I checked out doublelist and fetlife and they seemed to me to have like 20 guys for every 1 woman. doublelist had ONE "women for men" ad in Victoria and 37 "men for men" ads, all other "women for blank" ads were empty, tons of "men for blank" ads though. These two sites in my opinion seem more suited to bisexual or gay men because you find more dicks then anything else, if that is your thing then all the power to you. As a heterosexual man it took me over an hour to find 1 or 2 ladies in Nanaimo on either of these sites.
I'd just join Tinder (Free), POF (Free), Seeking arrangement (Not Free $$$), or whatever.
PS: Remember --------> "in my opinion".