Cuddling etiquette???

[fullmoon15]

Ok, so I've had a couple sessions where I've felt pretty good chemistry with the sp. we've finished up and gotten into a bit of cuddling. We've now been at or over the scheduled time. The sp may have even gotten up and returned to cuddling. Everyone seems to be having a good time........

Basically what I'm asking is am I overstaying my welcome by not leaving on my own, even if the sp seems to be enjoying and not dropping hints to leave. I'm not the most experienced in this hobby so I'm still a bit unsure how a session normally ends.....

Or is it entirely ymmv. I'm a young, decent looking guy who tries to treat the ladies with a lot of respect. I eventually pick up the hint or whatever and go but should I let it get that far and wait for that or should I be the one to initiate leaving.

Would like to hear opinions from both sides

 

[rayrice]

Ok, so I've had a couple sessions where I've felt pretty good chemistry with the sp. we've finished up and gotten into a bit of cuddling. We've now been at or over the scheduled time. The sp may have even gotten up and returned to cuddling. Everyone seems to be having a good time........

Basically what I'm asking is am I overstaying my welcome by not leaving on my own, even if the sp seems to be enjoying and not dropping hints to leave. I'm not the most experienced in this hobby so I'm still a bit unsure how a session normally ends.....

Or is it entirely ymmv. I'm a young, decent looking guy who tries to treat the ladies with a lot of respect. I eventually pick up the hint or whatever and go but should I let it get that far and wait for that or should I be the one to initiate leaving.

Would like to hear opinions from both sides

If you're thinking about it, you probably have overstayed your welcome.

 

[oneoldone]

Ok, so I've had a couple sessions where I've felt pretty good chemistry with the sp. we've finished up and gotten into a bit of cuddling. We've now been at or over the scheduled time. The sp may have even gotten up and returned to cuddling. Everyone seems to be having a good time........

Basically what I'm asking is am I overstaying my welcome by not leaving on my own, even if the sp seems to be enjoying and not dropping hints to leave. I'm not the most experienced in this hobby so I'm still a bit unsure how a session normally ends.....

Or is it entirely ymmv. I'm a young, decent looking guy who tries to treat the ladies with a lot of respect. I eventually pick up the hint or whatever and go but should I let it get that far and wait for that or should I be the one to initiate leaving.

Would like to hear opinions from both sides

This is one I struggle with as well. Quite often when giving them a return the favor massage which they really seem to appreciate. Generally they ask if you would like to shower as a subtle suggestion it is time to go much nicer than asking you to leave.

 

[Rollingstar]

Good etiquette is that you don't make her drop hints to leave. When the time is near, you initiate the comments that you're getting ready to go. If she wants you to stay, she'll let you know.

^^ I agrees don't put them in an awkward position. Besides this is a hobby.... Do what needs to be done then leave, don't get too attached.

 

[badbadboy]

Ok, so I've had a couple sessions where I've felt pretty good chemistry with the sp. we've finished up and gotten into a bit of cuddling. We've now been at or over the scheduled time. The sp may have even gotten up and returned to cuddling. Everyone seems to be having a good time........

Basically what I'm asking is am I overstaying my welcome by not leaving on my own, even if the sp seems to be enjoying and not dropping hints to leave. I'm not the most experienced in this hobby so I'm still a bit unsure how a session normally ends.....

Or is it entirely ymmv. I'm a young, decent looking guy who tries to treat the ladies with a lot of respect. I eventually pick up the hint or whatever and go but should I let it get that far and wait for that or should I be the one to initiate leaving.

Would like to hear opinions from both sides

Some SP won't specifically ask you start getting ready to leave nor even hint at it. It doesn't mean it's a green light to stay past your allotted time.

Usually I just ask "how's our time"?

It puts the onus on them to say "it's ok, no rush" or "are you gonna have a shower before you go"?

 

[Atticus]

Some SP won't specifically ask you start getting ready to leave nor even hint at it. It doesn't mean it's a green light to stay past your allotted time.

Usually I just ask "how's our time"?

It puts the onus on them to say "it's ok, no rush" or "are you gonna have a shower before you go"?

The ladies I have been with don't have clocks in the bedroom so when I think time is up I ask what time it is and await their cue. Sadly, the one time the lady hinted there was no rush I was the one who had another engagement I had to get to. On one occasion the lady I was with pushed the time limit just to accomplish round two. She said she didn't like giving up, bless her heart!

 

[EuroSZabina]

If you're thinking about it, you probably have overstayed your welcome.

Yep, and sometimes we don't know how to tell you politely )

 

[rayrice]

Yep, and sometimes we don't know how to tell you politely )

Yes that is true ...

 

[voodooking]

This method would work quite well for the cuddlers that overstay their welcome. :bump2:

Yep, and sometimes we don't know how to tell you politely )