Dating Apps

[LusciousLouis]

The following statement was made in one of my other recent threads on PERB......

"I’ve found over the last 2-3 years it’s been easier than ever to find hot 18-25 yos who are open to pay to play sb arrangements on dating apps or social media"

I could use a little help from anyone willing to guide me here. Please feel free to DM me if you don't want to share publicly in this thread.

I recently put up a profile on Tinder and FB Dating.

I received a handful of likes on Tinder, but you have to spend money to upgrade just to see who likes you. So I bought a one month membership only to see profiles for girls that did not appeal to me. I decided to delete the app.

On the FB dating site I am getting zero likes from women of any age, and the matches I'm getting are all much older than I prefer. I'm not seeing any profiles for girls 18-25 at all. I don't understand why I'm not seeing profiles for younger ladies even though my search preferences include those ages.

I'm an attractive guy and very fit and most people think I'm ten years younger than my actual age. But i'm in my 50s so maybe that's why I'm not getting results since my age shoes up in my profile??

A few days ago I put up a profile on Seeking because I had good results on that site about 10 years ago. I'm getting some interest and a few messages but Holy Crap it's $180/month now to upgrade just to read a handful of messages.

What other dating sites or social media are you guys using where you are finding girls 18-25 who may be open to a pay-to-play SB arrangement?

Thanks

 

[Carimperm]

What you need to do is after matching is immediately move the conversation off the site. Your paying monthly or even per message on some platforms.
After being matched or reaching out, make sure to provide alternative coms to continue. So my opening message will usually be blunt, outline what I'm looking for and to offer alternative contact if their agreeable.

 

[sttrpr84]

The following statement was made in one of my other recent threads on PERB......

"I’ve found over the last 2-3 years it’s been easier than ever to find hot 18-25 yos who are open to pay to play sb arrangements on dating apps or social media"

I could use a little help from anyone willing to guide me here. Please feel free to DM me if you don't want to share publicly in this thread.

I recently put up a profile on Tinder and FB Dating.

I received a handful of likes on Tinder, but you have to spend money to upgrade just to see who likes you. So I bought a one month membership only to see profiles for girls that did not appeal to me. I decided to delete the app.

On the FB dating site I am getting zero likes from women of any age, and the matches I'm getting are all much older than I prefer. I'm not seeing any profiles for girls 18-25 at all. I don't understand why I'm not seeing profiles for younger ladies even though my search preferences include those ages.

I'm an attractive guy and very fit and most people think I'm ten years younger than my actual age. But i'm in my 50s so maybe that's why I'm not getting results since my age shoes up in my profile??

A few days ago I put up a profile on Seeking because I had good results on that site about 10 years ago. I'm getting some interest and a few messages but Holy Crap it's $180/month now to upgrade just to read a handful of messages.

What other dating sites or social media are you guys using where you are finding girls 18-25 who may be open to a pay-to-play SB arrangement?

Thanks

I saw that comment also and reached out via PM to ask the exact same thing you are but he never responded.
Based on my previous experiences with dating sites and social media, I’d say the comment by that poster was 25% truth/75% make believe.
I would describe myself the same as you do except I’m 40 so I don’t really think it’s an age thing as I had similar results.
I have had luck twice on Reddit in Winnipeg based subs. The first one was quite promising and we had plans to meetup but I called it off as I was certain I knew her from somewhere. The second one, I have plans to meetup this week. Hot early 20’s blonde that sent verification pics. Unless this one is a total flake, I think it’ll work.
I’ve had some potentials from just scouring Snapchat and searching Winnipeg accounts. Found a few girls with OF accounts that were willing to meet but I was looking for something more steady.
Feel free to DM if you want more details

 

[Igor Sikorsky]

Interesting topic....

Allow me to share some thoughts....

When I was younger, I've always thought dating apps were... lame... shameful even... resorting to those was like admitting defeat in the game of "love" [or more appropriately, in the game of "matchmaking"...]. And to be honest, I still think that way, to some extent. I also have an active account on Tinder, and boy... what a sad reality check.... For our age group, Mr. Louis, navigating through this social establishment, particularly in the fields of intimacy affairs, is a downward spiral... our choices are very limited to: 1- sugar daddying college girls with no qualifications to make something better out of their lives other than showing skin in onlyfans; 2- engaging in a high risk relationship with single moms and their assortment of disfunctionalities.
But I can see it clearer now..... we all need company, at times, just like we all need a tartar free teeth, a stone free kidney, a 120/80 blood pressure... and that's why I was not surprised to find many coworkers and neighbors while swiping through Tinder... from all age groups... and that tells me a lot....

That tells me what I was already suspecting after living in Winnipeg for 6 years.... that this city's socio-economics does not favor single bachelors in their 30's, 40's [and maybe 50's too]. Winnipeg is a retirement colony. It doesn't allow the youth [or midlifers] to prosper, it only provides for the old to retire, at best. And to make things worse [for you and I that is], the Gen Z culture is praising some weird values and virtues that do not exactly align with the ones you and I are accustomed to. And the female Millenials and gen X's out there are either taken, scarred by traumatic relationships beyond rehabilitation or simply gave up on Men, for some reason. Henceforth, we humiliate ourselves paying for mediocre sexual services from asian grannies or tourist visa holders who need a translation app to communicate with us, whenever the urge kicks in [sad... really sad...].

I started trying dating apps back in 2019. And yes, I did have a number of "matches" but only one actually ended up in a real meet up and later intimate interlude. It happened over an app called "Happn" on the same year I joined. She was a young beautiful widow, with her share of emotional baggage [and womanly needs], but it was all well and good... nothing long lasting though, mostly due to my personal circumstances at the time but anyway... the point I'm trying to make is: so much time spent browsing through dating apps, exchanging messages with strangers and etc, and only 1 "successful" hit.... over what... 5 years??? blagh... forget it.... not worth it...

In the end it's all about the looks.... unless you have an expressive and projecting financial stance, which bends and twists all the matchmaking game rules, putting "looks" to a lesser degree of importance in this scale, you won't get any action [online or offline]. You need the physique, the six pack, the sex appeal, the muscles, the height, the lush hair crown, in summary, you need to conform to the current ruling standards... and that's only but natural, instinctive even. I don't blame women for chasing after that, for I do that myself too. And invariably, all those attributes dwindle as age progresses...

But the damage happens here: people end up deprived of a healthy sexual life because of all that bullshit, and that's for both ends of the equation - the ones who apply that stupid filter and the ones who get filtered by it. And I say that by personal experience... a few drop dead gorgeous girls I had the pleasure [and displeasure] of laying with over the years... didn't even know what an orgasm was, didn't even know what triggered their libido [or what a libido was to begin with], didn't even know what to do with their bodies during a sexual activity.... whereas some other less physically endowed ladies had an elevated sense of eroticism and self-awareness and fucked like a true deity.

As any human being, I am a man with all the complexities that come with it, but all that aside, one thing I learned: once this subject was a taboo and the consequences were disastrous. Now, society is more liberal than ever but still struggles and hasn't figured it out yet. Repression was bad and ended up in irrational outbursts. Too much freedom proved to be equally dangerous, since now people get lost and don't know what they want and easily lose measure of what's sane and adequate.

We criminalize... we condemn.... we censor... we judge.... we idealize... we extravagate... we subdue.... we give in.... we open dialog.... we accept... we forgive, we forget... we do all that.... and yet we never find happiness....