DATY or BJ?

Do you prefer giving DATY or receiving BJ?

  • DATY

    Votes: 34 54.0%
  • BJ

    Votes: 29 46.0%

  • Total voters
    63
  • Poll closed .

clu

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Wow, lots of great responses. Some suggestions to include both, and I agree the choices are not mutually exclusive in the real world. However if push comes to shove and you had to pick one over the other, which one you would choose is a more interesting questions IMO. It forces the decision and reveals the ultimate preference. Perhaps it's possible to be exactly 50/50 in preferences, but if you *had* to choose, which would it be? Thus the binary choice in the poll.

To the person who asked if the question was based on with an SP or your significant other, I think I would use a scenario to avoid other kinds of bias that might come into play. For instance with an SP, one might choose BJ because they generally avoid DATY with an SP. On the other hand, one of the responders referred to some disappointment with a past relationship in that she ultimately avoided giving BJ. Thus his preference was for BJ. To get to a response that truly reflects your preference, it's best to imagine a scenario without any of the aformentioned predispositions confusing the choice.
You might like A over B, but all A and no B isn't going to hold up for most in the long run. Pretty sure the audience here appreciates variety.
 

respectfulfun

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With respect, you're missing the point. It's not a prescription for all your future activity in the long run. It's a hypothetical question, the answer to which does not in any way presume that the audience doesn't appreciate variety. I know I certainly do!
 

respectfulfun

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Wow, 28 to 24 in favour of DATY with one more day to go until the poll closes. I'm rooting for DATY but we shall see how it ends.
 

clu

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With respect, you're missing the point. It's not a prescription for all your future activity in the long run. It's a hypothetical question, the answer to which does not in any way presume that the audience doesn't appreciate variety. I know I certainly do!
I don't think I'm missing the point. I'm just saying that for some people the #1 choice may not be absolute but change with mood and other factors. Not everyone has an unwavering favourite food, favourite movie, etc. I can't decide what my favourite movie is. I have 4 candidates. Three favourite bands, etc. The order I put them in changes fairly regularly.
 

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My ATF once told me she prefers 68...she does me and I owe her one! She confessed a lot of ladies really don't care for 69 because they can't fully enjoy giving or receiving.
Ha. That has been one of my favorite lines too. When I had my house in Clayton Heights, I used to day my favourite position as a Canadian was 69, Eh? Because that was the Avenue I lived on.
 

204fun

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Any good session should include both and they should both be performed liberally and vigorously.
Not a huge fan of 69 as I would rather be able to sit back and enjoy when a lady is gracious enough to go down on me, similar to how I prefer to have her lay back and enjoy when I reciprocate.
I also find that DATY is a great opportunity to cool my jets when I inevitably start to overheat from an incredible blowjob
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Any good session should include both and they should both be performed liberally and vigorously.
Not a huge fan of 69 as I would rather be able to sit back and enjoy when a lady is gracious enough to go down on me, similar to how I prefer to have her lay back and enjoy when I reciprocate.
I also find that DATY is a great opportunity to cool my jets when I inevitably start to overheat from an incredible blowjob
Yup. I can't concentrate on giving great head while getting great head, unless I find someone whose build allows me to straddle THEIR face. If we're doing 69, I would like to be on top please!
 

islander1-1

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Hmmm Yes for me probably DATY... but really close... Some are right..69 may be the best of both worlds... but hard to concentrate on both.. how about a MFF DATY/BBBJ as the best of both..
 
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respectfulfun

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With the poll now closed a result that is surprising to me has been ratified. DATY wins and not by a small margin!
 

2bfair

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Looks like it one by a nose or ....the tip of a tongue.. Daty always gets me hard again for round two.. hmmmm...Queen me please!
 

respectfulfun

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Totally unscientific and rather useless information, but fun nonetheless. Our brethren at TERB took the exact same pole and had nearly the exact opposite result

PERB:
DATY 53.97%
BJ 46.03%

TERB:
DATY 47.17%
BJ 52.83%
 

jgg

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Totally unscientific and rather useless information, but fun nonetheless. Our brethren at TERB took the exact same pole and had nearly the exact opposite result

PERB:
DATY 53.97%
BJ 46.03%

TERB:
DATY 47.17%
BJ 52.83%
Down east isn't so big on down south.
 

ddcanz

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I enjoy both, but one over the other? BJ for sure.
Deep, handsy, throating, slobbering, drooling, gagging, cock-worshipping, pleading, wide-eyed and vocal head with a standing, knee shaking facial and rack
splattering finish. :dizzy:
I'm selfish that way! :thumb:
 
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