It's only common courtesy to tell her when you are going to cum. That way she can decide where she wants it to end up. This is supposed to be enjoyable for everyone and no one should do something they aren't comfortable with. And I only really enjoy a BBBJ with CIM if she wants to do it.
CIM and COF Restrictions
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Because its hot. Simple as that.
It feels amazing to have a girl allow you to do it. What ever way we are hard wired makes it the sexiest thing ever. But only if both parties are into it.
Men are visual creatures.
There's a reason every single porn ends that way. men find it hot (not all men obviously)
It feels amazing to have a girl allow you to do it. What ever way we are hard wired makes it the sexiest thing ever. But only if both parties are into it.
Men are visual creatures.
There's a reason every single porn ends that way. men find it hot (not all men obviously)
Dunno about that, COF feels pretty much the same as masturbating. CIM is good, but best when she gets every last drop out of you.
Agreed, although having a cof via her using hands and mouth and actually enjoying it...well that is just a really good time, bestest ever if she herself has just had an orgasm right before,or during.
Holy Grail stuff for me lol
no comparisom between cof and masturbation for me. at the end of sex all I want is cof. hottest thing ever
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COF is definitely on my list of fetishes.
Hold judgment till the end of my thought if you don't mind, I hope I can articulate this without coming off as creepy.
In fight club Edward Norton beat the hell out of the blonde guy because he wanted to "destroy something beautiful". Take something and through violence pervert beauty. This to me is something similar but replacing violence with pure sexuality. You can look at hundreds of beautiful women and be awed by their beauty, but when you see a beautiful woman with cum on her face it doesn't matter what else she is doing it is pure raw sexuality.
Case in point check out Maris Ozawa read news.
Hold judgment till the end of my thought if you don't mind, I hope I can articulate this without coming off as creepy.
In fight club Edward Norton beat the hell out of the blonde guy because he wanted to "destroy something beautiful". Take something and through violence pervert beauty. This to me is something similar but replacing violence with pure sexuality. You can look at hundreds of beautiful women and be awed by their beauty, but when you see a beautiful woman with cum on her face it doesn't matter what else she is doing it is pure raw sexuality.
Case in point check out Maris Ozawa read news.
I do not want to even put the term BBBJ in my ad because if a guy uses that term to search for, my ad will come up.
And then there are those that do not even read the ads. They save numbers into their phones and then call around later. I cannot tell you how many times a day someone calls and THE FIRST thing out of there mouth is . "Hey you do BBBJ". Not, "how are you", "hows your day", just straight to the BBBJ question. We use the word SAFE over and over again to let the caller know we use protection. I like to think of myself as a "safe girl".
If you check my website BBBJ is the first thing on my list of restrictions.
I really wanna give LIJ, or every pooner for that matter, the chance to answer phones for a day.
Put a picture of a hot blond 20 something on ERS and watch the phone ring and ring and ring. I know this has been suggested before but until you walk a mile in our shoes it is really hard to give advice where you have no experience. It would be like me giving you IT advice, LIJ!!!
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Not if she's doing it for you. It's also an emotional experience if she allows it regardless if you do it or she does.
I think that's fine. However, if a high-end service is expected and being paid, it's only "natural" and reasonable for one to expect BBBJ is included as with CIM. With Greek, not so much as that always has been extra and a premium service.
Oh, is that what Elite means? IDK, I see "high end SPs" using the word SAFE as well.
Sure, that's their choice. I seen some average to low-end SPs charge outlandish prices and have lots of restrictions too. And they still generate a lot of clients.
Okay I think the two or you are arguing different things. LIJ is talking about the hobby in general. There are many many many ad that vague and ambiguous. It makes perfect sense to call for clarification.I guess we just handle things differently Vanessa.
I also get asked the same stupid questions over and over again but I try not to let my collective frustration influence my reaction to someone asking the same stupid question again, when it’s that persons first time.
“Safe” and “GFE” and “PSE” seem to differ deepening on the provider and if us Pooners were mind readers, we’d be getting all the sex we needed for free, winning lotteries, and always making the best stock investments.
Although, unleashing all the past frustrations onto an unwitting Pooner who has no idea of why he’s been Blacklisted and why all your friends hate him, could be considered as a true GFE experience I guess
Vanessa seems to have taken the position, this thread is all about her. She feels her ads are sufficient, and therefore if other SPs aren't, well its a not her concern, and shouldn't be discussed.
Where things get blurred is when their ad states open minded GFE but without a set menu or restrictions. If it says Safe GFE I assume everything is covered always.
Otherwise, I normally assume it's a BBBJ but if it's CBJ no biggy for me. Only time I have done the CIM or COF is when the SP actually asked for it after I told her I was gonna cum. One wanted me to taste my own cum and I had no prob with it since after all it was mine anyways. The SP who wanted COF got very aroused by the degradation which was a new experience to me. I am pretty open minded but always respectful if the SP indicates she doesn't want to swallow etc.
Otherwise, I normally assume it's a BBBJ but if it's CBJ no biggy for me. Only time I have done the CIM or COF is when the SP actually asked for it after I told her I was gonna cum. One wanted me to taste my own cum and I had no prob with it since after all it was mine anyways. The SP who wanted COF got very aroused by the degradation which was a new experience to me. I am pretty open minded but always respectful if the SP indicates she doesn't want to swallow etc.
excuse me? certainly not...why would you say that neil??? because I am the only one willing to participate in this thread? if someone quotes me or refers to me, I address them.
edit: anyone else is welcome to participate at any time. I am not going to apologize for my participation on this subject.or any subject for that matter. The only POV i can give is my own.
