Crucified by my friends

[srjinbc]

Why is it that people have a problem with the philosophy of "if it flies floats or f*cks..rent it". After a 7 year relationship that ended when I returned home from a mexican vacation I have adopted this attitude. I have been disowned by all my friends that are still in relationships. After losing the house, one truck, my daughter and part of my business earnings I dont see a problem with my new found faith. I would love to hear some imput from others ...maybe Im wrong but I doubt it.
Thanks in advance from this newbie perbert.

 

[Krustee]

I would love to hear some imput from others ...maybe Im wrong but I doubt it.
Thanks in advance from this newbie perbert.

Welcome to divorce where if you have a dick between your legs you get screwed hard without lube & the screwing continues long ofter the court dates end!

Yeah!

 

[wess]

Why is it that people have a problem with the philosophy of "if it flies floats or f*cks..rent it". After a 7 year relationship that ended when I returned home from a mexican vacation I have adopted this attitude. I have been disowned by all my friends that are still in relationships. After losing the house, one truck, my daughter and part of my business earnings I dont see a problem with my new found faith. I would love to hear some imput from others ...maybe Im wrong but I doubt it.
Thanks in advance from this newbie perbert.

I skipped that first few steps you mentioned. Your friends probably still want to be with you but there western woman partners are the ones who are not letting them be around you.

Either that or they have been brainwashed by there women and will not come to realize how they have been screwed until they get divorced.

 

[srjinbc]

I dont mind the divorce/separation so much...the quiet time is nice, its the rectal bleeding caused by the court system that is wrecking my good silk boxers.

 

[srjinbc]

I didnt lose my daughter per say...I just dont get to see her everyday when I get home. That I really miss. I should have been a bit clearer on that one sorry guys. As for how it happened...well I guess the ex had been lookin up old school buddies on facebook. While I was gone she decided to meet up with a few and rekindled a relationship.

 

[FortunateOne]

I didnt lose my daughter per say...I just dont get to see her everyday when I get home. That I really miss. I should have been a bit clearer on that one sorry guys. As for how it happened...well I guess the ex had been lookin up old school buddies on facebook. While I was gone she decided to meet up with a few and rekindled a relationship.

So you're saying that, altho married with a child, you took a vacation to Mexico on your own without them and now you are wondering what happened? It seems to me that the problems were in there long before she found facebook

re: daughter, if you have the opportunity, you could drive her to school every day, or pick her up. That gives you and she alone time and a regular routine that she will find comforting and safe. If she doesn't see you, perhaps you could make sure you call every day. It takes very little to make a child happy and just as easy to make them unhappy, feeling unloved or rejected simply by not keeping in touch in such a simple way.

 

[bcneil]

Hang in there dude!
Your friends will come back in time.
Likely after their divorces.

By then you will be the expert in pooning, and can lead them.

But its a little odd, most of my friends that are married, don't care I poon.
Some of them even admit that they are a little jealous, I get young hot girls for a few hundred dollars a month. They get their old bitchy wife, that runs them a few thousand a month.

Oh but their wives all absolutely hate me, and my horrible lifestyle

 

[srjinbc]

The vacation was not alone Fortunate. I have a friend that has a time share so he cashed in a week. I asked if the ex wanted to go but A- she will not under any circumstance fly and B- she stated that is was digustingly hot and full of stinky mexicans.
For what it is worth ..it was digustlingly hot
I also opted to back out of the trip for her but she said go.

And yes I do talk to my girl everyday, sometime 2-3 times a day but that doesnt replace the hugs when you get home from work. She also does understand what is going on. Although she is only 6 she is pretty smart. I did tell her that her mum and dad wanted time away from each other but the benefit for her was now she has 2 places to fill with toys.

I am a big boy and Im sure there are a few SP that will help me through

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Why is it that people have a problem with the philosophy of "if it flies floats or f*cks..rent it". After a 7 year relationship that ended when I returned home from a mexican vacation I have adopted this attitude. I have been disowned by all my friends that are still in relationships. After losing the house, one truck, my daughter and part of my business earnings I dont see a problem with my new found faith. I would love to hear some imput from others ...maybe Im wrong but I doubt it.
Thanks in advance from this newbie perbert.

Truthfully, I wish I had learned this lesson years ago. I'm not divorced but if it ever happens my daughter will be well looked after. Her well being matters more to me than even my own well being.

 

[lenny]

Love is over rated

Why is it that people have a problem with the philosophy of "if it flies floats or f*cks..rent it".

They've been brainwashed by Hollywood chick flicks?

"Love is just an illusion i'm trying to forget"


http://www.onlineplaymusic.com/that_is_why_you_go_away.html


http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/love101/lv1_2.htm

 

[smackyo]

So you're saying that, altho married with a child, you took a vacation to Mexico on your own without them and now you are wondering what happened? It seems to me that the problems were in there long before she found facebook

lol, there is always some way for it to be the mans fault isn't there.

she goes behind his back, gets flirty with the all the old boyfriends she used to fuck and its his fault?

 

[srjinbc]

This thread has taken a mild left turn. Don't get me wrong, I dint have any ill feelings towards the ex. We still talk on a daily basis and are quite good friends. She just chose to go in a different direction. I still help her out financially and I make all the required maintenance payments.

The original post was about being blackballed by my buddies for fixing my needs on an hourly basis as opposed to a permanent one. Now the only strings involved are the ones tyeing me to the headboard.

 

[Smoothmover]

This thread has taken a mild left turn. Don't get me wrong, I dint have any ill feelings towards the ex. We still talk on a daily basis and are quite good friends. She just chose to go in a different direction. I still help her out financially and I make all the required maintenance payments.

The original post was about being blackballed by my buddies for fixing my needs on an hourly basis as opposed to a permanent one. Now the only strings involved are the ones tyeing me to the headboard.

go onto youtube and listen to Tom Leykis - why men should not get married - there are 4 parts to it

 

[doggie]

So you're saying that, altho married with a child, you took a vacation to Mexico on your own without them and now you are wondering what happened? It seems to me that the problems were in there long before she found facebook

re: daughter, if you have the opportunity, you could drive her to school every day, or pick her up. That gives you and she alone time and a regular routine that she will find comforting and safe. If she doesn't see you, perhaps you could make sure you call every day. It takes very little to make a child happy and just as easy to make them unhappy, feeling unloved or rejected simply by not keeping in touch in such a simple way.

I agree all the way with FortunateOne.It's not time to be selfish and children need attention.After all there must be something behind this separation.