did sp really mean it when she said....

[peterchen]

"you look really cute" or " I wouldn't mind fucking you for free if I met you at a bar"? or "why are you here?" i've heard these sorts of comments from sp A LOT. did they really mean what they said or were they just trying to be friendly with me?
I don't usually go clubing but now i am thinking maybe I should quit pooning and start going to clubs if i feel like geting laid.
in case you are curious, i am only 23 but because of my baby face, i look like 19. what's your opinions, ladies?

 

[WC Drifter]

Well go clubbing, and if you get F**ked for free then you're doing well. If not, then try another venue.

Many SP's are great because they can be forward with comments like that. It can't hurt to compliment someone. It's a treat for them too to have a cute client. It makes their job that much easier.

Enjoy the treatment and the ego boost and don't let it get to your head. Treat the ladies right and you will always come out ahead.

 

[hitrack]

"why are you here?"

How is that a compliment?!?!?!?!

 

[michel]

well said Alex! I know a lot of my friends and I chose this hobby for this selfish reason " Dont want any string attached" If we wanted a relationship we would have got a girl friend or even married. Getting sex while travelling in business is very easy and often I get offer and is 99% free but is the though of having the lady tied up emotionally next day scares m

 

[kehoe]

Lisa, Lady P, Alex, thanks for your honesty. I've had the occasional compliment from a lady and my ego wanted me to believe it but I was never quite sure. I do my best to treat a lady right; show up on time, look & smell decent, do my best to read their body language, etc, but we also know that you are doing your best to provide excellent customer service. I guess we as clients should give you more credit for your honesty, judgement and willingness to occasionally be "swept up" in the moment if the conditions are right.

 

[peterchen]

thank you for the great comments guys. now i am convinced that i do look cute

 

[carlotta]

hahahaha but you are *w*

believe me??????

carlotta

 

[Gillian]

I'd have to agree with ~A~
There is something to be said for looking deeper, as an SP I am still a woman, still a person, and don't have the time or energy in my life to waste it lying. If I tell a client he's cute, great in bed, wish we met in another time/place..I meant it.
You think we tell you what we think you want to hear? Are you sure? There's more being said with our eyes, hearts and bodies if you take the time.
No matter who you are or where you are and you recieve a compliment isn't it nicer to say thanks and feel good?!

my 2cents...

 

[Swguy]

The story of my life is full of women that think I would be a great partner and lover ... as long as it is for someone else.

Sounds like our lives were written by the same author...

Although with the years I have learned quit trying to decide why, age and wisdom do nothing to make the gulf between words and act hurt any less.

Amen.....

 

[Massagegirl]

I volunteer -pickmepickme

Um, heeeey Peterchen if you want to be sure, why don't you email me your pic and I'll tell you exactly how good looking you are?

I'll rate using the usual rating scale of 1-10. I would say 7-8/10 is man-whore worthy, 10/10 is model material. I'm impartial and in a different city and would never disclose your phote to anyone btw!But if you're a 10, I want to be at the front of that line!

Just teasing, but the advice so far is sound. A tip I will impart is that the most scantily clad women in the bar are the ones that are ovulating and are more likely to have a one-night stand. Also say you are from out of town and staying at a friends so you don't have to bring her home. That is unless you want a real gf?

 

[carlotta]

Just Wanted To Add..

When a SP States that One is Good Looking Et. Al., Well... this a.m. I had an O/C to Yale Town & I am going Nice Location etc. etc. When he greets me at the Door... I did like the cartoon Eyes Pop Out... Okay I was bursting forth w/compliments... Mmmmmmmmmmmmm He was Devine & I told him so... Very much so... & He was a Hockey Fan... We both moaned (over our teams already losing LMAO - - nothing like erotic pillow talk LMAO) but he had the moves & his SMILE... Okay you get the picture... *w* I meant all my compliments this a.m. I think he understood when he got "double time" LOL Someone was enjoying oneself... I could handle the regular diet of Italian sausage in the early a.m. Every day *EG* Oh what a beautiful Morning!!! carlotta

 

[carlotta]

why didn't my pic work Grrrrrrrrrr... the URL was http://wilstar.com/stressed.htm

carlotta

 

[Massagegirl]

Hey Carlotta, that's the same red X I get everytime I try to insert an image! Sucks doesn't it?

 

[wolverine]

So...if an SP says "You've got a huge cock" is she telling the truth?

 

[kutha]

Absolutely!! It's the tape measure that lies.

 

[Massagegirl]

Is that Bora Bora or Fuji? This one is bora bora. If it works...

 

[Massagegirl]

Mother of god!

It's huge! Did I do something wrong? It wasn't that big when I found it!