SPs are businesswomen, first and foremost. They are out there hustling to make a buck like everyone else.
Kind words and compliments are the best way to soften someone up and make them like you. Just imagine there are hundreds of SPs for us to choose from. Many of them are gorgeous and provide highly satisfactory services. So, what separates them apart...how they treat clients, of course. Who would you want to see...Someone who says, "You're short, fat, bald with a small dick. Did I mention old? I don't think I really have the stomach to go through with full services. Sorry, I'm going to have to pass. Here's your money back"
OR
THE Girl who says, "You're so cute! You remind me of a soft, cuddly, little Teddy Bear. You have an adorable dick."

This SP will make barrels of bacon as opposed to the former who will be completely blacklisted.
Remember, we pay these girls to have sex with us. It is not real. If they wanted to have sex for their own pleasure, 98% of pooners would never make it to first base.
IT'S ALL SMOKE AND MIRRORS...JUST ACCEPT IT FOR WHAT IT IS!!! BE GRATEFUL TO BE UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL WITH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL...EVEN IF IT IS ONLY FOR AN HOUR OR TWO!!