Condom issues

[greasepole]

I haven't worked up the nerve to meet with an SP yet. One issue I have is with condoms. Of course I would never ask a SP to compromise her safety nor would I want to do BBFS. However my issue is I am uncircumsized and without fail when using condoms my foreskin has a way of eventually sliding up and covering my glans inside the condom. Of course the sensation goes away and then bye bye erection. And, well, I hate to admit it but not even being 30 years old maintaining an erection can be difficult for me if I'm the least bit nervous about my performance.

This can't be a new problem. There has to be a solution. (No, I'm not going and getting snipped :frusty

Thoughts?

 

[1nitestan]

I've never had problem w/ being uncut and using condoms. The foreskin has to be pulled all the way back before the condom goes on. Not many people know that. That and you're over-thinking about maintaining your hard-on that you lose sight of the other pleasures you are experiencing.

 

[brown25]

I would probably avoid lubricated condoms, as a lot of them seem to have lube outside and INSIDE... this would enable the "sliding" the OP mentioned.

Buy your own unlubricated rubbers, with some latex-safe lube for the outside.

You could also experiment with cock rings. They can give you back in firmness what the condoms take away in sensation.

 

[*emmanuelle]

Even an experienced SP can miss the detail 1nite writes of. one of my first SP experiences ended up with the SP putting the condom put onto a foreskin covered glans. Most SP's I've seen put the condom on and this is appreciated but a surprising number are not aware of this issue.

That sounds to me like personal preference. Plenty of uncut guys want the condom put on with the foreskin all the way up, because they say it is too sensitive if the glans gets too much direct stimulation.

Develope good verbal comm skills. Most partners want and need input. AFAIK none are mind readers and since most women are not penis owner-operators, input is usually welcome and useful.

Yes, a million times yes! Everyone's body is different, and communication is key to having a great time

 

[Cami Parker]

Perhaps with the right lady it will be a non-issue...

 

[PlayfulAlex]

That sounds to me like personal preference. Plenty of uncut guys want the condom put on with the foreskin all the way up, because they say it is too sensitive if the glans gets too much direct stimulation.

Yes, a million times yes! Everyone's body is different, and communication is key to having a great time

100% true, Miss E, you said it!

 

[BORKO]

try female condoms, i use them on occasion and most men prefer them

I heard they look weird...?

 

[amigo67]

try female condoms, i use them on occasion and most men prefer them

hmmm... curious now. As long as they don't feel weird.

 

[VanessaofBC]

using female condoms in place of regular male condoms. i never thought of that before.