Dilemma

[Chuck99999]

Hello fellow perb members. I have a dilemma I saw a sp on Saturday morning in Her DT high rise. She is well reviewed on perb and always gets great reviews. It was $350 for the hour. So I was expecting a fantastic experience. But it was far from that in fact it was bad. She was cold and distant nothing like any of her reviews. We had been texting back and forth for a while. So I guess my expectations were high. My fault I know that ymmv is always in play. But she was not as hot as people had said nor was her service even close to what people had said. So my dilemma is that she does not like getting bad reviews she said its hurts her emotional and financially

She is a nice person and try's hard. But all I could think was this is not worth the money or my time. I am just putting this out there to get feedback from everyone. Do people not post reviews to spare the feelings. Or Should I post a review to spare some one else from wasting there money and time.

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[rick hunter]

This is a review board for escorts so review the sp. As long as you keep it factual and without emotion then people can decide for themselves whether to see the sp or not.

I had a slightly different situation, the first experience was great but the subsequent visits were average.

 

[uncleg]

Hello fellow perb members. I have a dilemma I saw a sp on Saturday morning in Her DT high rise. She is well reviewed on perb and always gets great reviews. It was $350 for the hour. So I was expecting a fantastic experience. But it was far from that in fact it was bad. She was cold and distant nothing like any of her reviews. We had been texting back and forth for a while. So I guess my expectations were high. My fault I know that ymmv is always in play. But she was not as hot as people had said nor was her service even close to what people had said. So my dilemma is that she does not like getting bad reviews she said its hurts her emotional and financially

She is a nice person and try's hard. But all I could think was this is not worth the money or my time. I am just putting this out there to get feedback from everyone. Do people not post reviews to spare the feelings. Or Should I post a review to spare some one else from wasting there money and time.

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That.........of course she doesn't like getting bad reviews, nobody does....in any business and that's what this is, a business. This is a review board, if all her reviews are good, and she is good, then one bad review won't hurt her..as mentioned YMMV. As it stands, it brings into question all her reviews, are they good only because previous clients had their heartstrings tugged ?

 

[SFMIKE]

I say, post the review. If getting bad reviews hurts her financially, are you not also hurt financially by her giving below average service for an extrememy large price.

Post the review, and let the chips fall where they must. A bad review might even help her and send the message that she has to raise her game, or lower her price, or even get out of the game altogether.

If not, the next guy will get burned just like you, and she pockets the money.

 

[girth-brooks]

Definitely do a review! I concur with SFMIKE's comment. Good or bad, as long as it's honest, fair and accurate it's definitely information worth passing. You can still write a negative review that is respectful.

 

[hornygandalf]

I've refrained from giving a review when my experience has been less than stellar with an otherwise highly-reviewed lady. However, I have added to other reviews for the lady mentioning that my experience wasn't the same and YMMV. I also recognized that I was also at least partially at fault for the less than stellar session... so be honest, but gentle and respectful and recognize it is one of a range of possible experiences. They are also useful for the ladies as it gives them feedback on areas where they can be improving...

 

[badbadboy]

Just to float this idea out there; have you tried talking to her about the session and advise you weren't happy? Not with a view to coerce her into anything but to find out her thoughts about it. Reason I say so is everybody has an off day at work and sometimes SP's do too.

Few years back I saw an SP highly reviewed and one of the priciest around. I'd booked for 2 hours and left after one hour. She knew I wasn't happy and also voiced concern that I might give a review that highlighted how bad it was that day.

She proposed getting together again at a discounted rate basically two hours for the price of one. I took her up on it and the repeat date was quite an improvement over the previous one. I've repeated with her numerous times since and can say it was because she stepped up to keep a client happy.

I know I am not at my best 100% of the time in my own profession so I tend to cut people slack if they acknowledge a mistake or poor service. I try to find a win win situation if possible.

If she won't talk or communicate with you then a review would be necessary.

 

[Chuck99999]

Hey badbadboy. That's a good idea. All the response has been very helpful. To be honest she was very arrogant throughout the whole session. I truly believe she thought I was having a good time. I am a gentleman so I keep it very respectful but I should have let her know. I was not happy.

 

[wilde]

Some SPs like to stick to their script. It's easier to pretend when you have repeated the routine so many times. When you try to deviate from the script, they give you the cold shoulders. Does this apply in your case?

I'd say post it but be prepared for some blow back from the fan club.

 

[sensualsixty]

Ho-Hum experiences

I have had the good fortune to meet some exceptional ladies, but have had disappointment with two of them. One was with the top rated lady on the Island. My assessment was that I flunked the chemistry test. The other was a top rated Vancouver lady. In this case I had used a prescription medication that was a disaster for the libido, and she did her best to turn my crank. The former is now retired. The latter, I think I would like to see again and see what happens when in better physical condition.

Reviews - no. Lady one it may have been a classic case of ymmv, and for lady two, I would really like to try again, since I do not think she was at fault.

That is my rationale for no negative reviews of these two ladies.

 

[sdw]

Hello fellow perb members. I have a dilemma I saw a sp on Saturday morning in Her DT high rise. She is well reviewed on perb and always gets great reviews. It was $350 for the hour. So I was expecting a fantastic experience. But it was far from that in fact it was bad. She was cold and distant nothing like any of her reviews. We had been texting back and forth for a while. So I guess my expectations were high. My fault I know that ymmv is always in play. But she was not as hot as people had said nor was her service even close to what people had said. So my dilemma is that she does not like getting bad reviews she said its hurts her emotional and financially

She is a nice person and try's hard. But all I could think was this is not worth the money or my time. I am just putting this out there to get feedback from everyone. Do people not post reviews to spare the feelings. Or Should I post a review to spare some one else from wasting there money and time.

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To me, it sounds like what you wanted was outside her comfort zone. I remember talking to one SP who told me that when she gets into her routine "it's a zen like feeling". I am not really all that demanding, so working with her routine wasn't a problem. But, she had some bad reviews from people that wanted her to do things that she didn't like.

 

[uncleg]

To me, it sounds like what you wanted was outside her comfort zone. I remember talking to one SP who told me that when she gets into her routine "it's a zen like feeling". I am not really all that demanding, so working with her routine wasn't a problem. But, she had some bad reviews from people that wanted her to do things that she didn't like.

Then she should have said so.....the OP went in with certain expectations, those weren't met and from his post it was not because of anything he did or was looking to do. For her to take his money and then ask that he doesn't do a bad review because it would hurt her financially/emotionally is bogus.

 

[westwoody]

I remember talking to one SP who told me that when she gets into her routine "it's a zen like feeling"

There was a gorgeous lady I had admired for a long time.
Finally got to meet her on a trip to Vancouver and had a great time.
Booked a second date on the next trip out. She stuck to the exact same script as the first date, same greeting, exact same phony chitchat, everything timed to the second, same goodbye.
I had tried to prolong one activity and she completely disregarded me, just carried on with her routine.
And $300 per hour...this was a lot at the time...for a couple of hours. I don't think she remembered me from a few months earlier.

Assembly line comes to mind. I actually thought we had a connection the first time. What a disappointment.

 

[MichaelP]

I would write a review. But, to be fair, I think you should include your expectations and preferences. After all, yours might not be the same for others and people would react differently.

 

[sdw]

There was a gorgeous lady I had admired for a long time.
Finally got to meet her on a trip to Vancouver and had a great time.
Booked a second date on the next trip out. She stuck to the exact same script as the first date, same greeting, exact same phony chitchat, everything timed to the second, same goodbye.
I had tried to prolong one activity and she completely disregarded me, just carried on with her routine.
And $300 per hour...this was a lot at the time...for a couple of hours. I don't think she remembered me from a few months earlier.

Assembly line comes to mind. I actually thought we had a connection the first time. What a disappointment.

I have only been with one SP where there was any possibility of there being a "connection". She was the only SP that was willing to do "social time" and be seen with me in public at a play, concert, etc. That's how she ended up world class and no longer in BC until she surpassed her goals and retired a couple of months ago.

Most SPs that I see are only having sex with me because I pay them enough money. Since interfering with the routine that makes it possible for them to have sex with me will leave me expensively frustrated - I go with what she wants to do.

 

[sdw]

Then she should have said so.....the OP went in with certain expectations, those weren't met and from his post it was not because of anything he did or was looking to do. For her to take his money and then ask that he doesn't do a bad review because it would hurt her financially/emotionally is bogus.

The OP said that she tried hard and is a nice person in his post. I read that to mean that she did tell him that he was pushing her boundaries.

 

[uncleg]

Hello fellow perb members. I have a dilemma I saw a sp on Saturday morning in Her DT high rise. She is well reviewed on perb and always gets great reviews. It was $350 for the hour. So I was expecting a fantastic experience. But it was far from that in fact it was bad. She was cold and distant nothing like any of her reviews. We had been texting back and forth for a while. So I guess my expectations were high. My fault I know that ymmv is always in play. But she was not as hot as people had said nor was her service even close to what people had said. So my dilemma is that she does not like getting bad reviews she said its hurts her emotional and financially

She is a nice person and try's hard. But all I could think was this is not worth the money or my time. I am just putting this out there to get feedback from everyone. Do people not post reviews to spare the feelings. Or Should I post a review to spare some one else from wasting there money and time.

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The OP said that she tried hard and is a nice person in his post. I read that to mean that she did tell him that he was pushing her boundaries.

Really, is that what you got out of what he posted..........maybe you should read the whole post, not just the last paragraph.

 

[Chuck99999]

There was no pushing of boundaries I am very respectful of Any SP I see. In fact she asked me st the start what I wanted and how I liked it. So it was all clearly set out. I will be writing a review soon about my experience. With lots of detail. So people can judge if her attitude was justified. Just a reminder she is well reviewed on perb. So the only reason I went to see her was based on those reviewes

 

[JimDandy]

Really, is that what you got out of what he posted..........maybe you should read the whole post, not just the last paragraph.

Actually it seems difficult to see how the sp was both "She was cold and distant nothing like any of her reviews" and "she tried hard and is a nice person". This seems like mutually exclusive behavior to me unless OP is such a giant prick that being "cold and distant" was her trying hard. But if Op was such a giant prick, he would likely not have hesitated putting out a very negative review. My suspicion is Op is basing the "nice person" on communication he had with the lady before their actual session.

I'm with the majority who have chimed in and suggest Op should put out a review. Just be sure to include all details that might explain the cold and distant behavior.

Not to hijack this thread, but should a sp cancel a session before it even starts if she suspects that due to initial impressions she believe that the chemistry will be markedly lower than normal? Have any sps cancelled a session with a full refund, or before funds were even collected, because of this situation?

Also, perhaps the customer should be aware that this is a possibility in some situations. What I mean is if the customer has some physical characteristics that a young lady is likely to find unappealing or even very unappealing, perhaps he needs to take ownership for any ymmv issues that may arise.

I want to be clear that I am not implying that the scenarios I described above apply in the case that op has described in this thread.

JD

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Have any sps cancelled a session with a full refund, or before funds were even collected, because of this situation?

i have never seen what you describe here, despite having had a few less than fantastic experiences

i suspect that in the same way males get thinking with their smaller heads, escorts get thinking with their wallets. after spending the time to get ready for the date, i think it's pretty much a given that the woman expects money is going to change hands. witness the reviews where a pooner deciding to walk creates a big scene