I worked with a lady a few years ago and recently she returned to work. She is married and I know her husband travels a lot for work. I am in a different department now but a few months ago she started emailing me at work. I know some of the other ladies that work in the department she is in. She tells me how the other girls teach her about different sexual terms and acts. She has also told me how one of the girls is sexting with another staff member. R Now I got an email telling me how one of the girls isn't happy with her hubby because he doesn't go down on her but she sucks him off. She has told me other details of this girls relationship.
To top it off she doesn't want people to know she is emailing me. And she has told me not to tell anyone. She has stopped by my office to chat when no one was around. I think she is looking for a work relationship but sometimes I get the feeling she wants more.
What do you guys think??
From what you have writtten I can not tell if she likes hearing the sex talk of the other women or if she is ofended by it . In either case I do not think this was a smart resposne to her text even if she thanked you
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"Recently she mentioned her husband had told her she is a MILF. I responded that I would try to pick her up if I saw her at a bar and I told her she is a MILF. She thanked me for the comment."
It sounds like this woman is the office gossip gossips often say Dont tell this to anyone but did you know that " gossip gossip gossip"
Maybe i am a bit cynical but in my mind Her" thank you" might be thank you now I have something on you to gossip about.
I was working for an organization a number of years ago That helped autistic people find employment One of our employees Was in a similar situation. He was a man who had High functioning autism He was a good worker but had very poor social skill's and could not keep a job. We got him a part time job in a retail chain. He worked with a co worker who behaved similar to the woman you described . In the break room she Talked about the sex lives of other co workers. Talked about when her husband would take her on dates etc. One day she talked about how her husband had given her a hickey . My client decided It would be a good Idea to search " how to remove hickeys on Google. He then gave her a print out of an Ehow article on how to remove Hickeys The article was used to charge my client with sexual harassment . Although he was a good employee and the store manager agreed with me that what he did was make a bad choice. The store manager felt he had to get rid of my client .Because if he did not this woman would try to appeal her sexual harassment charge through the system . which would mean more paperwork and lost time for the store manager .
take a look at this list pay paricular atantion to number 4 the Malicious Gossiper.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/glasshe...eople-who-never-succeed-at-work/#3424b4863a5a
Malicious Gossiper.
There’s harmless gossip and then there’s malicious gossip. Harmless gossip is…harmless. But you must avoid the malicious gossiper completely. In fact, put large amounts of space between you and this person.
Assume that since they’re willing to share really bad information with you, they’re sharing it with other people. They’re kind of like the flu.
If you run across a malicious gossiper and they start talking, whatever you do, don’t agree with them. Because the next thing you know, your sentence of “Oh, I agree with you – I bet she totally slept with that guy to get that job” will be shortened to “So and so just told me that so and so slept with so and so!” And voila, you’re screwed.
in your situation what might happen is this " Recently she mentioned her husband had told her she is a MILF. I responded that I would try to pick her up if I saw her at a bar and I told her she is a MILF. She thanked me for the comment."
The above could get changed to this when she talks to her other co workers about you He said that he would try to pick Me up if he saw me at a bar and he told me That I was a MILF. Even though he Knows I have a husband should I talk to the boss about this ?
I mean thats what you said right :gossip:
