. Apparently they thought I would cry or freak out or actually even care or something... I dunno Alas, to that person's dismay (hopefully), my car had been stolen several months before they thought it necessary to "leak" my old (and incorrect) plate number. The plate had been reported stolen and cancelled the morning after the car was stolen so that plate, even if that had been the right information, would do them no good since it was no longer linked to me in any way.





SWG

 

[Gentleman First]

I tell them to go first

as in, if they want info on me, they tell me the truth about theirs first.

Want my real name....fine what is yours.

etc.

Seems fair to me....I give my customers my info before I ask them for theirs, and feel an SP should show the same respect.
But is there really any need for this info???
What possible reason could they have to need to know your address, D.L. #, S.I.N. etc.

Heck I sent a little something to an SP off this forum, whom i have never met or even talked to via phone....but she asked and i said just PM me your mailing address.
Even then she just sent her first name, likely not even her real first name.
I sent the package no questions asked.

PS. Ingrid, did you ever receive the package i sent you?

 

[vancouverman]

- Your real name (including first and last) - I always give my real first name. Mos5t people already know it anyways and only a few know my last name

everyone knows your full name ..... Single White Guy

 

[sexyndnwomam]

For me its important and my clients as well. First name basis, not asking about personal life unless offered. If I do happen to see them "outside" my residence, I pretend I dont know them, "you dont know me, I dont know you" type thing.

Prefer to keep all info on the down low

 

[sexyndnwomam]

Can I request that package too? If I tell you my real shoe size ?

Good one

 

[Very Veronica]

- Your real name (including first and last)
- Your telephone number
- Your home address
- Your birthday
- Your driver's lisence number
- Your social insurance number
- Your line of work/study
- Your medical card number
- Your financial info
- Your signature
- A picture of you

What large pot of crap are you stirring? With the exception of a phone #, the rest is completely outta line, imho.

 

[shedevil]

I am curious how much personal information are you comfortable sharing with a SP/Client on the first date?

- Your real name (including first and last)
- Your telephone number
- Your home address
- Your birthday
- Your driver's lisence number
- Your social insurance number
- Your line of work/study
- Your medical card number
- Your financial info
- Your signature
- A picture of you

Nope, I never give my real name. The only time I need that information is when they don't have a cell and they are staying in a hotel. If this a photographer or a biz professional, I will assume that they are professional and wouldn't share it.

Well, I do need a cell to call back right? I give mine, but it is a disposable FIDO and not my real one.

I work from home and see clients in their home. So I guess so.

B-day is listed on my profile and it's accurate.

Driver's licence, SIN or other ID no. I don't ask for it either.

Not my real job, some do, but overall no. I don't ask anything that is not relevant to the session. None of my business to ask. I don't want to tell either. If this comes up in a conversation, it is between him and I. I do share what I do plan on studying.

No financial info, no signature etc... Why would I be signing something?
Nobody's business but mine. Same with the guys. I don't ask for this?

Pictures? Not at all. Some of them can be copied, and it bothers me, but nothing shows my face so...

I do have some people send me theirs, but I delete them after I have seen them.

SD

 

[Gentleman First]

Can I request that package too? If I tell you my real shoe size ?

Oh Gorgeous SZ....I only had one pair, and i sent them to Ingrid.
But i have a few other sexy clothing items i can send you if you would like me to.

PM me your mailing address and consider it done.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

There was an incedent a few years ago when someone thought it would be a good idea to get my licence plate number from the car I had at the time while I was at one of the last of the original PA Gatherings. (Apparently they also thought it would be fun and exciting to play "Secret Agent" and lurk around at the venue we were at and take note of who was there and what we did... kids these days, eh? guaranteed that watching us was NOT as fun as being part of the group ) Don't know what good it did them since the person(s) apparently wrote it down wrong to begin with. Whomever it was decided it would be a fun thing to do to post it on "the other place" to try and "out" me. Apparently they thought I would cry or freak out or actually even care or something... I dunno Alas, to that person's dismay (hopefully), my car had been stolen several months before they thought it necessary to "leak" my old (and incorrect) plate number. The plate had been reported stolen and cancelled the morning after the car was stolen so that plate, even if that had been the right information, would do them no good since it was no longer linked to me in any way.
SWG

Whoever that was, this is a classic case of someone who needs to get
a life !

To answer your questions, no no no and again no.

Discretion first always, and for me that includes the info I have on ladies
that I see, I keep their info discrete at all times.
Except at PA Gatherings. Whose to know if I gave
out my real name anyway.

Just to point out something about discretion, it is a level of
trust that obviously should never be broken, case in point,
A girl I have known for quite some time that works in an MP
we phone each other now and then and her trust in me is
something I would never jeopardize. I offered her $ to meet
for an outcall to a hotel which she is more than happy to
go along with. We have talked a few times about this and she
added even more to the mix extending our time without extra
$ saying lets go for a few drinks and something to eat first.
Hell yah I say, so in keeping a trust bond going, nice things
can happen. I'm not saying that I'm the first to have done this
with an MP girl but honesty and discretion can have it's
rewards.

Speaking of PA meets, is there anything in the works SWGuy?


.............QM'r

 

[Ilovethemall]

Agree with VV

All of it is out of line - for gawd's sake people why the hell would you give any more info than a bogus name and a cell# ?????

 

[Chingada]

I always give an SP my real name. If they ask for my phone number I give them that also. If they ask what line of work I do, I tell them.

I've never been asked any other personal information, other than what gets me off. Surprisingly, not as many SPs as I thought ask that question. Maybe they're giggling to themselves about my small dick and are afraid to ask.