TJ in the 'Peg said:
Bravo! You have pretty much nailed it LS. The one thing I am looking for most, and haven't really found is the passion (hey, if you can realistically fake it, I am fine with that. If I can't tell the difference, then there is no difference). This is what I refer to as Heat.
Either I have to keep looking, or else spend more time with one lady and see if we can make some Heat.
Repeating may be the key but, for my part, there are always signs right from the beginning and they just get stronger and more obvious with repeats. I never negotiate the tip and I always leave the same tip with all of them. If you want heat don't treat them like a prostitute! Sincerly treat them like a date!
IMHO heat can only come from a genuine YMMV connection with a lady. It is natural to sense heat when it is really there and it gets better with every visit. For the ladies it is true that we are there to get our rocks off and that element of the visit is provided with varying degrees of heat but many of the ladies really want to experience heat also and they go out of their way to promote it with you. For my part I always give and get stimulation at equal levels with the ladies. That is to say I put a good effort into making sure that I have set the stage for them to enjoy me as much as I them which includes presenting clean and dressed well, mutual foreplay etc. I have seen a lot of the advertisers in the Wpg. market. I have sensed the most obvious signs of heat with ladies across the age group that I target (25 yrs +).
It would be unfair to list the ones where there was no heat because they probably get hot for a certain type of guy - just not me or more visits than I gave opportunity. I can only think of a few ladies where the heat was obvious right from the beginning.
Willow, Zoe and Sharla were over the top and the heat was very obvious or a real good performance on their part. I will never forget holding a trembling Willow in my arms when she went over the top and lost total control for several minutes (it isn't always the same every repeat but it was always very obvious). Zoe has an incredible way of showing heat and I'm not just taling about her big "O". A really, really big part of satisfaction with these ladies for me is knowing that I was able to make such a beautiful and very sexy lady really really hot! It is the highest compliment that they can give me and they do it without even uttering a word.
Mandy and Brooke were there from the first visit. Mandy showed the biggest increase in heat over a few visits of any of the ladies. I only saw Brooke once but she showed a lot of heat also!
Kerry and I connected well, there was heat, but it took a second and third visit (OK the first time with Kerry was a confusing, for me anyway, action filled double 2 hr. romp with her and Mandy and I had already seen Mandy a few times by then).
There were many others and with the exception of only one other I really had a good time but there was a difference between the others and the OVER THE TOP connections listed.