an unfortunate set of circumstances, but that's life: sometimes a happy outcome just isn't possible.
still, i can envision any number of outcomes that would be distinctly worse...
- "right to die", a political issue, whereby the state effectively says that one's suffering is not an issue; you MUST live. for state, you can insert self-serving politician and/or adherent to centuries old religious dogma.
- a botched home suicide, leaving one brother brain-dead, the other severely crippled. or worse.
- etc.
as it turned out, the brothers' wishes were respected and carried out with dignity and professionalism. what i would want for myself.