"Has anyone tried any of these girls on CL???
Thanks in advance for the info guys"
I'm sorry, but as you can see, nowhere in his post did he come across as "demanding" anything as you claim. You know the old story about assumptions... I'm sure you do.
Anyway, the whole point of assumptions is that it goes off the track like a train wreck and no one gets anywhere. In this case he doesn't get responses to his questions (which is the whole point of a review board such as this) and you and others do not get more reviews and input (which is again, the whole point of a review board).
Maybe a few people here should lighten up a bit and give the give some people the benefit of the doubt, such as new folks, and or be more guiding instead of coming across as the overbearing board police.
You know, when people assume and generalize too much, they are nothing more than drama queens. And selfish too, like they think the other person is, such as in cases such as you infer the other is. And that too can be a contributing factor in people not giving you what you want, and some leaving. And even though boards such as these are for people with common interests, not all have the same motivations which can be due to various factors.
But the point is, some may not be fostering an environment where people may be compelled to contribute due to their overhandedness.
I know where you are coming from. But I think the tact is wrong.
I wish you well.
