Consent can be revoked and that's fine

[bean1975]

I have pooning for well over ten years and this is the first time something like this happened but I feel even better visiting this provider (at an AMP): yesterday although initially she was ok with FS as usual but before the act she said she does not feel like it and later refunded the relevant part of the money without me asking or hinting. I want to shout this at anyone who say we exploit these women. Nope, they do what they are willing to do that and not more.

 

[Mr.Darcy]

I have pooning for well over ten years and this is the first time something like this happened but I feel even better visiting this provider (at an AMP): yesterday although initially she was ok with FS as usual but before the act she said she does not feel like it and later refunded the relevant part of the money without me asking or hinting. I want to shout this at anyone who say we exploit these women. Nope, they do what they are willing to do that and not more.

Some girls have that power , some don't and it's not always obvious . I think it's a shallow , blanket statement to place all working women under the same umbrella . Good for the girl who was able to say no in that instance of course .

 

[UhOh]

One instance with this one provider and you use it to make an industry wide broad based theorem.
Theses are women, not robots.

 

[rxwca]

Something could have been happening to her. She could have been getting sick, or her period starting, etc. No one will know.
Many years ago, I was with a street walker in a hotel. She came out of the bathroom and said we can't do FS. Her period started. She offered russian and I went with that.

 

[sevenofnine]

I agree that general broad statements don't apply,

I am a news junkie, and regularly there are stories about trafficked women who get shipped all over the country, they are young, conned into this, or simply trapped, in my city in Edmonton in pretty much every city in Canada, some of them are immigrants, but there is such a thing as white slave trade, creeps grooming young high school girls getting them addicted there vulnerable and there are predators out there, you are stupid if you don't think there are.

that being said, there are women, who for what ever reason are very sexual, found themselves having sex with a large number of changing men, who realized this is stupid, I can make money at this,
there are women who aren't trapped, or trafficked
or rather trapped by the easy money they can make, easy for them any way, this is not a job for everyone.

I have said it before my sp is mature, I know her well, her personally life her business life. she has been doing this over twenty years,
if she is trapped or hooked into being a hooker, then its her need to maintain the lifestyle that she likes.

I think we have a responsibility to know who were fucking. I know its hard or impossible even at times.

but we have a right to be happy we have a right to be sexual,
we have a responsibility to be kind and caring.

this is not wrong,
its our attitude that is sometimes wrong, or can be, I don't believe it has to be,
but it seems hard to