An old journeyman told me when I was an apprentice "just cus I ain't getting it at home,don't mean I ain't getting it"
I've never cheated myself, been cheated on so I know how crummy that feels.
I think that’s how conversations go. They drift away and back to the topic. The topic is cheating and a whole bunch of other topics surround the one. If people do cheat, they’re not going to make confession to you. It’s a private thing. And I think most married men aren’t writing reviews in case the wife finds the board. Most married men are probably lurkers and not posters
I wouldn't doubt that many of the clients SPs see are cheating on someone. But why would any SP worth knowing ever out her clients on this board by sharing a story that a client (or two) might recognize as outing them?
There's probably a Reddit forum that would satisfy your need for salacious content. I don't think this is really the place you will find it.