Dating vs escorts

[BonerHardBiceps]

probably talked about before but couldnt find it

i had a date last night and spent $50 for movie tickets + food (i know its nothing crazy)

and at the end of the night i held her hand and later she texted me we dont know each other well enough

i was texting an escort earlier and she was willing to give a bbbj for $60 (but no guarantee on how she is)

whats better?

 

[BonerHardBiceps]

Im not looking to get married but it'd be nice to be more into the girl as opposed to a random escort whose taken a 1000 dicks before

 

[BonerHardBiceps]

Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone

It'd be nice to find someone I like as a person but it takes so much time and money and then you have to get past the competition (especially in vancouver where theres so many young "gangsters" with wads of cash)

 

[Flanders]

Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone

It'd be nice to find someone I like as a person but it takes so much time and money and then you have to get past the competition...

Welcome to Life. You should start playing anytime rather than moaning from the sidelines.

When you figure out how to play "life" effectively, you will realize that money and/or looks don't actually make that much difference to the outcome. Of course they are nice advantages, but having them just makes you lazy, and gives those without a convenient reason to whine about their perceived misfortunes.

 

[thebuttdance continues]

It's not about what the cash pays for, it's about what you ultimately want.

-A Relationship or a One Night Stand.

If it's only for the latter, it's easier just seeing an escort to get what you seem to imply is your want; albeit probably for most people, it's not as emotionally gratifying, rewarding, and real as going out on a date and getting.

 

[thehedonist]

Any guy will find it hard to sleep with a girl on his level regularly. It doesn't matter who you are.

Money means nothing to girls nowadays. I can't even bribe them with expensive dinners.

 

[bcneil]

and the nonsense thread for March 3rd has begun.

 

[thehedonist]

Yes, I agree, it definitely must suck to be you.

Post pics of your conquests.

Didn't think so.

 

[BonerHardBiceps]

Welcome to Life. You should start playing anytime rather than moaning from the sidelines.

When you figure out how to play "life" effectively, you will realize that money and/or looks don't actually make that much difference to the outcome. Of course they are nice advantages, but having them just makes you lazy, and gives those without a convenient reason to whine about their perceived misfortunes.

True. Good advice.

 

[luvsdaty]

They really need sticky's on all these repetative posts :-/, you know bbfs, risks of bbfs. Dating sp's vs regulars etc etc.

 

[UhOh]

They really need sticky's on all these repetative posts :-/, you know bbfs, risks of bbfs. Dating sp's vs regulars etc etc.

Maybe you didn't notice but its an escort review forum. You're surprised these topics keep coming up, what were you expecting, lessons on botany?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

All depends on what your looking for honestly.

probably talked about before but couldnt find it

i had a date last night and spent $50 for movie tickets + food (i know its nothing crazy)

and at the end of the night i held her hand and later she texted me we dont know each other well enough

i was texting an escort earlier and she was willing to give a bbbj for $60 (but no guarantee on how she is)

whats better?

While $50 is nothing to sneeze at, if your goal the entire time was to get laid, you probably started with the wrong intention. If your goal was to get to know this lovely lady, to engage with her as a human being and see if you had similar interests and life goals, then your money was well spent. In fact, she told you that she's not the type to have a shag, just because she went on a date with you. That's wonderful news, to most guys.

On the other hand, if she's just not that into you, and you were genuinely wondering, then the evening was also very successful. With the small investment of $50, you found out that you and she were not a good match. You also had company for the evening, and you didn't have to see the movie alone.

I see this as a win.

As has been mentioned in another thread, perhaps you'd like to spread your entertainment dollars 50/50...one night you pay to get laid (or bj, as it were), the next time you have a real date, with a real possibility of it turning into something.

Sounds like an awesome plan.

 

[BrokeBastard]

I think he's saying he wants it stickied because it does keep coming up and so people can find the topics at the top rather than starting them up all the time.

The problem with those one threads that covers the repetitive topics is they could be so old that no one will bother to reply after years. For instance say one was started up on 'Has anyone ever dated an escort' back in 2005. A lot of people won't bother to reply or give their opinions after a good long 8+years. The board needs new threads about these same boring repetitve topics because every year there are new members.

 

[thebuttdance continues]

On the other hand, if she's just not that into you, and you were genuinely wondering, then the evening was also very successful. With the small investment of $50, you found out that you and she were not a good match. You also had company for the evening, and you didn't have to see the movie alone.

That's the right idea.

As has been mentioned in another thread, perhaps you'd like to spread your entertainment dollars 50/50...one night you pay to get laid (or bj, as it were), the next time you have a real date, with a real possibility of it turning into something.

I don't know if this idea is kosher.

 

[blueberrymuffin]

Personally, I've lost my connection with Vancouver women. I prefer escorts.

If you're a young guy, I say explore your sexuality a little bit before finding yourself a significant other. Go out there and have some fun.

I'm loving every minute of it. Met some nice ladies from here.

 

[blazejowski]

50 bucks for dinner and a movie, eh? Did you let her super size her meal at least, Mr. Rockerfeller? ound:

 

[UhOh]

honestly save yourself from all the stress and headaches that dating and relationships entail, and just stick with the sp scene, much better idea when you add it all up

Not even close. Everytime I've started seeing a new girl we'd fuck two or three times a day for the first 4 or 5 months. Then repeat with the next girlfriend that comes along.
Try footing the bill for that much sex with SP's.

 

[Caramel]

Maybe you didn't notice but its an escort review forum. You're surprised these topics keep coming up, what were you expecting, lessons on botany?

I know and honestly, the people who keep complaining about topics repeating are spending WAY too much time on perb! I admit I have been as well lately but I don't notice repeat topics, infact if the topic is interesting enough, its nice to start a fresh one and view new opinions on it! People need to stop being so bitter, y'all need to go get laid, but of course the guys with 1 million posts never get laid because they don't have any reviews, so they are just useless trolls.

 

[sevenofnine]

I somtimes think this site is a dating site, or a relationship site.

I guess Im guilty as anyone talking about friendships and relationships.
But there related to me and my sp.

So many guys just having trouble with girls period,
And I guess the odd women having trouble with their guy or client.

 

[sevenofnine]

probably talked about before but couldnt find it

i had a date last night and spent $50 for movie tickets + food (i know its nothing crazy)

and at the end of the night i held her hand and later she texted me we dont know each other well enough

i was texting an escort earlier and she was willing to give a bbbj for $60 (but no guarantee on how she is)

whats better?

I took my sp out last night for supper.
It was my choice the place, and my idea I just asked her out she said ok.
She wasn't familiar with the place I had chosen it was something a little different, she ordered the same thing I did.
Her choice of wine, I know nothing about wine, she selected a very excellent white wine.
We split a desert.

The bill with tip eighty bucks.

You only paid fifty, and your bitching,
Women are expensive, no matter what you do.
More expensive if you want companionship and friendship to go along with some sex.

If you just want sex stick with an escort and short sessions your best bang for your buck.

If you want friendship companionship from a women, whether she is a paid escort or a wife girlfriend
be prepared it costs a hell of a lot of money.

But you know over the long haul. It might be worth it.
Some one to grow old with.
There was a guy who posted a year or so ago, that when he had a heart attack and out if it.
Who took care of him but his sp. A nice story but I can't remember who the guy was.

Its funny but guys made fun of me in a thread we had on social time with an escort, I paid for supper her standard rate.
It was something I wanted a supper date, don't regret it.
Now me and her are friends, its just about us getting together,
So supper out with her costs a lot less.

And Im not bragging, Im just well its just my opinion, that
friendship with a women companionship is dam expensive no matter what.

You have to kind of look long term.
And see what your values are what your needs are.
And you know its a risk.
I mean it doesn't always work out. Friendship you can't buy.

And you shouldn't grumble if it doesn't, its just life.