Death grip syndrome

[Isildur123]

Any of you have death grip syndrome?

Basically when I was a pre-teen I found porn, and I jacked off everyday. In college it was several times a day, like perhaps 6 times.Even many years later, sometimes I get up to 6x per day. 3x/day might be average.

Unsurprisingly I can't orgasm with normal vaginal sex, even with the most beautiful SPs. In addition to just using extreme pressure on my dick, there's a specific way that I jerk off that involves rolling the foreskin back that regular sex cannot replicate. I can only get off with HEs at the massage parlour, and even then, it is not easy. One SP who had to jack me off for a long time asked if I came yesterday. My reply was: "I cum several times per day."

I would not recommend it though, and it's not just trouble with regular sex. It feels that I have difficulty voiding all my pee when I urinate. I am a fairly young guy, and I expect it to only get worse as I age.

 

[grusse]

Thx for sharing...needed that info,lol.

 

[mckennalee]

Do you want to change this? Death grip until eternity is not a future set in stone but it will take some conscious action on your part to change course.

Common things that may help are practising edging instead of always jerking off to completion, jerking off into a condom for variety in sensations, mixing it up with toys, and of course intentionally abstaining once in a while. I would also recommend not always watching porn, and experimenting with being more present in your body 😘

 

[gianni lotus]

What mckennalee said is excellent but I'd also like to add that maybe you should consider seeking a professional sexual health care provider (a doc not an SP)? Your sex life with other humans is being affected and you even report difficulty urinating. Changing your behaviour may require more help than simply loosening your grip or trying to masturbate less. 3-6 times a day is a lot bro.

If you are posting about it here, then at some level you have come to realize that this is a problem for you. Please see someone qualified to help people experiencing the same problems as you. This condition is not uncommon nowadays. PERB has some nice folks but is not the most appropriate place to seek medical advice.

I wish you the best.

 

[MB Mod]

As you all know perfectly well PERB is not the place to seek medical advice!