i some times thinks a bunch of guys are way to cynical and hard on the ladies motives on these boards.
im reminded of a guy at work, a grumpy old guy, who gets bent out of shape when a really hot young girl doesn't give him the attention he deserves he thinks he deserves
the girls here are basicly here for money, and when some guy talks or mention friendship with an sp or love or having a relationship with an sp. or social time, some of us get all bent out of shape and cynical about the ladies.
and i think you have to think about it from the ladies point of view.
we us guys see one lady one sp, once in awhile once a week once a month whatever
they see guys daily, fiqure it out, the numbers. they see a lot of guys.
but a girl is supposed to go all ga ga, because some guy is fond of her, happens to like her
she is supposed to be free for all the free social time any of us want.
well and if she doesn't she is well some sort of bitch
what do you expect from these ladies.
your gone and they have moved on to the next guy all ready.
but you still think that you should be part of her life some how.
and like i said we get all bent out of shape and wonder about some ladies motives, when she doesn't go ga ga over us, drop everything for me, and give me all the free time answer all my emails endlessly.
just think about it,
and on top of it, every lady i have ever met has a personal life out side of this as well.
with school maybe another job, familly, friends etc,
but at the same time,
i have been in this along time, the women in this are human,
they care a hell of alot, perhaps not for every random guy who wants free social time with them, or has proposed marriage to them,
but i have sat and had an sp break down and cry on my shoulder more then once since i have been doing this.
all im trying to say i guess, is go gently people,
these women have feelings and hearts that break same as all of us.
im reminded of a guy at work, a grumpy old guy, who gets bent out of shape when a really hot young girl doesn't give him the attention he deserves he thinks he deserves
the girls here are basicly here for money, and when some guy talks or mention friendship with an sp or love or having a relationship with an sp. or social time, some of us get all bent out of shape and cynical about the ladies.
and i think you have to think about it from the ladies point of view.
we us guys see one lady one sp, once in awhile once a week once a month whatever
they see guys daily, fiqure it out, the numbers. they see a lot of guys.
but a girl is supposed to go all ga ga, because some guy is fond of her, happens to like her
she is supposed to be free for all the free social time any of us want.
well and if she doesn't she is well some sort of bitch
what do you expect from these ladies.
your gone and they have moved on to the next guy all ready.
but you still think that you should be part of her life some how.
and like i said we get all bent out of shape and wonder about some ladies motives, when she doesn't go ga ga over us, drop everything for me, and give me all the free time answer all my emails endlessly.
just think about it,
and on top of it, every lady i have ever met has a personal life out side of this as well.
with school maybe another job, familly, friends etc,
but at the same time,
i have been in this along time, the women in this are human,
they care a hell of alot, perhaps not for every random guy who wants free social time with them, or has proposed marriage to them,
but i have sat and had an sp break down and cry on my shoulder more then once since i have been doing this.
all im trying to say i guess, is go gently people,
these women have feelings and hearts that break same as all of us.
