Dating vs escorts

[newton man]

I took my sp out last night for supper.
It was my choice the place, and my idea I just asked her out she said ok.
She wasn't familiar with the place I had chosen it was something a little different, she ordered the same thing I did.
Her choice of wine, I know nothing about wine, she selected a very excellent white wine.
We split a desert.

The bill with tip eighty bucks.

You only paid fifty, and your bitching,
Women are expensive, no matter what you do.
More expensive if you want companionship and friendship to go along with some sex.

If you just want sex stick with an escort and short sessions your best bang for your buck.

If you want friendship companionship from a women, whether she is a paid escort or a wife girlfriend
be prepared it costs a hell of a lot of money.

But you know over the long haul. It might be worth it.
Some one to grow old with.
There was a guy who posted a year or so ago, that when he had a heart attack and out if it.
Who took care of him but his sp. A nice story but I can't remember who the guy was.

Its funny but guys made fun of me in a thread we had on social time with an escort, I paid for supper her standard rate.
It was something I wanted a supper date, don't regret it.
Now me and her are friends, its just about us getting together,
So supper out with her costs a lot less.

And Im not bragging, Im just well its just my opinion, that
friendship with a women companionship is dam expensive no matter what.

You have to kind of look long term.
And see what your values are what your needs are.
And you know its a risk.
I mean it doesn't always work out. Friendship you can't buy.

And you shouldn't grumble if it doesn't, its just life.

well said . . . friendship is priceless.

 

[bootyloving]

Not sure about you guys, I find date more exciting and the build up is fantastic. Not as nerve racking as when I was a teen, but still trilling to date. And when things work out well enough, and its shack time, bingo ... worth 2 regular escorts! Not quite 2 really good escorts, but close enough.

 

[Iroc]

Dating. There is absolutely nothing in the world that compares to a date when it goes right. I am not just talking about the tingle and excitement of a 1st date. Dates, even after you are been seeing one and another for a while. When they go right.....WOW, nothing compares.
Escorts. As much as I do enjoy the momentary thrill of the meeting.......wah......just seem to be left with such a empty, lonely feeling. Even IF...it was an encounter for the ages.

 

[Dickson]

Not even close. Everytime I've started seeing a new girl we'd fuck two or three times a day for the first 4 or 5 months. Then repeat with the next girlfriend that comes along.
Try footing the bill for that much sex with SP's.

Your one lucky guy UhOh if you are able to bed that many women! Wow I am impressed. I could be so lucky.

 

[Dickson]

Not sure about you guys, I find date more exciting and the build up is fantastic. Not as nerve racking as when I was a teen, but still trilling to date. And when things work out well enough, and its shack time, bingo ... worth 2 regular escorts! Not quite 2 really good escorts, but close enough.

Interesting. I gave up the dating thing years ago. I just got tired of investing and ending up with them hating me. I like the first part of the relationship but I hate the bitterness and the hateful words, the bad feelings of guilt, shame, the attacks on my personality, at the end of the relationship. I really do not believe that there is a "live Happy ever after"

Escorts are safe, they are in the moment. I can pay them to tell me they love me, they want to be with me. I can pay them to seduce me and have the first part of the relationship without the pain.

Gave up on relationships 10 years ago and now just "date" escorts. If you connect the party can continue without all the nightmares that guys go through in real relationships. Just my thoughts.

 

[Dickson]

LuckyDick,

I have said it before the hobby is like going to Disneyland. Enjoy the moment. But you can not live there. I like it as it can be anything I want it to be. I pay they play. If I want them to be the sexy accountant, or lawyer in my office....great done! If I want them to be the sexy stewardess no problem. If I want them to be my wife lets get this party going! If i want them to be the real estate agent who is hot for me wham bam it is done. For me the hobby is my play ground the escorts are the actresses. Some better than others. It is what it is. However no lasting issues.

Now for others it might be different. However in my case it works.

Do I ever wonder what it would be like to be in a real relationship. Hell yea but then i hear from guys on here who cry the blues and wish they had what I have. life is not perfect. I learned a long time ago to be happy for what you got and not focus on what you don't have.

My life - My way. For what it is worth!

 

[marsvolta]

i'm way happier now with sugar girls. after escort rates started going to $300 and $400 i'm finding plenty of sweet young girls who will do everything a high end escort will do and more on my budget. i don't have to compete for appointments... they hang around for as long as i like... they ARE a girlfriend for rent in the best sense.

 

[thehedonist]

I've never dated. Going back as far as high school, the only girls who were ever receptive have been over 200 lbs. (I'm very lean). My standards are pretty lax, but more than 50 lbs. overweight is just not something I can get aroused for.

By 19, I was tired of being brutally rejected by chubby, plain jane hipster cunts and decided to book my first sp. It's been my only interaction with girls since. Not exactly how I pictured my prime years. But it'll have to suffice.

 

[chilli]

Most of the people posting here have missed the point completely.

The proper advice for romeo is this...

Until you know a woman is interested in "being with you romantically" - you don't have to spend any money on her; in fact you are foolishly wasting your money if you are.

It's just like a woman sleeping with a man until she knows he's truly into her and having a relationship.

For a first "date", just ask her to hang out.

Go for a walk, a bike ride, rollerblading.

If a woman truly likes you, she's not going to care how much money you are spending or not.

If she does get impressed by how much money you are willing to spend on her; well better hope you don't marry her and ever get a divorce - those ones are the ones who will rape you.

 

[WittyIdiot]

I've never dated. Going back as far as high school, the only girls who were ever receptive have been over 200 lbs. (I'm very lean). My standards are pretty lax, but more than 50 lbs. overweight is just not something I can get aroused for.

By 19, I was tired of being brutally rejected by chubby, plain jane hipster cunts and decided to book my first sp. It's been my only interaction with girls since. Not exactly how I pictured my prime years, but it'll have to suffice.

I'm in the same boat. Except I must be a glutton for punishment because I'm still trying to date through EHarmony. I get rejected by women that I don't even really find attractive. I did have a gf for six months a while ago. We had a lot in common and I found her attractive enough,although she was a bit on the bigger side. After the "newness" of the relationship wore off I was finding it hard to get turned on though, which led to bad sex or none at all and I'm pretty sure was the main reason she broke up with me. She was the first girl who had shown interest in me in a long time and now I'm not sure when or if I'll meet someone else. It might be a life of seeing escorts fromj time to time for me.

 

[kauffman]

thats the funny word here. "honest" WHen semantics are assumed the word honest can be used with "sincerity" but if the specifics are not discussed, there might as well be two sepatate languages spoken as far as locating common ground

 

[kauffman]

LuckyDick,

I have said it before the hobby is like going to Disneyland. Enjoy the moment. But you can not live there. I like it as it can be anything I want it to be. I pay they play. If I want them to be the sexy accountant, or lawyer in my office....great done! If I want them to be the sexy stewardess no problem. If I want them to be my wife lets get this party going! If i want them to be the real estate agent who is hot for me wham bam it is done. For me the hobby is my play ground the escorts are the actresses. Some better than others. It is what it is. However no lasting issues.

Now for others it might be different. However in my case it works.

Do I ever wonder what it would be like to be in a real relationship. Hell yea but then i hear from guys on here who cry the blues and wish they had what I have. life is not perfect. I learned a long time ago to be happy for what you got and not focus on what you don't have.

My life - My way. For what it is worth!

THat is true. Real love just drops in your lap. Usually when you are least expecting it and when you arent trying to hunt it down. It never needs convincing and never goes away

 

[kauffman]

Im not looking to get married but it'd be nice to be more into the girl as opposed to a random escort whose taken a 1000 dicks before

Likely you would meet the right girl in a place you frequent as she'd have something in common with you

 

[kauffman]

All depends on what your looking for honestly.

absolutely. Maybe go out with a girl you like to a park and bring a lunch (no cost) then if you need a bj after hire someone

 

[sevenofnine]

As I watch some one in our family go through a divorce.
I can't help but wonder what people think there missing or what exactly is out there.

I just don't get it.

What do people think there missing or what do they think is out there exactly.

If your throwing dishes at each other you need to leave.
But if she lets you do your thing, and you let her do hers.
Whats the problem?

I have been seeing escorts for ten years, my wife, doesn't notice or doesn't seem to notice she lets me.
I just spent a lot of dam money on something that doesn't interest me at all, but my wife wants it.

I saw the lady I see last week she is a nice women. Were very comfortable with each other, but could we date, or get along in some sort of normal relationship I kind of doubt it.
I saw or had a kinky time with a pse escort and went home to my wife, latter in the week saw my regular lady.


I really don't understand what people think is so great that there missing.

I am a father, and the only thing I would miss, I think if things were different, is that.
There is nothing that compares to bringing a child home from the hospital so small and vulnerable and watch them grow threw the years.

It takes two of you.
Its never perfect, Its long and somtimes its very hard.
And yes we fuck up big time along the way.

But I think in my opinion people are looking for something,
And they really don't have any idea what.

 

[dipsett]

I've never dated. Going back as far as high school, the only girls who were ever receptive have been over 200 lbs. (I'm very lean). My standards are pretty lax, but more than 50 lbs. overweight is just not something I can get aroused for.

By 19, I was tired of being brutally rejected by chubby, plain jane hipster cunts and decided to book my first sp. It's been my only interaction with girls since. Not exactly how I pictured my prime years. But it'll have to suffice.

damn the struggle is real.