Cougar verses Young

[georgebushmoron]

I appreciate the character in older women....But often the baggage out weighs the positive points, especilly the ones in this biz.

This is the sobering key truth. I prefer a woman with depth, and that means a woman with experience, which means over 30. At that age and older, women become comfortable with who they are and that can be a joy to be with. However, in my experience dating an SP, the baggage is definitely there because the experience gained as an SP, while at times enjoyable, is thematically bad and insidious in nature. Hence the older SP is unsurprisingly corroded in her outlook and self. Not that this itself is necessarily bad, but it takes a lot of patience from the partner's point of view. Then again, were I just a customer, the chance of having to deal with her inner turmoil is next to nil while still being able to enjoy good service.

The younger woman is refreshing though often naive. The naivete is a big turn off for me, especially when dealing with an SP. I don't have a lot of respect for a young woman who has naively entered this line of work - it speaks volumes about her lack of wisdom. I would just as soon advise her to go get a regular job.

Most pooners could care less about looks (provided she is at least average looking) and look for mileage. The SP who sells her health at her peril is often very popular. This is also often the SP who is over 30 if she isn't a drug addict (in that case, age just doesn't matter).

In summary, I prefer the older woman (that is, older than 30), but only because of her depth and not because of her mileage. Others will have different desires of course.

 

[Avery]

Hence the older SP is unsurprisingly corroded in her outlook and self.

In my experience, the best SPs are over 30 and didn't become SPs until they were over 30. They aren't "corroded" the way a veteran SP the same age might be.

 

[Annalise Lane]

I think it's not only rates, but more your presentation.
Some young women position themselves as "hard-bodies" and playthings, capitalizing only on the looks and sexual aspect of the encounter. Others emphasize that they can hold a conversation and are, in fact, mature enough to understand and relate to their suitor despite the age. If that presentation is successful, you are more likely to attract clients interested in the whole package even if you are quite young.

You are so right on these words !!

If a lady presents herself as a lady with insight and knowledge in other aspects of life she becomes more sexually appealing then someone who might be either uneducated or life-uneducated and AGE has little or nothing to do with either.

Well Said Thais

In my experience, the best SPs are over 30 and didn't become SPs until they were over 30. They aren't "corroded" the way a veteran SP the same age might be.

As I've meet a few ladies in my short time on this side of the fence I would have to agree' with these words of wisdom Avery. It's interesting that someone with many years in this world at a much younger age would more then likely have a chip on her shoulder then someone who has briefly been here and is older and wiser.

But there are the few exceptions to this train of thought, I've meet a few ladies who are veterans and LOVE this as a profession and actually see it as a profession and NOT a dirty secret society tends to try to give us escorts.

I guess it really depends on why the lady is doing this.

 

[Hollybaby]

Others emphasize that they can hold a conversation and are, in fact, mature enough to understand and relate to their suitor despite the age. If that presentation is successful, you are more likely to attract clients interested in the whole package even if you are quite young.

I agree. I'm always pleasantly surprised and flattered at how many clients want to talk to me about philosophy and the other subjects I'm studying at university.

 

[Chrisinda]

Age, maturity and experience

Of the sp's that I have known, I have found that age matters only to a degree. A great person is great at any age, and an annoying person is annoying at any age. Of course, the youngest are often extrememely giggly or hard, and the older ones are often hard or sad.
But, I have also known a younger (20) year old who was a sweet and pleasant thing that I really enjoyed spending time with (until her boyfriend took her out of the business). I have also known more mature ladies who are lovely, sweet and kind-hearted (and damn sexy!).
Sexy is such a varying thing. For some, it is looks alone, but I think it is about attitude. I think sexy is when you look at someone, and you know they would be so hot in bed, that the two of you are going to practically ignite! It is in how the person looks at you, how they move their lips. The way breathing changes. Sometimes you can tell just looking at someone that they will be very attentive to your body. You know they will ravish you, and you want to ravish them all the more. I think it is too bad that we forget that sexy isn't all about the sexy underwear and hair (um... I still LOVE sexy underwear, and am continuing to grow my hair ).
Intelligence is not age specific, though nothing will ever beat experience.
While I am older than some (not the girl if you are looking to pretend your sp is a virgin, lol), I think that it works to my and my clients' benefit. I am not shy, I have a lot of life experiences and career experiences, and have remained a happy, positive person. I love to laugh, and genuinely enjoy most of my clients.
I have found that, with a few exceptions , clients who are more mature are much nicer to have. A 20 year old client is so much more unpredictable than a 30+ year old client. And so much more likely to ask if you are going to pay them...
The more mature client is often great company to go along with whatever skills they have. I would assume it is often the way with sp's.

 

[xmy556]

While there are pro's and con's to both...

Generally the more mature woman trumps the young one each time. However, this is dependant upon attitude, attentiveness and self-confidence more than any chronological measurement. To me, there is nothing sexier than a woman who blends sexuality with an ability to conduct herself with respect, certainty and confidence. This often requires someone who has a broader intellect, more educational background and wider interests outside of the immediate profession of escorting.

This is not to say that a younger woman would not have these features. It is, however, fairly rare to find in most young women.