Craigslist ad from this morning

[Tabitha]

http://vancouver.en.craigslist.ca/van/cas/4498510174.html

Ill help you rape your wife. - m4mw
We can go for a few beers and go back to your place and rough up your ol lady.
Pin her down rip her clothes off humiliate her. I hold her down while you ass rape her.
Call her nasty names. You the man. Ill do what you tell me to.
She is yours not mine. Lets Smack her around and punish the bitch.
She'll love it.​

WTF?
"she will love it?"
I highly doubt that.
I wonder if he will have fun in jail when he becomes somebody's wife and he gets his ass gang raped?

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

http://vancouver.en.craigslist.ca/van/cas/4498510174.html

Ill help you rape your wife. - m4mw
We can go for a few beers and go back to your place and rough up your ol lady.
Pin her down rip her clothes off humiliate her. I hold her down while you ass rape her.
Call her nasty names. You the man. Ill do what you tell me to.
She is yours not mine. Lets Smack her around and punish the bitch.
She'll love it.​

WTF?
"she will love it?"
I highly doubt that.
I wonder if he will have fun in jail when he becomes somebody's wife and he gets his ass gang raped?

Tabitha,

My SO and I were having that very same conversation about that very same ad...I don't have many hard limits. You can do to me WHATEVER I PERMIT YOU TO, but non-consent play directed at ME is NEVER on the table. I'm a rape survivor; it was a really long time ago, I have dealt with it and never let it define who I am. The rise in 'rape culture' frightens and concerns me. Ads like this one sicken and frighten me, because if just the right predator contacts the would-be predator, an awfully nasty tag team might evolve....

 

[Man in Submission]

Beyond disgusting and reprehensible. As one who adores everything about women, it gets my skin crawling and my blood boiling. Can't the authorities step in and investigate in situations like this? This guys sounds like a ticking time bomb poised for the 'right' opportunity to explode. Wow this world is an insane place sometimes.

 

[peacectryguy]

That's completely fucked up. This guy has a lot of nerve. What somebody should do is get a bunch of his buddies together and respond to the ad faking like they are into it. When the guy shows up they beat the living fuck outta him within an inch of his life and castrate the MFer.

 

[Tabitha]

That's completely fucked up. This guy has a lot of nerve. What somebody should do is get a bunch of his buddies together and respond to the ad faking like they are into it. When the guy shows up they beat the living fuck outta him within an inch of his life and castrate the MFer.

GREAT idea!!

 

[booblover]

better yet rape him and see how much he enjoys it....

 

[grusse]

That's completely fucked up. This guy has a lot of nerve. What somebody should do is get a bunch of his buddies together and respond to the ad faking like they are into it. When the guy shows up they beat the living fuck outta him within an inch of his life and castrate the MFer.

with a dull,rusty knife.

 

[uncleg]

I've pursued a "consensual non-consent" fantasy on CL. I responded to an ad, it was worded muuuuuch better than this. It was by far one of my best sexual experiences ever. I've seen him a couple times, in fact I think I'll email him now

I'm into that kind of play, it's well orchestrated and discussed in full before.

The way this guy words his ad is alarming, his intentions don't seem innocent :/

Consensual non-consent.............exactly what he is looking for.......maybe not the best wordsmith, but who are we to judge how others "sin". He has made it clear it's the other person's call as to what goes on......"yours not mine"....."I'll do what you tell me to". Take a look at what some of the advertisers on this Board offer..........is it really that much different ? If he can find somebody that will play out the fantasy for free, I say good for him.......makes it that much more realistic, rather than walking in, handing over a few hundred and then starting to pretend.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Consensual non-consent.............exactly what he is looking for.......maybe not the best wordsmith, but who are we to judge how others "sin". He has made it clear it's the other person's call as to what goes on......"yours not mine"....."I'll do what you tell me to". Take a look at what some of the advertisers on this Board offer..........is it really that much different ? If he can find somebody that will play out the fantasy for free, I say good for him.......makes it that much more realistic, rather than walking in, handing over a few hundred and then starting to pretend.

There are THREE PEOPLE involved that need to consent though, right? Assuming that he is looking for consensual nonconsent play is optimistic I think, and assumes that he is a healthy grounded sane individual with no personality or substance disorders, and so is everyone that might reply to him...(I don't know . I don't see "I'll help you pretend that we're raping your wife." It doesn't say "I'll help you and your wife fulfill your rape fantasies"...Consensual nonconsent play is not the same as committing a forced sex act with or upon a woman without her consent. To put it another way...What's the difference between consensual nonconsent and rape? One isn't a crime and the other is.

 

[uncleg]

Some people base an opinion on what they read, others will wait til they actually meet the person.........again unto each their own. As to the third person having to agree, I agree and I would assume that a persons husband/boyfriend that wants to play out this type of scenario would have the consent of his wife/girlfriend. Let's face it, if they didn't.....lock them up and throw away the key. My position is just this, don't knock somebody for their fetish/fantasy just because it's not yours......remember, a lot of people here are making a lot of money from fetish/fantasy play that others would consider to be abnormal. As long as everybody consents, what's the harm.

 

[Slapshot1]

Hey all, first post here but no stranger to adult forums.
Anyways, there is a line when it comes to certain things and this just doesn't cross it, it's so far over that you can't even see the line anymore. I consider myself to be fairly open minded when it comes to fetishes and fantasies, as strange as some may seem and for the most part, I would probably never partake in the majority of them. This is neither, and I put the blame squarely on the shoulders of the porn industry. The tags on many sites are endless and when a sick bastard such as this individual subjects himself enough to such things as this, they begin to eventually believe that this type of activity is considered "normal" in their demented world. They don't even have the intelligence to realize that questionable activities portrayed on these sites are scripted role plays and are performed by willing parties. The really sad part is that these sites accept such acts and bear no responsibility for repercussions that may result because of the "disclaimers" that whiz by faster than fuel pump numbers. Rape is, has been, and always will be about power, NOT sexual satisfaction! I honestly hope the brass at CL has removed this posting because for every sicko such as this, there will be someone out there who may respond to this as thinking that it would be a great idea for some unknown reason. Then we can all have the displeasure of hearing about another CL tragedy.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Thank you Slapshot!. This was exactly the point I was trying to make. RAPE is not a sexual act; it's an act of sexual violence. It is an assault of a sexual nature. It's not a hard day at the office; it's not a loot run where you get spammed every time you respawn; it's not someone's team getting blown out four games straight in the playoffs; it's an offense against the Criminal Code of Canada. It's pretty much accepted fact that Paul Bernardo was the Scarborough Rapist...would you have wanted HIM to reply to that ad?

 

[myselftheother]

Hey...didn't this ad pop up awhile ago? Seems to me that this ad's been on CL before...same wording, same phrasing...some serious red flags with that one. How could someone find this fun? What if someone calls up, and sets it up on his unsuspecting ex/wife/gf/etc...bad bad idea.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Consensual non-consent.............exactly what he is looking for.......maybe not the best wordsmith, but who are we to judge how others "sin". He has made it clear it's the other person's call as to what goes on......"yours not mine"....."I'll do what you tell me to". Take a look at what some of the advertisers on this Board offer..........is it really that much different ? If he can find somebody that will play out the fantasy for free, I say good for him.......makes it that much more realistic, rather than walking in, handing over a few hundred and then starting to pretend.

I completely agree. (Did I just say that? Lol )

The guy didn't word it very well indeed but it's most likely a consensual non consent type of situation. I mean, it's not like the world is full of guys wanting to (non consensually) rape their gf's with some random guy from cl. It would be a fantasy where everyone consents prior but the scene involves the appearance of non consent. It's always possible the guys means non consensual but the odds are rather small. It's also quite possible the guy is just a troll with too much time on his hands and trying to get a rise out of people.

Just out of curiosity, what section was it posted under? (it's been flagged/remived)

 

[grusse]

Interesting.

It depends how one defines violence. The scarey part is that there are many who would confidently argue that each of your 73? reviews are actually detailed accounts of acts of violence against women with you as the perpetrator and promoter of said violence.

Just ask our revered politicians and supporters of the Nordic model.

WTF?? I've read Badger's reviews,maybe not all 73, but where is the violence?

in many of the threads the ladies have posted how they enjoyed seeing him,he's a gent,etc.

violence?don't think so.

 

[kauffman]

Obviously I'm not judging fetishes or fantasies. But when I'm putting myself in a position that's so very vulnerable, I want to do it with someone who's a bit more articulate than the OP. I want someone who's very thoughtful and calculated, not reckless and careless. I take a LOT from wording, and what I read in the OP is not something I'd ever entertain, professionally or personally.

I'm glad this thread got me to contact my guy, I can't wait to see him! Woohoo!

assuming that IS a fantasy of the man's wife... choosing a stranger on a craigslist add to participate is awfully dangerous. What if the guy is a rapists and has just been invited into the home? Rape fantasies between two consenting partners should always include an agreed upon safe word. Generally one that cannot be misunderstood. The best one being "orange" as there is nothing that rhymes with it.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Mel I'm talking in regards to the one ad that was posted. When I said:
I'm surprised that crap this this is even allowed to be posted on those sites. Anything that promotes violence towards women should automatically be pulled and IP banned from those sites.
Lets reference that....

Ill help you rape your wife. - m4mw
We can go for a few beers and go back to your place and rough up your ol lady.
Pin her down rip her clothes off humiliate her. I hold her down while you ass rape her.
Call her nasty names. You the man. Ill do what you tell me to.
She is yours not mine. Lets Smack her around and punish the bitch.
She'll love it.

This is the mind of a DEVIANT Fuck nothing more. Quite certain he's NOT the kind of guy you'd want AS A CLIENT.
Stranger sex aside this fucking guy is OUT of BOUNDS!.
This isn't porn this is the beginning of a fking CRIMINAL court case for SEXUAL ASSUALT at some point. Or it has happened, he's out now looking for his next victim.

Guy invites new buddy into home to "Spice up" his sex life. Then Douche boy seizes his opportunity knocks out buddy, rapes his wife and fucks off.

Maybe he's a sick fuck and kills both people who knows.

Clifford Robert Olsen used to advertise for odd jobs for teenagers. Ply them with drugged liquor, RAPE THEM and kill them.

Fixed that for you Badger.

Yes, Badge, and Karla and Paul cruised around in their sexy car, looking pretty and carefree and like someone who would show you a really good time if you hopped in the car and went along with them. Before he met Karla Homolka, it is already believed that Paul Bernardo had committed more than a dozen rapes....Googe "Scarbororough Rapist" and I am pretty sure you'll see a picture of a totally normal looking clean cut white guys...Then came Karla. Their first shared victim was Karla's younger sister. After she drugged her, Karla gave her sister to Paul as a present, whereupon he had nonconsensual sex with the sister while Karla videotaped it.. (I believe it was actually HER birthday?) Their official story about her death was that she had choked to death on her own vomit from the drugged wine she had been given by her sweet loving older sister Karla Homolka. She was their first victim (that we know about) While Karla and Paul were certainly acting out nonconsent fantasies, there was no consent at all by the third party....and that just fed the paraphilia more. Before the publication ban went into affect, I read transcripts of some of the things they did to Kristin French before they eventually killed her, all to go along with their nonconsent fantasies.

Again, consensual nonconsent play is something negotiated by all parties at the table: if it's majority rule and not unanimity, it's rape!

 

[Miss*Bijou]

A number of years ago there was a group of guys 7 and the groom who thought it would be funny (planned wedding proposal)

They dragged some poor girl kicking and screaming from a van. Threw a black bag over her head. With All the men involved dressed in black wearing balaclavas. Once they got her in the car they drove off at high speed.

In Broad daylight on a major road in the lower mainland. People snapped photos. Took video, Phoned Police and followed from a distance as the cars sped off in different directions.

They then assembled and met at a Park. Apparently the boy friend was supposed to arrive with the ransom demand and save his princess. Only problem was the RCMP units responded. As the Boyfriend arrived to explain what was going on as all his friends were face down in the concrete with their hands out to the sides.

Then it was found out it was a staged wedding proposal and the people involved didn't understand why the RCMP came down so heavy on them. It will be going through the courts here pretty soon.
Stupid thing is she said YES!



Fake kidnapping marriage proposal prompts 911 call
Young men red-faced as cops pull up
Kate Webb October 8, 2011 6:12 pm
SURREY (NEWS1130) – Romantic, or stupid? Surrey RCMP were called today after a young man’s idea for a marriage proposal staged to look like a kidnapping went terribly wrong.

Surrey RCMP Staff Sgt. Bruce Anderson says a woman walking near 156 St. and Highway 10 saw a bunch of young men pull a young woman out of a van and into another car around 3:30 this afternoon.

“It appears that poor acting was involved, that they put it to a little more extreme intensity than required, and that’s what gave the passer-by the impression that it was a possible abduction,” he tells News1130.

It wasn’t until several cop cars swooped down on the fake kidnappers 15 minutes later that they learned what was really going on. Anderson says the group was very apologetic, and the girlfriend eventually did say yes.

Oh my god. That's easily one of the most stupid thing I've heard of anyone doing as a marriage proposal. How could they not know people would think it's for real. Holy crap. But looks like they were made for each other if the girl actually said yes. That's messed up. I wonder how her parents felt about that decision. sheesh