Dating
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It was kinda like baseball. I dated 3 hookers and it's 3 strikes and I'm out!!
To many cons to list.
The one pro was the easy come easy go coin. I thank any and all of youz Johns that saw the chik I dated as it was very easy for her to do a date on a Friday evening or afternoon. Me to go over there after work and for her to now have 200 bones from a single customer that her and I could go and have a lovely friday evening with. Whether it be fancy restaurant, the bar, liquor store, or what ever.....but all of which isn't hard to piss away a couple hundred bucks at for a evenings entertainment.
To many cons to list.
The one pro was the easy come easy go coin. I thank any and all of youz Johns that saw the chik I dated as it was very easy for her to do a date on a Friday evening or afternoon. Me to go over there after work and for her to now have 200 bones from a single customer that her and I could go and have a lovely friday evening with. Whether it be fancy restaurant, the bar, liquor store, or what ever.....but all of which isn't hard to piss away a couple hundred bucks at for a evenings entertainment.
Strippers yes, escorts no. Tremendous drama, great sex with a couple, hit or miss with a couple others, many Jerry Springer moments.KYG said:
There's always something. By and large, broken people date other broken people. There's something about beauty which can be almost irresistable, even when it masks a lost soul. But beauty fades, excitement and newness don't last, and all that's left is the burden of trying to love a difficult, demanding, ornery woman.
I had some good times, but I don't think it's a sound road to travel. Of course, I myself am difficult, demanding, and ornery, so maybe it's not such a bad fit. Bad girls for bad boys.
Oooh yeah muther fuckers. . .
. . . tnx for all the paid dates I got after u frickers paid my bitches. Like Mr. Fi said, three stikes u r out. Don't do it dooders, it is not worth it (although I would like to believe otherwise).
My simple advice is this- all girls want to be loved; be it artificial (paid) or otherwise (real)- it takes a real special girl to realize otherwise.
PS- and to all 'real SP girls', I know I am always apologizing, but I mean no offence because you are all giving/selling a little 'bit' of real.
Fuck, it is amazing what us guys will pay for!!
Naw, I change my mind KYG- it will be a life experience like nothing you could ever imagine. Realy, truly- u agree Hi Fi?- knowing what you know now, when the decision came for you to say yes or no, would you now say no?
. . . tnx for all the paid dates I got after u frickers paid my bitches. Like Mr. Fi said, three stikes u r out. Don't do it dooders, it is not worth it (although I would like to believe otherwise).
My simple advice is this- all girls want to be loved; be it artificial (paid) or otherwise (real)- it takes a real special girl to realize otherwise.
PS- and to all 'real SP girls', I know I am always apologizing, but I mean no offence because you are all giving/selling a little 'bit' of real.
Fuck, it is amazing what us guys will pay for!!
Naw, I change my mind KYG- it will be a life experience like nothing you could ever imagine. Realy, truly- u agree Hi Fi?- knowing what you know now, when the decision came for you to say yes or no, would you now say no?
I've had a few serious relationships with SPs. I was monogamous. Always am, but none turned out too well. It's a business of lies. You pay them to put on their best face and act like they like you regardless of any imperfections you may have. Once the money stops you get the real her. At this time you'll get the true GFE. 
You're better off sticking with civilian girls. Hey, I'm sure some work out. I mean people do win lotto despite the odds. To coin the phrase "Do you feel lucky punk? Well do ya?"
BTW love your handle captn. Classic!
You're better off sticking with civilian girls. Hey, I'm sure some work out. I mean people do win lotto despite the odds. To coin the phrase "Do you feel lucky punk? Well do ya?"
BTW love your handle captn. Classic!
Think about it this way. What are the two things that cause the most grief in any relationship? Sex and money, right? Well, ya got it in spades when you date a stripper or escort! Too much baggage on both sides and trust becomes a huge issue. I'm not saying it's impossible for you to make it work, but the odds are against it. If you have a nice professional relationship with this girl now, you might want to keep it that way. But hey, we're all entitled to choose our own road to hell.KYG said:
IMO, dating someone that you meet while in this business, is more then likely a lost cause.
Trust becomes a huge issue.
Hard enough to make a relationship work under normal circumstances...but when you add THIS to it.....it's almost impossible.
I became seriously involved with a client years ago.........and in the end it was nothing short of a nightmare for both of us.
I quit working as an sp for a period of time, but he never believed me....and I never believed that he stopped hiring sp's. It was completely insane, and I will NEVER do that again, and he probably won't either.
Best to always keep it professional.
Paris/Caryn
Trust becomes a huge issue.
Hard enough to make a relationship work under normal circumstances...but when you add THIS to it.....it's almost impossible.
I became seriously involved with a client years ago.........and in the end it was nothing short of a nightmare for both of us.
I quit working as an sp for a period of time, but he never believed me....and I never believed that he stopped hiring sp's. It was completely insane, and I will NEVER do that again, and he probably won't either.
Best to always keep it professional.
Paris/Caryn
I guess after a few conversations and you have an attraction to an escort or stripper, etc. , sometimes it's hard to resist asking them out for dinner or whatever. Then who knows what happens. You develop feelings, etc. It happened to me and it's too hard to deal with.
I think I am in the minority on this one, But I dated and was engaged to a stripper (7 1/2 years). It was the best, serious relationship I have had with a woman. Yes, we had the normal problems, and some not so normal, but we were an otherwise regular couple. I realize we were lucky, and I do not think everyone can have a successful relationship under these circumstances. But it is possible, just as any relationship between two people would be be. Good luck to you if you are begining a relationship with someone, and don't focus on your "unusual situation", ( at least to most people it is).
True Romance
with Christian Slater and Patricia Arquette, this movie is almost perfect.
A woman naive enough to believe that a client is going to love, respect, and trust her can expect to get used and abused many times.
A man dumb enough to marry a prostitute gets what he deserves.
The most spectacular example of this has to be the Roman Emperor Justinian marrying the actress-whore Theodora, which resulted in the conversion of the Roman Empire to Christianity.
with Christian Slater and Patricia Arquette, this movie is almost perfect.
A woman naive enough to believe that a client is going to love, respect, and trust her can expect to get used and abused many times.
A man dumb enough to marry a prostitute gets what he deserves.
The most spectacular example of this has to be the Roman Emperor Justinian marrying the actress-whore Theodora, which resulted in the conversion of the Roman Empire to Christianity.
Rent the movie, The Man from Elysian Fields, and see a great depiction of what the client thinks of the SP. The SP in this film is a male, and the woman he falls for thinks of him as nothing more than a sexual convenience.
Mick Jagger plays the escort and he's really quite good.
Does art imitate life? Could be.
Mick Jagger plays the escort and he's really quite good.
Does art imitate life? Could be.
Crystal
The third girl I fell in love with. . .
What I told her was that some of us feel more then others. She knows that anything I could do, I would do it for her.
What's more mother fucker (yes all you frickers who paid for my good life), who are you going to rely on when all your cards are played? I am not talking when you are feeling down and out, but when all your cards are played to the end- who is going to be there? I have been there and known that those who say they are going to be there are in fact not the ones.
Guess what one unique professional person is there (and not in a paid position)- you got it right fuckers, - there are a few girls that are real.
PS- from previous post (misprint) "Mr. Track"
The third girl I fell in love with. . .
What I told her was that some of us feel more then others. She knows that anything I could do, I would do it for her.
What's more mother fucker (yes all you frickers who paid for my good life), who are you going to rely on when all your cards are played? I am not talking when you are feeling down and out, but when all your cards are played to the end- who is going to be there? I have been there and known that those who say they are going to be there are in fact not the ones.
Guess what one unique professional person is there (and not in a paid position)- you got it right fuckers, - there are a few girls that are real.
PS- from previous post (misprint) "Mr. Track"
u been in the game long enough girl to know that some girls need a pimp- and real girls know a pimp has nothig to do with da $. . .Keep it real Lex
to sum it up IMO...
Yes, there are girls who are "real" and some are just over your $$. It's not surprising because there are always bad apples among us. Been there, done that and not sure if I will do it again. I go with my heart, and it got me in trouble sometimes. But it also got me some unforgettable sweet memories in my life. I would say go for it if the love is real because love always worths taking a chance. If it is just lust, then be prepared. SP's are human too but you've got to be emotionally strong to be with one. If you are the jealousy or possessive type, then forget it. They are very independent individuals, at least the ones that I was with, and no, they don't need a pimp to work. My 0.02!
Yes, there are girls who are "real" and some are just over your $$. It's not surprising because there are always bad apples among us. Been there, done that and not sure if I will do it again. I go with my heart, and it got me in trouble sometimes. But it also got me some unforgettable sweet memories in my life. I would say go for it if the love is real because love always worths taking a chance. If it is just lust, then be prepared. SP's are human too but you've got to be emotionally strong to be with one. If you are the jealousy or possessive type, then forget it. They are very independent individuals, at least the ones that I was with, and no, they don't need a pimp to work. My 0.02!
