Contacting SP when their ad isn't up

[pancakes101]

Hey guys

Just wanted to check what people's thoughts were on this matter? Is it acceptable to contact an SP when their ad isn't up. I mean this with regards to arranging a pre-booking. I'm not really sure what the accepted rules are... does it depend on the SP? I'm only asking because theres often some very well regarded SPs that advertise really infrequently. Its pretty hard sometimes to arrange a booking unless your whole time is spent on LL clicking refresh and getting lucky.

 

[take8easy]

I think it is perfectly fine to contact them. I have done it a lot.

I say that because most SP's keep their phone on only when they are available. So when she is not working, her phone would be off so I don't think it would be annoying to them.

Like you said, many ladies don't advertise as frequently anyways. I have saved phone numbers of the SP's that I know I will repeat and I text them if I wanna see them. If they are available, they respond and if they are not then ..... I don't think it bothers them.

 

[Cub87]

I think it is perfectly fine to contact them. I have done it a lot.

I say that because most SP's keep their phone on only when they are available. So when she is not working, her phone would be off so I don't think it would be annoying to them.

Like you said, many ladies don't advertise as frequently anyways. I have saved phone numbers of the SP's that I know I will repeat and I text them if I wanna see them. If they are available, they respond and if they are not then ..... I don't think it bothers them.

Most ladies use a burner phone or text app so I think it's fine to text them whenever ad up or not

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Hey guys

Just wanted to check what people's thoughts were on this matter? Is it acceptable to contact an SP when their ad isn't up. I mean this with regards to arranging a pre-booking. I'm not really sure what the accepted rules are... does it depend on the SP? I'm only asking because theres often some very well regarded SPs that advertise really infrequently. Its pretty hard sometimes to arrange a booking unless your whole time is spent on LL clicking refresh and getting lucky.

What does the lady's ad/website say? Have you seen her before? Is she an independent who handles her own calls, an agency, or a micro? Are we talking about Elite SPs like Classy Angel, Miss Evelyn Snow, or Cami Parker? I believe most independents who take care of their own correspondence prefer advance bookings & as such, they would state that on their ad or website. Girls who work very part time/UTR may take their ads down precisely so that people DON'T contact them unless they are available; this may also be a sign though that they are not the most reputable or reliable of providers. That said, I cannot stress again the importance of saying that it pays to read ads. Ladies may choose to work in whatever way they please...

 

[felixthecat]

Girls who work very part time/UTR may take their ads down precisely so that people DON'T contact them unless they are available; this may also be a sign though that they are not the most reputable or reliable of providers.

I'd disagree with the latter statement. The opposite is a red flag: SPs that post all the time / bump their ads around the clock / "available 24x7", etc.

The ads are taken down for mostly legitimate reasons: SPs try to protect their privacy / have more interest than they can handle / not able to prebook / taking time off / have a busy life outside. A retired SP used to take her ad down to avoid disappointing people with slow replies. Some SPs become so popular after glowing reviews they have no choice but to take their ads down, otherwise they cannot reply reliably.

Flakes and cheats, on the other hand, would have no problem taking as many calls as they can while they can, book & double book, etc.

To OP, for the first contact, you may be better off doing it only when indicated (recent ad / website / twitter). It's not a crime to email or text, just don't always expect a reply. I don't try, as it's a likely waste of time for both sides.

Specifically for LL, if you catch their ad once and add to LL Favorites, you can look at Favorites list later and estimate when each ad was bumped. You could try your luck after they do their peekaboo thing, the sooner the better.

For repeat visits, generally it should be ok to send an email / text when the ad is down. Don't expect a quick reply. She may not reply at all. Calling is still not an option I'd say. You can always ask on a previous visit what's the best approach.