Dear Gormless TWOT*

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Good evening again, you clever fellow!

I would just like to thank you AGAIN for booking an hour visiit, on an hour's notice, and then not calling OR showing up! Such a pity too, because that DISTINCTIVE Scots accent of yours is so identifiable, and I was really looking forward to meeting you. The exquisite job I did on my makeup and hair was simply stunning; you'd have loved the outfit I chose at your request. Alas, since this is the second time you've pulled this stunt, and done so from at least two different numbers, after contacting me with your chat name (though not here!) I will be sure and let all my lady friends know what a considerate man you are, and I'll happily share both of your numbers with them too.

Ms E.

*Total Waste of Time, not that other thing...

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Are you allowed to post his handle with this info in the PSA section? And girls can PM for the numbers? I'm not sure what the rules are about posting member names when they pull stuff like this.

He is not a PERB member as far as I know, but I can tell you the name he uses on ERSList Chat as well as both of his cell phone numbers if you PM me.

 

[girth-brooks]

No shows are lame (it happens to us guys too...)

 

[cherise]

ive noticed most guys on ers these days are WOTs

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

For me it was always that the WOT's far outweighed the good work from there. Most work that comes from there is hh's and the occasional hr. The asian micro's run so many ads...they flood the ads section so your ad gets bumped down so fast. It's been a long time since I used that site, it may have changed.

No, Melody, that pretty much sums up what I've been finding lately. I also notice that the majority of callers I am getting from there don't bother to have read my ads first, they just see the number and call.

 

[cherise]

No, Melody, that pretty much sums up what I've been finding lately. I also notice that the majority of callers I am getting from there don't bother to have read my ads first, they just see the number and call.

so true....thats why as soon as i get a text i say "you are aware im 46 and in cloverdale?" 9/10 times they dont respond lolz

 

[cherise]

had one night before last chatting on ers. it was his 35 birthday and wanted to treat himself. was nervous ,never did it before blah blah yada yada . so i get a text from him yesterday saying he wants me to be his first. we make arrangements then a while later i get a text " is it free since its my first experience?" WTF bye bye

 

[lena]

I have also been getting tons of flakes on erslist and backpage. Every possible time-wasting scenario you can image! It's gotten so bad that when I post I cringe and wait for the mayhem to begin! And I have ALOT of patience. I do not mind answering legitimate questions and taking my time with people but it's all sexting/spam/scams and fake bookings now
This rant does not include gentlemen of course. You know we love you!
A lot of info is contained in my ad too. I do this so I do not waste THEIR time. I would love the favor returned. Maybe advertising on Perb should be my next step. Good luck out there ladies! We all need it!

 

[vancity_cowboy]

don't be too sure that it's necessarily clients. some escorts (or their handlers/pimps) are not above wasting other escorts' time in an attempt to drive them out of the industry or off a particular advertising venue

i know you ladies don't like me saying so publicly, but you know it's true. i'm not necessarily referring to the advertisers here

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

don't be too sure that it's necessarily clients. some escorts (or their handlers/pimps) are not above wasting other escorts' time in an attempt to drive them out of the industry or off a particular advertising venue

i know you ladies don't like me saying so publicly, but you know it's true. i'm not necessarily referring to the advertisers here

HUh. That hadn't actually occurred to me. Partly, I guess, because it seems like such a waste of energy! I'd rather devote all my energy to trying to entice and attract new clientele (or remind former guests just what they'll get! ;D) for myself than try to push clients away from someone else. The one doesn't necessarily lead to the other, after all! I am also considering taking my number down off ERSList again, and only leaving it up here. A few nights ago, somoene used it to try and 'expand his customer base' for 'premium party favours!" OMG!!! That way at least if they find me on ERSList, they HAVE to make the effort to read to the bottom of the ad to find out they can look me up here! I have to admit; I really do prefer the clients who do their research!!! (ie PERBsters, whether lurkers or active!)

 

[lena]

Very true Vancity_cowboy! A lot of text wanting to book but when I ask them to call to confirm the final details they refuse. I wonder why? Maybe because they have a female voice? I have already been sent to bunk calls by other workers. One time I didn't check the number till after the bunk (my bad) and it was the main number for a group of girls
Or I get the text booker who refuses to give me the hotel number or even a name. Just says "meet me downstairs" at the hotel. Like who does that?
All sorts of games by all sorts of people!

 

[NewDiver]

Hey ladies

Really new to this so I don't want to make the mistake of becoming a WOT.

So I am in the process of putting feelers out to SP seeing if will suit my needs.

Is a quick text asking about rates / restrictions and ask about schedule. A good thing just to test the waters?

Or are calls better?

Some ask for emails introductions, what are to truly looking for?

 

[cherise]

Hey ladies

Really new to this so I don't want to make the mistake of becoming a WOT.

So I am in the process of putting feelers out to SP seeing if will suit my needs.

Is a quick text asking about rates / restrictions and ask about schedule. A good thing just to test the waters?

Or are calls better?

Some ask for emails introductions, what are to truly looking for?

most ladies post all that information on the ad and website. so check those thouroughly BEFORE picking up the phone

 

[peacectryguy]

most ladies post all that information on the ad and website. so check those thouroughly BEFORE picking up the phone

I agree. The good ones have all the information you will need on their website. I have found that you need to take your time when researching and find a lady that truly meets your needs and desires and get rates and any restrictions in your head before you phone and set an appointment. That way, when the meeting occurs, both you and her are just enjoying the time and not being turned off by twenty questions and details.