CIM disappointments

[Somail2008]

Hi guys,

I just want to ask this and see if I make sense, I love deep sloppy BBBJs with CIM, throat pie if possible,

I’ve met loads of amazing providers who’ve done an awesome job right up until income, they slow right down, stop sucking, don’t go deep, not even harder hand action, orgasm falls off a cliff and feels wasted

when we go down on women, we have to keep consistency and follow right through the orgasm,

Anyone else know what I mean?

 

[angry anderson]

Try this.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Hi guys,

I just want to ask this and see if I make sense, I love deep sloppy BBBJs with CIM, throat pie if possible,

I’ve met loads of amazing providers who’ve done an awesome job right up until income, they slow right down, stop sucking, don’t go deep, not even harder hand action, orgasm falls off a cliff and feels wasted

when we go down on women, we have to keep consistency and follow right through the orgasm,

Anyone else know what I mean?

I totally know what you mean. Oooh that feels so good and all of a sudden they take that to mean change tempo. Usually they go faster and I’m like sigh. Even with communication hahaha.

Maybe tell your provider what you like before she starts. Tip her extra. Money is a pretty good motivator sometimes lol.

 

[PuntMeister]

A buddy has shared the same experiences. His comments are for humour purposes only:

“From now on, I will only search for SP’s that include ‘Throat Goat’ and ‘CIM w/Swallow’ in their ad. Even still, I will tip in advance, and put a ‘Consensual Skull Fuck Clause’ in all of my contractual communications. Oh ya, and shower really well”….

 

[Somail2008]

I totally know what you mean. Oooh that feels so good and all of a sudden they take that to mean change tempo. Usually they go faster and I’m like sigh. Even with communication hahaha.

Maybe tell your provider what you like before she starts. Tip her extra. Money is a pretty good motivator sometimes lol.

Yes, perhaps I should be overt in my communication rather then waiting until the end and begging them not to stop or jack hard!

 

[Somail2008]

A buddy has shared the same experiences. His comments are for humour purposes only:

“From now on, I will only search for SP’s that include ‘Throat Goat’ and ‘CIM w/Swallow’ in their ad. Even still, I will tip in advance, and put a ‘Consensual Skull Fuck Clause’ in all of my contractual communications. Oh ya, and shower really well”….

Fantastic, great advice!!!!

 

[SolidSnake]

Perhaps the OP can start posting reviews to warn us about such disappointments.

 

[jammerculture]

Yeah this is unfortunate when this happens. The whole reason I go for CIM is that I don’t want to have to stop right before I pop. Nothing better than when a woman just sucks you through an orgasm. Also we want to at be least be able to pretend that your as into it as we are. I would say ladies if you don’t actually want to do it then don’t offer it.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

It's so hard to find a CIM provider. Swallowers are next to impossible to find. I do prefer CBJs because then I can keep going and bust with no interruptions. Some providers also charge less for CBJs which is awesome since a good bj is better than penetrative sex imo. She has to suck on latex which is not pleasant for her, but if she don't do CIM then she can enjoy the taste of lube and latex!

 

[Somail2008]

Perhaps the OP can start posting reviews to warn us about such disappointments.

I will do I promise

 

[Larry's Torch]

I totally know what you mean. Oooh that feels so good and all of a sudden they take that to mean change tempo. Usually they go faster and I’m like sigh. Even with communication hahaha.
(snip)

I was guilty of that at one time. I'd think to myself "If you like that, wait'll you feel this."
And then I learned to ignore that little voice and just keep doing what felt good in the first place.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Some of the absolute best CIMWS sessions I have had have been from the novice providers. Theirs provided an enthusiasm to pull my man yogurt out of the twins with efforts that had all the eagerness of trying to get that last bit of yummy out of the straw. No attempts to fuck around with suddenly stopping to lick this or to flick the tongue just (once it was apparent what was about to happen) a steady action with full on suction right down to that glorious POP. I think some of the mature providers should remember that when it is time to get to it, just get to it.

 

[Pumped]

Communication really helps. A simple 'like that' when someone is on target, or just saying 'not there'. And that goes for both sides in either BBBJ or DATY.

I find at times that DATY is like trying to figure out where she wants to go for dinner! "You decide!" she says and you're still wrong no matter where you go.

But just give some soft, considerate, gentle feedback about what feels good and to keep going when it feels great.

 

[MRGREEN]

Never requested this service, always made sure to advise my status as it were. A shoulder tap or comment prior. More often than not, the heads up was appreciated but ignored.

 

[Boogeryyc]

Trying to assess whether I’ve ever been disappointed coming in a woman’s mouth……………………………………………………………………..Nope

 

[blondeluver]

Communication really helps. A simple 'like that' when someone is on target, or just saying 'not there'. And that goes for both sides in either BBBJ or DATY.

I find at times that DATY is like trying to figure out where she wants to go for dinner! "You decide!" she says and you're still wrong no matter where you go.

But just give some soft, considerate, gentle feedback about what feels good and to keep going when it feels great.

Not trying to be off topic but as far as DATY goes, you just look for her reactions then you know what works for her. That's assuming she is not jaded enough to block out the sensation!

As for the OP's topic, I think it will take a few visits with the SP to make sure she is comfortable enough to give you the full speed instead of slowing down. Alternatively you can go for the throat goat/$$ extra option like another member suggested.