Death by Copulation

[newatit]

From Scientific American, July 2012 issue, there is an interesting article on page 23. In part it reads Physicians have known for a long time that, for most men, sex is safe and even life prolonging. Yet evidence is growing that at least for adulterers, the picture is different. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, April 2012 researcher presented intriguing evidence that extramarital sex can kill. Death by copulation is rare, but when it happens, it usually happens to adulterers, and the cause is cardiovascular. A study in Germany published a analysis of sex related autopsy reports for 68 men. Ten had died with a mistress and 39 with a prostitute. The causes related to having sex with a younger more vigourous partner or maybe after a large meal or drinking. Guilt was also blamed. Deceiving a sexually available and involved mate could lead to a deeper sense of guilt. That type of stress has been shown to up cardiovascular risk.

So there you have it!

wonder how many SP's have a contingency plan for such an event? I did have one discuss it with me, as to what she should do should that happen. Guess it kind of depends upon the location. At her place, hiding the issue would be impossible. In a hotel room, please call for help then get out of there, all that could happen is that the security cameras might record her exit, but no ID, and not likely to get back to anyone.

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[HappyHarryHardOn]

Ten had died with a mistress and 39 with a prostitute.

That's good enough for me, I quit!

ya' right

Lately I'm been thinking that's how I'm going to kick the bucket.

An sp who I saw recently told me if I had a heart attack during session that she would quietly roll me off the balcony

 

[badbadboy]

If the Grim Reaper calls your number, I can't think of a better way to go

It does present a huge problem for the SP and I would also like to hear from of the ladies about what their action plan might involve.

 

[sevenofnine]

its been out there for awhile the guilt married men have while cheating on there wife

there was even a thread on how many sps have had guys heart attacks.

im past fifty ok way past fifty and its amazing how many guys in my age group just drop dead with a massive heart attack
one guy just sitting at the coffee table at work a month ago, dead before he hit the floor
it ruined my lunch. another just walking from the parking lot some one found him dead on the grass.

seriously your late forties and fifties your at risk of just dropping dead

one reason why i ride my bike,
i ask people to come with me for coffee, they say yeah
but then i tell them i ride my bike and its thirty k's
almost fifty ks a day on my bike five days a week, to work and back

and coffee on the weekend thirty ks

i remember when i had cancer like twenty plus years ago and got back to work i cycled
and guys would laugh at me showing up with a helmet all sweaty with sissy biker shorts on

fast forward twenty years and guess what those guys that laughed most of them have medic alert bracelets there fat and diabetic can't drink can't eat shit
most likely can't have sex either,

i eat like a pig and drink all i want see my sp regularly, and im almost sixty haven't been to a doctor for ever,
and right now i could get on my bike and ride like one hundred miles.

i know it sounds like im bragging but honestly for your own good, you want to live long and enjoy life eat and drink what you want, and be sexual
you need excercise
there is no subsitute

 

[the old maxx50]

Funny I was just thinking about this last night before i read this post.

I am single . but there is some stress related to seeing escorts . I definitely think there is health benefits to having regular sex and even masturbating if you are in the right frame of mind and not feeling guilty.

I usually i am average weight for my height , I am not muscular or that physically fit I worked as a carpenter but found it hard to do the more strenuous jobs But i am reasonably quick and adgial .

My blood pressure is below average , and i don;t have high colestrel but I have more bad then good .. I don't smoke , drink , or use drugs . I have allway suffered from stress .. I all ways have been shy and self conscious with self esteem issues . and depression .That as caused me to develop Fibermialga , I have had it for over 20 yrs .. and it has disabled me off and on through the years

That I can physically find the energy and strength to have sex amazes me .. and other time . i don't have it Much of my life i did not have the desire or emotional energy to persue it .Even today .. there have been times that i am just not interested because I don't have emotional energy to deal with it . And part of that is caused by guilt .. I had guilt when i masturbated and i have guilt when i see escorts

There is good stress and bad stress .. Good stress get your mind thinking and your energy levels up ,, and the body being fed with all those chemicals that make a person feel good . Making some big money ,a challenging job, exercise , a relationship and sex can do that .. and also they can cause bad stress when they don;t go right , That job is not going well, you loss money , or just don;t have enough to pay for things , the relationship is not working and you feel guilty about sex .. all those things throw the chemical balances off in the body that lead to sickness , and degeneration of the body systems .. Heart , body musculs, digestive system , circulatory and nervous system all suffer..

So when we say sex is good for you they mean when you are in a healthy relationship , one that gives pleasure and joy . good exercise , not over exerting you for your physical condition, And don't feel guilty because that just stresses every thing .

At 58 iI know i am in that range of heart attack and strokes .. I have no condition that would precipitate that , but test don/t tell the whole story.. Having a heart attack or stroke while engaged in sex is not the worst way to go .. but all so , it does not mean you will die either . Prompt treatment , calling 911 , and having some one that know CPR near by , could easily safe a life ..
For the SPs to turn a blind eye to a client that is having a heart attack amounts to callus disregard for others and actually amount s to manslaughter. Some more stress added to the experience of seeing an escort , will they do the right thing when faced with a dieing client .

 

[Cock Throppled]

Oh fuck. I hire the escort - now I'm going to have to hire a younger guy to have sex with her to cut my risk of heart attack, stroke and STD's.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Just think, I can cum and go at the same time! (A little traumatic for the lady tho)

 

[newatit]

Yes, I think the Criminal Code probably makes an SP somewhat responsible to see that she did the correct thing to save her client, like maybe calling 911 is enough. But maybe the older guys should carry a defribillator with them and teach the SP to use it before the session starts.

 

[Larry Storch]

About 10 years ago I had a bout with Atrial Fibrillation for about a year or so. Kind of shook me up a bit knowing that my heart wasn't running right. Took the meds and an asprin a day and figured that this was it. Gradually over the year it slowed down and then just went away, when I asked the Dr if it ever resolved itself he said it did but not very often. So I guess that was my brush with heart disease. I agree with 7of9 about keeping active, but have to say that there are many reports of very healthy people just keeling over as well. Might not hurt to go in for an annual check up for your heart and prostate if nothing else.

I think a great selling point for the ladies would be CPR certification and an on premises Automated External Defibrillator! (which can be written off as a business expense)