DATY, sp's please give or opinion too, please.

[jb109876]

What is everyone's opinion with DATY with a sp. I myself have been seeing this one sp, (sorry guys, she doesn't want to be reviewed on here so I can't say her name, I respect her wishes) anyways, I have been seeing her for a bit now, and with most sp, usually I don't DATY, but have with a few other sp's depending on how clean and hygienic I feel they are, and if i am their first client of the day, but with her I just can't get enough, our hour together is usually 45 mins of DATY now, and the last few mins is to take care of me. which I don't mind at all because I enjoy it that much, and she tells me I am the first to make her cum so many times in such a short time. but my question is, and if a sp wants to chime in on this, I would be happy to hear your thoughts. So do you think she is just blowing sunshine up my butt by her saying I am amazing at DATY, and that's why she lets me go down on her for so long. And if she was not enjoying it, would she stop me from doing it or just let me keep messing around down there and lie to me? Has a sp ever just stopped you and said that's enough, or does she just sit back and let you do what ever?

 

[maniacalone]

Good deal for her. 45 minutes of her session you do all the work and she completes a quickie at end for you.

I'd assume you could get a STD like herpes if the SP had visible sores or the virus shedding.

 

[jb109876]

Honestly, the 45 minutes is by my choice, I just really enjoy DATY, I'm not here saying that she is ripping me off with my time. She is always saying that she feels bad that when we see each other, because it always seems to be about her pleasure, but I always assure her that I get real pleasure from pleasuring her, and it's my choice. she is a really nice lady.

 

[MargauxDubois]

I think each SP views this differently. You guys have to understand that a lot of clients expect to do DATY, but don't listen to our cues and body language, which can make it an OK experience, but nothing more. On the other hand, there are also a lot of SP who fake-moan and fake-orgasm, that's also part of the business. Some men think that they can touch each girl the same way and make them cum. So it really depends on the expectations of both parties.

I personally avoid faking and prefer to guide my partner into pleasuring me. But that sometimes leads to disappointment on the client's part because I don't cum on command, but that's also ok. Sex can be so fun even if orgasms are not always happening. Goal-oriented sex can be pressuring and disappointing at times.

So jb109876, my opinion is, if she lets you go down on her for such an extended period of time, she must really enjoy it! And if it turns you on to pleasure her and you leave happy.. win-win no?

 

[clu]

Since she's already committed to letting you go at it for 45 minutes, if you ask if there's anything you could do that would improve her enjoyment of it, I can't see any reason she'd want to pass on the offer. So if she says "just keep doing what you're doing" then it's a decent bet she's good with it.

 

[lukom]

It depends on hygiene, chemistry, energy, and the SP's do's and dont's. For me my rules are if you can't put your dick in it you shouldn't stick your tongue in it. If an SP allows DATY, but opts for CBJ then that's a no to me. If an SP encourages DATO, but won't do Greek then that's also a no for me.

 

[alcxd]

If you’re worried about std’s
When u go to the clinic tell them that you engage in oral sex & they’ll set u up for all the tests required.
I was just at sweetvips as Harvi has a nurse come in once a month.
Quick/ painless and private.
Thanks Harvi

 

[firecracker-84]

and also should I be fearful of catching something from DATY, has anyone every caught anything in your time doing this.

To my knowledge, medical advice chatter on PERB is a punishable offence.

You're better off consulting with these people, they're much more qualified anyways... http://www.bccdc.ca/our-services/our-clinics/sexually-transmitted-infections

Do you live in Vancouver? They have clinics on 12th Ave and on Bute street.

 

[Dick Ford]

I am gonna guess that most women can't fake pleasure from oral sex for an entire 45 minutes -- nor would most want to! Especially if you're open to taking cues and hints about how she likes it (and it sounds like the OP is).

As long as you're in it to truly pleasure her (with the focus more on the journey than the destination), and not as some kind of weird macho badge of honour, I would assume that most SPs wouldn't object nor would they put on an act.

I would also like to dispel the myth that the only way to get a provider at her "freshest" is by being her first client of the day. I may be going out on a limb here, but I am pretty certain that most reputable, reliable providers will be "clean" whether you're the first or the last of the day.

But if it really bothers you, just see a low volume provider -- or better yet, pay her well enough to be her only client of the day!

 

[jb109876]

Sorry everyone, I was not aware that the that asking if anyone has caught anything was a problem, i will remove that part from my post, and again i do apologize to everyone here, and to the people who run the sight, thanks for letting me know.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Just hope this never happens...https://nypost.com/2018/12/06/woman-clubs-boyfriend-sits-on-his-face-for-refusing-oral-sex/

 

[jgg]

Just hope this never happens...https://nypost.com/2018/12/06/woman-clubs-boyfriend-sits-on-his-face-for-refusing-oral-sex/

Yikes! Was that a picture of the offender or the victim?!!?

 

[froggyfroggy]

Really appreciate the comments on this thread. I'm in a similar situation to the OP. I don't think I'm getting "ripped off" by spending most of the session on DATY.

 

[clu]

Really appreciate the comments on this thread. I'm in a similar situation to the OP. I don't think I'm getting "ripped off" by spending most of the session on DATY.

Who in his right mind would require the woman not enjoy whatever he's doing in order to believe he's getting his full value out of the encounter?

If you enjoy what you're doing and you are all in agreement on boundaries and cost, no one is getting ripped off.

 

[masterblaster]

Yikes! Was that a picture of the offender or the victim?!!?

You mean you don't know? Indicates who it is in the article.

 

[jgg]

You mean you don't know? Indicates who it is in the article.

I didn't get past the picture. Who ever it was is ugly enough to make a magpie fall off a meat wagon.