Bv
How do you gently tell a SP that the "y" intersection is slightly funky and stops one from dining at the "y"?
My perspective, as a bisexual woman...some women just smell strong, but sometimes women have an imbalance of the naturally occuring bacteria in the vagina similar to yeast, but this one (bacterial vaginosis) causes a specific 'fish' smell. There's no mistaking it.
It's not contagious and it won't hurt you, but it does stink. It can come on pretty quick in a healthy women and she may not know it until she's in the middle of sexual activity. If you're not comfortable saying something, try fingering her and then bringing your fingers to her face in a sexy attempt to get her to suck her juices off of your fingers. Don't shove your fingers in her mouth, just place them in front of her mouth. Most women will at least take a lick and if that point she doesn't smell herself and say something then it's really up to you if you want to continue or not. If your face is covered in her juices already you can bring your face close to her nose too.
A fresh shower helps but if it's BV than as soon as you start to have sex it's going to get worse again.
The Health Nurse can give more info on this. It's not a big deal and many women have experienced this at one time or another. It can be treated with a perscription from the doctor or perhaps through something natural from a place like Finlandia pharmacy.
Another option, if you're not sure if it's BV and you don't want to ask her to shower is to just jump up and say you can't wait to be inside her and just move on to intercourse.
We're not all going to like the way other people smell. Reminder to the guys to scrub all your stinky parts carefully and make sure you're breath is fresh.